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theladyinwhite13 · 23 days ago

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the whole “all cis men are bad and therefore all women are perfect and can do no wrong” (regardless of a persons actual beliefs or actions) ideology that i keep seeing in queer spaces is extremely toxic and unhealthy--especially coming from a community that generally criticizes gender and it’s accompanied stereotypes

and also all this does is refuse to acknowledge that abuse CAN and DOES happen in lgbtq relationships, the only difference is that by refusing to talk about it, people don’t know how to identify it, because no. abuse only comes at the hands of cishet men to cishet women right? but ignoring that something is happening is never a progressive way to address it.

and its wild that a community that can agree that gender is a societal construct will also use gender stereotypes to suppress people WITHIN their own community, even when it means being transphobic and biphobic

#queerness equating to literal “girlboss feminism” is gonna be my last straw with this site #i mean this goes into a larger issue but like #-that lgbt spaces are generally just less supportive of bisexual women #but rlly you would think gender WOULDNT matter but yet i still constantly see queer ppl making insane generalizations about others bc of it #its bordering on terf territory and its just. so wild to me #this whole idea is so harmful to like. literally everyone here #like u guys ARE aware the women are not perfect and still always have room to grow right??#being afab is not like. a moral higher ground?#tw discourse #sky.txt

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