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crispy-sand-gator · 4 years ago

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can ppl stop trying to befriend me just to get art from me or to try and get into a relationship etc etc

and stop thinking we’re friends when i only see you as an acquaintance bc at that point i just get super concerned that its gonna go sour asap bc im way more behind in the “friendship” than you are

im extremely suspicious of ppl and need a lot of time to size you up so please stop rushing ahead of me and getting all buddy-buddy when i cant even call you a friend yet

#cas sass #i wanna say pls dont rb but also if u deal with stuff like this feel free to #not at any mutuals or ppl i have added on discord tho #i vented abt this in my main disc group recently but it keeps bugging me so i feel the need to #publicly say smth because its related to yknow. ppl i dont know #but fr it takes a good while for me to think of ppl as friends #and dming me 1 on 1 on discord immediately wont help either so if u wanna befriend me pls try to avoid jumping right onto that route jfccc #that shit just makes me feel like cornered even if i think the other person is cool or nice #and not to vague but i had this guy i was friends with add me on there and it was fine and stuff but i told him i dont do good with dming #first unless i know the person super well (seriously i can only think of 3 people i dm first and 2 of those are irl friends lol)#and he got pissy over that and after we stopped talking for a while he vagued me on twitter like damn thanks for showing me you suck ass #but on the first point (art and relationships) ive had those happen more than id like to admit and all i can say is go fuck yourself #i have the balls to turn people down on the relationship part now esp since im not single but in the past it happened a few times and #it was so forced feeling and 100% one sided #but ive had ppl try to get close to me just to do art trades or get free art too and yall can go fuck yourself too #i completely get wanting to be my friend if ur an artist too bc its like yay cool mutual friend stuff so theres nothing wrong w that but #i mean like when thats your Main goal. not bc you want to actually be my friend.#anyways sorry for a zillion tags i have more i could say abt this but yknow #love a lot of u mutuals tho so once again its not abt you #its just a general thing that bugs me a lot #ive got like 10 layers of defense up when ppl try to get to know me lmao

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