#pre ejaculation treatment | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

xdaddysprincessxx · 18 days ago

Text

Princess Treatment

Surprise! @almostempty I’m your secret santa!!! I hope you enjoy this as much as I enjoyed writing it(:

Dave York x Nanny!reader x Frankie Morales

Warnings: 18+, SMUT. We’ve got infidelity (dave is married w/kids hence the need for a nanny) threesome, two splash’s of cuck, a small side of pre ejaculation, double penetration, sprinkle of hidden camera, a facial and I think I got everything. Not beta’d, lightly proofed by me. All mistakes are mine.

Wc: 3663

And now, time for the main event

Good ole suburbia. Home sweet home. Perfectly built houses lined up and down the street, all filled with perfect little families. Well behaved children played in the front yards. Neighbors would throw bbq’s in the summer and invite everyone over. Wife’s sending their husbands off to work in the morning. Picture perfect. Of course it’s all a facade. The big blue house tucked back in the cul de sac is home to the York family. Dave and his wife Carol and their two daughters Molly and Alice. To the outside world, they are a beautiful family. Doting father of two with a government job and subservient wife who takes care of the kids and keeps the house clean and dinner on the table by 5 oclock sharp every night. They hired you about a year ago as a live in nanny. Dave is frequently going on business trips and Carol decided she wanted to go back to work and she would need the help with the girls. They were a lovely couple when you first interviewed. You always felt a more warm welcome from Dave than Carol. It was like she had a bad taste in her mouth around you.

You tried your best to ignore the weird vibes you got from her since you were mostly around her on a daily basis. For the most part it wasn’t that bad and you got paid a very pretty penny too which absolutely helped. About a month into living at the York house, you accidentally overheard Dave and Carol arguing. They were trying to keep it hush but you could make out that Carol didn’t like that Dave paid you as much as he did. It seemed like she was overall just bothered by your presence. After that you kinda just kept your head down and did everything expected of you and kept to yourself. You were in charge of getting the girls up in the morning and on the school bus, getting them off the bus in the afternoon and getting them to all their extracurriculars. Not too hard.

After a full year being the York’s nanny, you’ve grown quite close to Molly and Alice. You and Carol are cordial. And then there’s Dave. If tall, mysterious and handsome were an actual person, it would be Dave. He has this aura about him. You could never fully explain it but you could feel it. When he was at home, you felt safe but also felt like you could never shake the feeling that his eyes were always on you somehow. Even when he was away, you could still feel his eyes on you but it wasn’t as strong as when he was home. You’ll never forget the day you caught him blatantly staring down your shirt. You had been wearing a simple black tshirt with a v neck. When you had caught him staring you couldn’t help but be shocked and he just smirked at you as if to say “Yea I’m looking and what are you gonna do about it.” That night you gave into your deepest desire and you got yourself off multiple times thinking of Dave. Your poor fingers were cramped but you kept going. You’d been attracted to him since day 1 but you buried it deep due to the whole he’s a married man thing. You thought of his thick fingers fucking you, how he’d feel coming up behind you, bending you over and just making you take every inch of his dick. You fantasized him using you whenever, wherever. You came thinking about how good he’d feel as you cockwarmed him after a long day at the office.

There was a change in the air the next morning after this. It was a Sunday, which is your off day. You woke up around 6:30am, rolled out of bed and into the shower before getting dressed in a simple, cute black tshirt dress. As you walked down the stairs and towards the kitchen, you noticed it was quiet. Quieter than normal for a Sunday morning in a household with two kids. No cartoons playing, no toys going off, no arguing over who’s turn it is to play with whatever the girls are currently obsessed with. As you rounded the corner, you saw Dave sitting at the kitchen table, wearing a dark blue t-shirt and grey sweatpants with his hair still tousled from sleep.

“Good morning sleeping beauty, I know todays your day off but Carol decided to take the girls to go visit her parents last night so it’s just the two of us today.”

“Oh okay I was curious about the quiet.” You said with a soft giggle as you smiled at Dave before looking down at your feet. As hot as Dave is, it’s hard for you to hold eye contact with him for long. He has a strong, intimidating stare.

