#probably should start tagging this shouldnt i

[carpet-gremlin]

i am LIVING for this dialogue it just keeps getting better and better

[moonlume]

tumblr said draw something bad so I did but I'm mad I still didn't feel anything

[acrayday]

its that time of year again

im redrawing block men to cope >>0

[pickaxethroughtheteeth]

should i make a promo post? i think ill make a promo post

[violetnova217]

so... plans for the new year? i'm personally gonna try to draw more of my beloved circle man Peter and maybe try writing some more fanfiction

Commit arson and take more kneecaps

And hopefully start estrogen if I manage to get outta my current living situation

[artfulanimal]

if you dont know how much i loathe anything related to sexual harassment/rape jokes/rapists with a passiom them you dont know me.

okay, yes, any person with sense hates those things. but it is COMPLEX. as a person who was a subject of s/@ (i…guess…?) and pedophilia it. wow im so good at articulating my points!!!! i loathe it fervently is what im trying to say. and i didnt wind up as well as i thought

lets start with that aside from just being plain WRONG if you have common sense, engaging in sexual acts as a minor could be very detrimental and psychologically damaging for children. they dont have the same emotional or physical maturity to fully comprehend the consequences of their actions, or worse, their abusers. this can greatly harm them physically and mentally. thats why its important to protect and advocate for the well-being of children and prevent them from being exploited or abused.

children shouldnt have to worry about being exposed to sexual acts. they should be able to have a safe childhood in a supportive and secure environment so that they can grow into healthy, well-adjusted adults.

why would you even want to violate children anyway? you know they probably have to raise their hand to use the bathroom, right?? YOU DO KNOW THAT THEY PROBABLY CANT DO MULTIPLICATION, RIGHT????

oh also again feel free to tag accordingly with stuff like cw sa and long post and stuff

~☁️

I understand it dude. I hate them a whole fuck ton too and I wish they would all just incinerate on the spot or at least be tortured for all eternity.

Honestly, it fucking sucks that people like that are allowed to just fucking roam because what they did scared the shit out of their victim into silence. It sucks that people have that thought. It's disgusting that because of that action, people like me and you who have gone through it (even if it wasn't "so bad") get fucked over in the end because they wanted their COCKS (or tits. Women can be rapists.) warmed. It sucks that now I search for yet fear touch.

God, if I could get my hands on the bitches that destroyed my fucking innocence, I'd be painting the walls with their stupid fucking face. I fucking hate them. I fucking HATE THEM.

I just wish that people could actually talk about what happened safely without the fear of their assailant coming after them or having to deal with the reputation change. I wish kids didn't have to grow up so fast because of them. I really wished the world wasn't like this, but fuck. It's what we get.

[arisdaughter]

hi so i gave in and have decided to make this post

this is my take on the... stuff. thats been happening. iykyk

i think that yes, what he did was wrong, and he shouldnt have switched the perpetrator and the victim's roles, especially since by doing so he also ended up affecting others. he shouldnt have reacted so brashly to the anons. he shouldnt have gotten someone else to help him with his apology(but its not necessarily that someone's fault either.)

but at the same time, at the end of the day, he made a mistake. everyone makes mistakes. not to mention, many of us in this community are minors. that most likely includes him. im not saying we should all forgive him instantly. but honestly, he screwed up. thats the gist of it. everyone screws up, though.

i think that everyone has valid points of this, but honestly this couldve been handled more calmly. i dont know whether fred/freddie is real and i dont know whats going on with him right now. but i know hes probably hurting. i know many of us might be after this incident. that's fair. but again, were all human. humans make mistakes. they screw up.

im not gonna talk about what shouldve and shouldnt have been done, but i am going to say this.

i dont hate him. i disapprove of his actions, but i dont hate him. i dont hate people who hate him either, though. i really hope everyone can move on from this eventually, and things start looking up for everyone.

aside from that, id like to just say, if youre planning on making a similar post like this, please stop tagging me on this account and on @demeters-daughter-is-done. id rather just stay out of this as much as possible, sorry.

sorry for the tags, im gonna tag his taglist-

@zariahthewitch @thegroovydaughterofhestia @if-chaos-was-a-boy @the-gods-strange-children

@silena-daughterofaphrodite @fabulousdaughterofhecate @weakest-son-of-sun

@chaos-pers0nified @neoptolemus-achilles-son @bast-the-best26

@goddess-of-bubblegum @gaygirldoodles @luck-is-crucial @reyna4ever

@vicious-daughter-of-zeus @feral-hermes-child @discriminating @unfortunate-daughter-of-hestia

