#random redditor whos post i stumbled across from a completely unrelated thread. i hope things go well for you

[weirdbabs]

i stumbled on a reddit post of a guy asking what about parental rights for foreigners in japan bc his wife is getting increasingly violent and physically beating him, and while some people were giving him what seemed to be really good advice, others were like eh it’s probably just postpartum depression (their child is 1, and he says that she was violent before she got pregnant but its only gotten worse). this one comment i just came across is like oh, shes hitting you and stole/broke your phone? youve woken up to a punch in the face? just grin and bear it, take her out to diner, shell calm down after a while

somebody else asked if he should just put up with domestic violence and if they would give the same advice to a woman and they said its different when a man is violent and a woman is violent “how much damage can a woman realistically do to a man? not much”