Dave goes to stand up and walks over to where your standing,

“Please, help yourself to anything in here. I’m sure you probably know what’s in here more than I do,” he chuckled, “if you need me I’ll be in my office.”

Looking up at him, you gulped and nodded, “Thank you Mr. York.”

Dave’s hand comes up to your face, his thumb and fore finger gently grab your chin as he makes you look at him.

“It’s Dave, sweet girl.”

“Dave” you repeat in a whisper. Knees weak from the proximity to your boss.

He flashes you a toothy smile and a wink before dropping his hand and stepping to the side to get around you to leave the kitchen.

The rest of the morning moves rather quietly into the afternoon when you hear a truck roar into the driveway. You sneak a peak out your bedroom window to see Dave’s friend, Frankie Morales, step out of his truck and make his way to the door on the side of the house that leads down into the basement. You’ve met Frankie a couple of times before. Old military buddy of Dave’s, pretty cute, single father of one. He doesn’t intimidate you like Dave does. He has a softer look, one that makes you wanna cook him meals and surprise him with head after work. You get the vibe he wouldn’t be the type to be overly dominant in the bedroom and on occasion that he does, he feels bad and apologizes immediately after. You like that though, you have a soft spot for men with a tough exterior that are really just big softies.

About an hour has passed since Frankie came over. You start to feel hungry so you decide to go see what Dave would like for dinner. As you go downstairs into the basement, you could hear music playing and the clank of balls being shot into the pockets of the pool table.

As you step off the last step before you even have time to make your presence known, both men stop what they’re doing and look up at you.

“Well speak of the devil, we were just talking about you princess. You’ve met my buddy Frankie before. Come on over, don’t be shy.” Dave has both hands on the pool table as he slightly leans over it. Frankie’s standing next to him, holding a pool stick. You cross the distance from the steps over to the pool table as you nibble on your bottom lip.

You stand across from the men and give them a soft smile as Dave picks up his stick and comes over by you. He lays his stick on the table just so and crouches down, getting eye level with the ball right before he pulls back and lets the stick shoot forward. His target falls into the corner pocket.

He looks up at you, smirking,

“You know how to play sweet girl?”

You shake your head no as Frankie comes over, now sandwiched between the two men.

“Here take my stick.” Frankie hands his stick over to you. As you grab it from him, his big hand covers yours as he reaches behind you and grabs your other hand and places it higher up on the stick. His broad frame covering you as he leans in closer, his face now next to yours.

“Bend down, you wanna be more eye level with the stick to see what angle it’ll hit the ball.”

“Okay” you say softly before taking your eyes off of him and bending over. Your eyes go wide as you feel his bulge press against your ass.

“Don’t overthink it too much or you’ll overshoot.” Dave’s smooth voice interrupted.

You can feel the heat of Dave’s body right next to you with Frankie’s body practically swallowing you whole. You try hard to focus on the game in front of you but in reality, you are zeroed in on the two men. Frankie moves the stick in your hands, you can feel it glide in between your fingers that are covered by his. Before you even realized, the stick shoots forward. The sound of the ball getting smacked and rolling into a pocket snapped you out of this trance you seem to be in.

“You know I was just telling Frankie here a funny story. I saw something last night and,” he chuckles, “I think you’d get a good laugh out of it too. Here,” he slides his phone into your line of sight, a video playing. The video shows a woman laying on a bed, legs spread as her fingers move in a circle on her clit. Her head thrown back, a breathy moan “oh Dave oh fuck me dave please”

Something about this is eerily familiar. After a few seconds it dawns on you.

Your eyes go wide and your face heats up as you watch you finger fuck yourself on your boss’ phone.

You can feel Frankie smile behind you as he takes the stick out of your hand and lays it on the table but still continues to stand behind you.

“Wanna tell me what this is about sweet girl?”

“I - I I I’m s- so sorry Mr York I - I’m not I promise I didn’t mean -“

Dave clicks his tongue as Frankie lets out a chuckle.