@that-girl-cupid @ariathemortal @love-lightning-forethought @emdabitchass @kaiaalwayswins

@champion-of-revenge @i-was-never-sane @clown-energy-skyrocketing @zoe-aura-of-d3ath @itsyourboyezra

@lunar-eklipso-r @pink-koi-lovejoy @that-daughter-of-athena @sleepy-as-a-song @smileyalater

@gellyhelio @daughter-ofthe-moontitan @demeters-daughter-is-done @the-smart-and-the-dumb-one

@trinket-snatcher @southerndaughterofeos @creature-under-ur-bed @burnt-out-bitxhes

[olderthannetfic]

I do get a little frustrated when antis act like NO minor should EVER have the ability to encounter porn. I started reading smut fic in high school because that was when I was starting to be aware of that kind of thing Feeling Interesting and I learned a lot of important things from the kind of fic that antis hate that i would NEVER have let another living person know i thought about, let alone ask about. Dubcon fic that was tagged as such taught me what consent WASN'T. Noncon fic taught me that fantasizing about things happening to fictional characters that made me sick to imagine actual humans experiencing didn't make me a bad person. (I never, ever want anyone to experience rape, but there was something compelling about "feels so good you can't not be pleasured even if you want not to," even before I read any smut fic at all.) I learned a surprising amount from these "bad fics that will teach minors bad things" because the tags and authors notes would make it clear these things were not what healthy sex looked like. Hell, I learned about the CONCEPT OF A SAFE WORD from BDSM smut fic! And like, antis would probably go "you shouldnt have been exposed to that as a minor!" but I would have sought out porn no matter what bc I wanted to Understand, and I'm really fucking thankful I explored that on Ao3 and not PornHub.

And before anyone misunderstands me, I do know that grooming is a thing that can happen and is very bad. I don't think any adult should be sending or recommending smut fic to minors! I am very glad the warning you have to acknowledge on ao3 is there! Any adult engaging with a teenager about their sexual activities, including reading/watching porn, for any reason besides safety is incredibly suspect. But teens are going to want to explore these things and I think Ao3's robust tagging system so people know exactly what things are - and the fact that people so conscientiously WARN, which also indicates it's not something to emulate - makes it one of the safest places for teens to do that.

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[sethdomain]

want my shipping takes that ill still probably get hanged for??? here we go. theyre basically all "everyone chill out" ...it seems like most people are just submitting ships theyd get cancelled for, not takes on shipping. ill do that after in case i completely misread what you were asking for

if ccbeeduo didnt want to get shipped they shouldnt have made their characters get married and have a son and fall in love. natural byproduct, really shouldve expected it. i still think ppl should have chilled fr but like, they both had plenty of examples of what fans were like, they shouldve taken that into account before making those character decisions.

cdapduo discourse was absolutely batshit insane and everyone who posted with a banner saying either "slime is quackity's son and if you ship them you're weird DNI" OR "they keep flirting, if you call slime quackity's son you're weird DNI" pissed me off. how about no one's weird because actually its a roleplay with lots of different perspectives and you can do whatever you want forever . obvs i understood people who were like "i believe this thing, dont fucking yell at me for it" but it sucks that people had to make banners for that fr.

in the same vein, the discourse with emeraldduo. though that one i dont/didnt see as much, i did still see those same banners. even as a family sbi fan, i never saw someone shipping emduo and thought "yeah let me go yell at them and tell them not to interact with me because i personally think theyre family-coded." the devotion is ambiguous but powerful.

Heat Waves was the funniest fic ive ever read because idgaf about either of those guys so it was just like 20 chapters of some guy crying and jacking off and then getting rejected.

i think rarepairs are based as fuck and mischaracterizing guys to fit your ship is fine do whatever you want forever!!!!!!!! people complained to hell and back about fanfics tagging characters and ships and them being ooc . WHO GIVE A FUCK THEY WROTE THAT SHIT FOR FREEEEEEEEE!!!!!! ALSO MANGOBALL'S MONSTER/CHEATER CHEATER WAS A MASTERPIECE

karlnapity was not perfect polyamory i see people glossing over the fact that when they first talked about polyamory quackity started attacking and biting when karl and sapnap kissed and thats fucking FUNNY i want to see more of THAT.