“Don’t try and lie to me. I watched you try and finger your poor abused little pussy all night long. Is that any way to treat her? I’m right down the hall baby. Could’ve sent me a text and told me to meet you in the bathroom since you were so needy.”

Your mouth dropped open, absolutely gobsmacked at what he just said. Frankie now fully grinding into your ass as he giggles at the scene in front of him. Dave gets up and walks over to the couch and sits down. Frankie follows his lead and sits on the chair that sits to the side, half facing the couch. Frozen in spot, it takes Dave to give you a come here movement with his fingers before you feel your legs carry your body over to where the men are sitting.

“Come sit on my lap honey. Let’s talk.”

You follow his orders, a part of you terrified your boss knows your deepest darkest secret and the other half hoping they both fuck your brains out. You move on autopilot as you turn to sit on his knee, doing your best to not put a lot of weight on his leg. Dave quickly puts an end to that as he grabs you by the hips and pulls you back on his lap. Your thin dress and his sweatpants leave nothing to the imagination. You can feel his hard on, plain as day.

“I’ve told you before, no need to be shy sweetheart. Spread those pretty legs of yours.”

You lean back against his chest as you look at him shyly before opening your legs for him. His big hands run up and down your thighs before pushing up your dress, revealing your soaked panties.

“Damn baby all this for me?” He says, eyes fixed on your pussy as he pulls them to the side.

“You don’t mind if he watches right?”

“N no”

Dave gives you a big grin, “Good.” His eyes go back down to watch as his fingers go up your wet seam. You watch his fingers as he slowly spreads your lips open, gently exploring your pussy.

“How many fingers you think she can take?”

Before you can even answer, Dave plunges two thick fingers deep inside you illicitly a gasp from you. His fingers alone are so thick, you feel yourself being stretched wide open on them. He moves them in and out at a slow pace as his other hand moves up to grope your tit.

Your eyes flutter shut as he keeps fingering you, pushing in and out, filling you up.

You manage to open your eyes and look over at Frankie. He was leaned back in the chair, manspreading as he palmed his hard cock.

Dave noticed you watching Frankie, taking his fingers out, “Frank, come here. Let’s see how much this tight little pussy can take.”

Frankie gets up and sits next to you and Dave before sliding his hand up your thigh,

“I don’t know Dave, I don’t think she can handle both of us.”

A horny demon seems to take over you and you quickly shake your head yes,

“I I can try”

For as eager as you are, you are equally nervous. You’ve never taken on two dicks at once but holy fuck are you turned on and wanna try.

Both men just smile, more so to themselves as Dave’s fingers pull one side of your pussy open and Frankie’s pulls the other side open. Dave’s the first to plunge a finger in and Frankie follows. They find a nice rhythm as their fingers move in and out. You throw your head back and let out a deep moan that you’ve been trying to hold back. Dave bites the side of your neck as he sinks another finger in. Your pussy convulses around the thick digits. Frankie pulls the top of your dress down and pulls your tit out, leaning down and taking your nipple in his mouth. You can’t help but put your arm around his head and hold him close as he sucks your breast. The feeling of both of their fingers moving in tandem has you on the verge of tears.

“Oh fuck look at that baby, taking four fucking fingers. Soaking our fucking hands, goddamn baby that’s it.” As soon as Dave said that, you managed your best to look down and they both had two fingers plunged deep inside you. You couldn’t tear your eyes away when you felt Dave’s other hand press on your lower stomach. It was like a light switch. You somehow felt them even deeper. The pressure from that and from their fingers moving amplified. Tears escaped your eyes, you couldn’t take much more. This deep build up inside of you clawing its way out. You had started to squirm, your ass now rubbing up and down Dave’s lap. Dave’s breath hitched in your ear.

“Breath baby, just breath, you’re doing so good. Come on breath with me.” Dave managed to get out in a hurried whisper, his own voice giving him away. Seeing you like this has him on the verge of his own orgasm. The friction of your ass rubbing against him added to the sight of you and knowing he’s the reason your falling apart.

A sob wracked through your entire body as your orgasm crashed into you. Your hips practically levitating

Frankie and Dave both watched as you gushed out, practically pushing their fingers out. Dave’s own moans finally coming out as his dick starts to spurt cum inside his sweat pants. His chest heaving as he pants in your ear, holding you close to him.

“Fuck that was hot.” Frankie said breathlessly before leaning in and claiming your lips with his. Your cheeks were wet from the tears as you still felt disoriented but managed to kiss him back with as much fierceness as he had.

Frankie grabbed you by the hips and pulled you on top of him. Your own body still trembling from the aftershocks of that mind blowing moment.

Frankie moved your hips up and down, causing you to grind against him while he continued to claim your lips with his. After a few moments he broke the kiss and made quick work of taking his dick out.

Out of breath and just barely getting ahold of yourself again, you look down at his throbbing cock as he gives it a few pumps before he’s pulling you back close again. You put your arms on his shoulders as he does the work for you, putting his dick right where you want him.

You’re so wet, you slide down his cock easily but the delicious burn of the stretch still makes your jaw drop as it takes your breath away.

Frankie’s head rolls back as his eyes close, feeling every inch of your pussy as he uses you like a fleshlight. Moving your hips up and down as he fucks you slowly. He knows he has a big dick and he doesn’t want to hurt you by going hard too fast. He takes his time and builds up speed before wrapping his arms around you and jack hammering his cock up into you. You collapse, hanging onto him as he makes you take his girthy dick. The two of you so lost in what you were doing, completely forgetting Dave sitting right next to you.

But Dave is very much enjoying the show. He’s pulled out his own cock using his cum as lube, stroking himself as he watches Frankie fuck you.

“Fffuckk that’s it baby, god look at you. What a fucking whore. I wish you could see how you look right now, fucking beautiful.” Dave starts to ramble as he works himself up again. His voice startles you a little as you try to lift your head and look over at him.

Frankie slows his thrusts down, grabbing your ass checks as he rolls his hips up. Grinding deep inside you.

Dave stands up and hets behind you. His big hand pushes on your back causing you to fall forward on Frankie.

You feel his finger probe your asshole, just barely poking in before he sinks in to the knuckle. Your poor pussy starts to convulse on Frankie’s dick, getting even wetter.

“Don’t get scared now baby, you can take us.” Dave said as he starts to move his finger in and out. He bends forward a little before pursing his lips and spitting. A wet splat lands in between your cheeks as he takes his finger out to move it down to your hole. Without notice he sticks a second finger in, slowly working you open. Frankie’s holding you tight to him, not moving inside you as his friend stretch’s you open so you can take both cocks at once.

Your face buried in Frankie’s neck, squeezing your eyes shut as this amazing, full feeling washes over you. It’s so much having a cock in your pussy and feeling his fingers in your ass.

After a few minutes of getting you ready, Dave takes his fingers out. Spits on his hand to add to his already cum lubed dick. Guiding his cock to your back entrance, he slowly pushes the tip in. You gasp as all the air leaves your body. Clinging to Frankie as you try to accommodate both men.

“You’re doing so good baby, that’s it. Fucking beautiful.” Dave grunts out as he pushes all the way in. Once his cock is buried in your ass, you can feel him throb. Dave reaches up and gathers your hair in a ponytail before giving you an experimental grind. Slowly moving back out, he starts to fuck your ass. Frankie begins to thrust up into you. The two men quickly work up a rhythm, both cocks moving in and out, fucking you. Dave tugs on your hair, causing you to lift your head off Frankie’s shoulder and bend back. Loud moans tumble from your lips.

“There she is, look at you taking us sweet girl. Taking it so well, fuck.”

“She’s so wet Dave, I think she likes being stuffed with two dicks. Don’t you baby? Such a slutty little pussy, needs two men to fuck her properly huh?” Frankie groans as your pussy answers for you, tightening on his cock.

A symphony of grunts and moans fill the air, balls slapping against skin, cocks sliding in and out of your holes.