sorry for writing so much i have a lot of opinions

JESUS ANON, honestly idgaf bro i take any spicy opinion as long as its not going straight to 'i love pedophilia/incest' territory that my only rule man

For beeduo, idk if u mean the cc ship or the c ship cause honest to god i was a huge inniter back then and dont follow their stuff closelt that much, but im just gonna assume u mean the rpf cc shipping. Honestly, I don't really agree with ur take, its a bit victim blamey, both ranboo and tubbo were like young and in their naivety expect their fans to uphold their boundary to just not ship them in a rpf way and i think you should've respected their wishes man. You sometimes gotta be reminded that dsmp was just them guys having fun and if they want to rp as a husband then whatev man :p

I agree bruh, i think people were just sscared of a little doomed faggot in action

phil and techno doesn't even act like father/son in the dsmp canon anyway, they act like old bestie

imma be fr idgaf abt heatwaves but that sound awesome

sometime the back of my mind say that, but the evil demon that wants everything to be perfect take over anon.. its hard... I need to get mad at people...

no cucking is allowed in karlnapity... #lame

[trekkele]

You mentioned in one of your tags that you'd like to write a fic where the batkids find out Alfred wasn't so awesome a parent to Bruce and I wanted to ask if you'd like to share some ideas and directions where you could imagine it going?

Would it change the way the kids think and act around Alfred? Or Bruce? And what are some Major Mistakes Alfred made that in retrospect make a lot of sense regarding Bruce's parenting? And what sent the boulder of realisation going in the first place?

I know it sounds like I'm asking for spoilers or the actual, complete plotline which you probably haven't thought out yet, but I'm just curious about various versions of situations and realisations you think could happen. Or things that you'd like to work into your fic but it just wouldn't fit.

Basically, I love your writing and I love this kind of DramaTM within the Batfam and I'd cherish any crumb of information you would like to share.

Thank you and have a wonderful day! <3

Ok so this premise does rely on good dad Bruce, not because shitty parents cant come from shitty parents (they do, usually) but because i think seeing Bruce not do the things Alfred does would be how the kids (specifically Dick) realize what kind of parent Alfred is.

And this is really a reaction to the “Alfred is a saint for putting up with Bruce” fandom attitude because if you, as a parent or a guardian, are incapable of parenting a kid, no matter how difficult that kid is, it is your responsibility to either find a way to become what your kid needs or find someone who can. I know a lot of us had shitty parents but a traumatized nine year old shouldnt be “put up with” or “handled” they should be parented. At the very least they should be loved, and they should know they are loved. (Gets off parenting soapbox, climbs onto fandom soapbox)

Also every time i think about this fic i start thinking “maybe Alfred deserves some more grace” because he was put in a pretty impossible situation immediately after losing two people he deeply respected, if not loved, and lets be reasonable the 80-90s were uh, not an ideal time for difficult parenting, and the therapy available for children back then would have probably made things worse if not outright given Bruce ptsd (if he didnt already have that), so theres that. On the other hand, Alfred is also fairly consistently shown as being deeply unkind about idiosyncrasies, and unwilling to admit when he’s wrong.

And theres only so many times you can call your adult child an idiot, and imply that you believe every one of their choices to be invalid or wrong, before it turns out that you are Part of The Problem, or at the very least, A Bitch.

Anyways.

The thing is, i dont think it would change much. I think they might stop taking Alfreds word as gospel, especially in regards to Bruce, and i think they might be more forgiving towards Bruce when he messes up in the long term, but the truth is that whats it going to change? How do you apologize to someone for that? What are you apologizing for?

Because ultimately i dont think Bruce is ready to admit that Alfred is, or was, wrong. Bruce knows he was a bad kid, a difficult kid. His teachers and his family and the newspapers, and even Alfred, have admitted that Bruce was a hard kid to raise. Probably harder to love. He’s never surprised when people leave him, after all.

He does know his own kids don’t deserve that style of parenting though. But thats because they’re better than him. He has to do better because they deserve better, because he chose to be there for them. Alfred never really got that choice, did he? Bruce’s parents trusted Alfred, and Alfred stayed out of his respect for them. Not the bratty kid who cried for a year and refused to speak and would hide under the bed instead of sleep.

And thats another thing - if Bruce admits that Alfred wasnt a good parent, if he admits that Alfred made some terrible mistakes, does that mean he’s betraying the trust his parents placed in him? Is he casting blame onto two people he can only idolize, because to do otherwise is to admit he doesn’t remember much of them anymore?