“Frank, I think we should give our girl a nice facial. To thank her for letting us use her pretty holes.”

“No better way to show our appreciation Dave.”

Dave pulls out and pulls you off of Frankie. Doing his best to gently guide you to your knees. Your own legs jelly from the most intense fuck of your life.

Both men stand in front of you, jerking their cocks in your face as you stick your tongue out as far as you can. Dave and Frankie both tap the tip of their cocks on your tongue. Frankie starts to spurt cum first, painting your face with thick globs hitting above your eye and on your tongue. Dave cums next, his hitting you on your cheek and around your mouth. Frankie scoops a little off your face, putting it in your mouth. Closing your mouth around his digits to suck them clean.

“Thank you” you say with a smile and the little bit of air you have left in your lungs.

The men look down at you and smile. They are going to throughly enjoy having you around.

#pedrostoriesgift24 #pedrostories #secret santa #Dave York #frankie morales #Dave x nanny x Frankie #dave york x reader #frankie x reader #smut #pedro pascal #pedro pascal characters

152 notes · View notes

evidence-based-activism · 2 months ago

Note

Ik this isnt a data based question, but what are the main theories on patriarchy’s origin? There’s the marxist feminist one where agriculture was the main instigator, but most hunter-gatherer societies are not completely feminist and gender equal either. Is it a matter of physical strength + motive + opportunity for men? I was just wondering what you thought about the literature on this topic (of course much of it is purely speculative).

Hey! Okay, so I want to start this out by acknowledging that history is not my field. I am in awe of historians because they're essentially making coherent theories out of a patchwork of surviving evidence. Add to that the language barriers (so many modern languages! exponentially more extinct languages!) and the fact that people just lie (in translations! about primary sources! in! primary! sources! I cannot fathom having to figure out whether or not a primary source is reliable or not because Ancient Guy #24232 lies – but only sometimes) and I am amazed the field is as coherent as it is.

(Yes I am aware many of these things apply to both "hard" and "soft" sciences. The difference is I know how to identify the problems in the sciences :'))

So, with that disclaimer, here is some information! (All sources at the end, this time!)

---

The theories:

I found a bunch of different theories about the patriarchy's origins, but it's unclear to me the extent to where these fall on the "vague possibilities" to "generally accepted as fact" scale. They include:

Agriculture: The theory that the invention of agriculture led to permanent human settlements, at which point hierarchies including the patriarchy emerged. Often connected to the ideas of land rights and defense of land rights (warfare) and the ideas of property rights and inheritance of property (i.e., male control over resources and/or the treatment of women as property).

Fire: A similar theory as the agriculture theory, but centered around the invention of fire. Connected to the idea that the movement of women started being restricted around the time fire/cooking was invented (i.e., that women "stayed at/close to camp" to cook while men left to hunt).

Mobility: A theory emphasizing the differences in freedom of movement (i.e., that the division of men hunting and women gathering). Connected to the invention of fire and agriculture, both of which likely restricted women's movement further than before.

Reproductive capacity: The theory that the differential amounts of investment in reproduction (i.e., men need to ejaculate sperm and women must grow the child, give birth, and nurse the child until weaned) resulted in the patriarchy. Sometimes linked to Marxist feminism, by the suggestion that men regard and treat women as a "means of (re)production". Either way, this theory emphasizes the exploitation of women as a resource.

Physical dimorphism: Linked to the reproductive capacity theory but focused more on other physical differences (e.g., men tend to have greater absolute strength, be physically larger, etc.). Focuses on the fact that men have the physical capacity to assault and control women. Often supported with comparisons to other mammals.

Choice: The theory that men (or some men or multiple groups of men) intentionally started the patriarchy to obtain individual benefits and have since (intentionally and/or passively) perpetuated it out of a desire to maintain those benefits.

Others: Some people may divide out theories in different ways. For example, some may contend that the patriarchy followed the invention of a private property/a class system, in which men controlled these resources. (I have lumped this in with agriculture.) There are likely other theories I am unaware of!