As for how the kids find out, i think Dick realized in his own. I think Jason realizes because Dick stops him from walking in and interrupting a conversation between the two and before he can ask whats going on he hears Alfred slap Bruce. Im not sure about the rest.

*i started answering this, got distracted, finished writing it in my head, and then forgot i never answered it in reality. But i think thats most of what i wanted to say.

[palestickyprinces]

on my hands and knees begging for a family tree (or multiple ones!!) for your original hotd/asoiaf characters...

anon your hand in marriage immediately. how did you know about my one true passion. reveal yourself in my dms within three days else you'll start to cough

some of these are way more in depth because i. well. i only just made some (cough the tullys and martells cough) while others i worked for a day or two on. the targaryen ones look weird bc this site doesnt like incest (or even when two siblings marry another set of siblings). i will put it under a read more lest it take 5 days to scroll past

me looking at anon

we're just gonna go in order of how i have them saved el oh el. also i was gonna link the trees but then realized anyone can edit them and i dont trust people not to fuck up my hard work so now you have to suffer my shitty screenshots. sorry

Maryce Redwyne

(ignore the fact it links to aemond, its just how the site works) now this one is a little weird bc i never fully committed to when it takes place in her canon so some people are dead who shouldnt be some people arent dead who should be etc... also daeron doesn't exist here cuz uhhh. well. i just never put him in.

this verse is also the ones my ocs vaerra targaryen and alyssa targaryen (of pentos), but i ended up removing them since its really maryce's story and i didnt want to include them for like two appearances worth of time

you may notice she has a child who's formerly gone entirely unmentioned...

Lorea Baratheon

this one is straightforward its just the canon family tree plus lorea. i have various other ocs and possible cousins in mind for her story but i dont think any are included in this. however i did go insane adding practically the entire lannister and baratheon/targaryen family trees theres like 60+ people in this one

House Errol

never mentioned these guys (because i forgot they existed) but theyre fairly important players in lorea's story, she runs into the kingswood after (spoiler!) her mom tries to 🗡 her and ends up at haystack hall. sebastion ends up agreeing to let her stay, then as the war continues is the one to push her to claim the throne. totally not because he wants to be her hand and marry his son to her. who would ever do that.

House Mallister

theres a couple more piper cousins/siblings in law on the other side lyman but thats fine. lyman has a wife named lynette swann and i never decided if his name would remain lyman. also i forgot to ever name one of elinor's brothers in law oops

after the hashtag scandal of elinor having a bastard baby her mom gets her brother lucas to marry his son to elinor and elinor is shipped off to pinkmaiden forever. sad!

Ellyn Hightower + Daemion & Alyssa

considering daemion didnt even have his own tag until like yesterday i dont think i ever shared that he's criston's son so. spoiler! theres nothing like giving your affair baby nearly the same name as your husband ❤️ also daeron is again not here. sorry. would be funny to include him just for the sake of the recent headcanons about criston being his daddy tho. when ur cousin is also ur brother and its not even from the incest side of the family

(im not actually doing that. daeron will probably just not be included. unless i really like him when s3 comes out in a decade)

all the stuff to the side is just canon targ bullshit i added

House Tully

these crop weird on tumblr oops. click on em to see it better. i made alys larys's sister bc i just thought being tortured by ur sister in law is funnier than aunt etc. i considered naming zoe and elmo's dad ernie

House Martell

alia and aelyx are twins <3 i did not add all of daeron's various descendants or ancestors because frankly theres kind of a lot of them and again this site hates incest and it starts looking funny real quick. given more time i mightve added them and the great bastards and all but this is what you get for now

maron said their first kid could have a targy name since they'd be a martell either way so daenerys insisted he give the second one a dornish name and then with the twins they just followed their previous pattern of girl gets dornish boy gets targy. these guys are arguably the happiest family of ocs i got

maron had a paramour before wedding daenerys and he sent her away before the marriage because he knew daenerys would take offense to it, and he didn't want to risk the still fairly new targ-martell alliance, or risk angering daeron, which could theoretically pose a risk to maron's own sister. the family's one real conflict is that the paramour has a son who later shows up claiming he's maron's REAL oldest child and that aeron is actually a blackfyre. thankfully the dornish are not stupid and basically just go ????? before kicking the kid out. well actually a lot more happens than just that but yk how it is. that plotline is also only barely existant. i havent even read a knight of the seven kingdoms yet

if you actually read all this then YAYYYYY come be my friend pls. or just send me more asks about my ocs. i love answering questions and talking for way too long i NEED more asks

[powerpolyculeshowdown]

how do people get an audience for brand new bracket blogs so quickly? are there specific tags to use? do they go around asking for boosts from bigger blogs? i had a good time running a bracket out of my fandom blog recently and would like to try a bigger one, but this part has me baffled, cause on MY blog i already HAD an audience.

uuuh idk tbh? when i made this one, for the original polycule showdown, i @ed blogs that inspired me, since thats what everyone was doing, and sometimes those blogs reblog your post so you gain some visibility. in my case i also have a very specific target audience. i didnt think id get many followers at all, but as it turns out a LOT of people have polyships and a lot of those people make content for their polyship, and have followers who share the ship. so, for example, one of my first interactions in my askbox was w non-fantasy, who from my understanding is rlly big in the liphiyo community. then froggers came w caballeros propaganda and a lot of other caballeros fans showed up. leverage was a surprise but theres a lot of leverage ot3 fans silently watching and following each other.

so i guess like, as a start you should @ the blogs that inspired you in your introduction post, people you tagged will probably reblog that post; in turn their followers are definitely ppl who either run polls or love voting on polls, and those ppl will also reblog it. the subject of your poll might affect how many people become interested. if it's too niche it might get less attention, but that doesnt mean you shouldnt run it! the main thing is have fun tbh, dont worry too much about the numbers cause that shit can drive you insane.

also, since you already have an audience, reblog your own post to your main too!! i did it and i didnt rlly have many followers at all tbh

[ohitsmorgan]

i probably should start learning how to use the tagging system on tumbly shouldnt i

[tottymatsuno]

bc the text isnt really visible...transcript under readmore

Karamatsu: Do you want a lollipop? Need a hug?

Todomatsu: Don't touch me right now! I need to catch my breath!

Osomatsu: It's okay that you got dumped, it was going to happen eventually! After all you should've listened to your oniichans! This is the natural outcome when a NEET tries to show off.

Jyushimatsu (small): watch out!

Todomatsu: You should speak for yourself, Osomatsu-niisan.

Osomatsu: WHAT?! Everyone knows you're single again! Nobody would stay after that!

Karamatsu - Osomatsu -

Todomatsu: Nobody would stay with YOU, Osomatsu. That's the difference between us. You see, I'm better, cuter, and more loved than you so I guess if I were you I'd worry about getting dumped too. But I'm not a loser so I don't. <3

Osomatsu: Ehhhh?! I saw him take you to break up, why are you lying?!

Karamatsu: Todomatsu, there's no need to save face, we all saw you crying.

Todomatsu: You both so are cute... When you're older I'll tell you what we did. Anyways if you paid attention the outcome is clear.

Karamatsu: Hmm?

Jyushimatsu: Bonk!

Osomatsu: What are you pointing at? Your ex?

Todomatsu: You wish! Look closer at his mouth!

Me: I'm going to hell and jail... I'm so sorry. Hell jail here I come.

Karamatsu: Huh? What's that on him?

Todomatsu: The natural outcome of me getting my dick sucked! 💖

Karamatsu: IN PUBLIC?!

Jyushimatsu: I'LL KILL YOU, TOTTY!

Ichimatsu: TAKE THAT WIG OFF!!

Todomatsu: He can't unsuck me even if you hit me! This is why nobodys giving you head for missing!

Karamatsu: DIE!

Osomatsu: YOU HOE!!

Choromatsu: What did I miss?

Jyushimatsu: Killing Totty!

Karamatsu: You need to catch your breath, Todomatsu?! Then take your last, you lil bitch!

Ichimatsu: you don't need hair, do you?!

Choromatsu: Why?

Ichimatsu: He got head.

Choromatsu: Huh?

Todomatsu: YOU CANT HARM ME IN ANYWAY THAT MATTERS!

Osomatsu: His girlboyfriend sucked him off for missing a basket!

Karamatsu: A granny hoop at that!

Choromatsu: Oh... Let's cut it off then!

Me: Unhand my wife!!

[vakta]

my mom just told me that we are "propably going to a restaurant" on my birthday. on my birthday. nice. no i'm definitely not screaming crying throwing up rn.

[poisonhemloc]

“no one but you cares about your everyone lives au therefore you shouldn’t put that scene into this fic” vs “i write for me and i think it would make it better” fight