Poking holes in these theories:

All of these theories have inconsistencies and challenges that challenge their explanatory and (particularly) predictive validity. Here are some:

Agriculture: If this theory is true we would expect pre- and non-agricultural societies to be consistently (or at least mostly) egalitarian. But, (as anon indicated) this is not necessarily true. There does appear to be/have been at least a partial division of labor by sex (i.e., men hunt and women gather), although it very likely is not as strict as it's been made out to be (i.e., women sometimes did hunt). Further, the idea that land-rights emerged with agriculture ignores the possibility that early societies formed gathering/hunting "territories", as many animals do. The aspects concerning and effects of land-rights (and possibly even property-rights) could then also be applied to pre-agricultural societies. And, indeed, there is some evidence of warfare in pre-agricultural societies. An even bigger outstanding question is the recent evidence suggesting complex societies/social structures prior to agriculture (Gobekli Tepe). That is, if the theory is that agriculture led to complex social structures which led to the patriarchy, how does one account for evidence of complex social structures prior to agriculture.

Fire: A lot of the same criticisms from the agriculture section can be applied here. But in addition that, this theory neglects to consider the fact that, in at least some of these societies, the majority of calories were provided from the women's gathered food. In addition, it doesn't consider how cooking was the (potential) impetus for advancements in human intelligence and society. I'd then ask: if both of these vital components (food source and food modification for further optimization) were being provided by women, why would this social structure result in patriarchy? Another good exercise is to try and see if you could apply this same argument to the opposite outcome. In other words, if (in some other timeline/reality) society was structured around matriarchies, could this theory be used to explain that? I'd argue, yes, it could (and would arguably make even more sense than the current theory). For example, one could argue: "because women were the primary providers (i.e., provided most calories and tended to fires that allowed for further optimization of resources) in early human civilization, while men's contributions (i.e., hunting for meat) often separated them from the larger group, early human societies developed around women's relationships naturally resulting a matriarchy as these society's grew larger/more complex." The fact that this same theory could be so easily applied to the opposite outcome suggests it may be a post hoc fallacy.

Mobility: I'd apply the same criticisms here as I applied to the agriculture and fire theories. In addition to that, it seems as though this may be conflating a current observation ("patriarchal cultures limit women's movement") with a prehistoric explanation ("differences in men's and women's movement resulted in the patriarchy").

Reproductive capacity: The biggest contradiction to this argument is the fact that we don't (always) see this pattern in non-human animals with complex social structures. As much as 43% of primate (lemurs, monkeys, and apes) species exhibit either female-dominant or egalitarian social structures. The most commonly referenced example of this is the bonobo; this considered significant because humans and bonobos are as closely "related" as humans and the male-dominated chimpanzees. There's a number of other mammals (where the female always carries the young) where this is true, including: elephants, hyenas, orcas, lions, and many others. It's true that these social organizations appear to be less common than male-dominated species, but this challenges the predictive value of this theory (i.e., if reproductive differences were the origin of the patriarchy we would not expect there to be female-dominated mammals). (There is an important note here, that any attempts to categorize animal behavior by humans standards runs the risk of anthropomorphizing. That being said, it would also be biased to completely disregard this evidence.) Again we could also try the "applying this theory to the opposite outcome" approach, and again, I'd argue that the resulting theory is even more logical. Consider, for example: "in early human civilization women's natural control over reproduction afforded them disproportionate social power; as societies grew more complex this natural division of power was codified into society, with women's influence over the family unit ultimately being reflected in, first, cooperative social groups and, later, governments." (Again, this exercise demonstrates that this theory may be an example of a post hoc fallacy.)

Physical dimorphism: The criticism for this theory is almost identical to the one for reproductive capacity. In particular, for primates, sexual dimorphism "does not necessarily constrain intersexual power relationships unless it is substantial". This is notable, because modern (and probably early) humans are considered to display – relatively speaking – limited physical dimorphism. Other matriarchal species (e.g., elephants, orcas, lions) also display physical dimorphism despite having larger males.

Choice: One of the biggest holes in this theory is that patriarchies appear to have emerged independently of each other in various locations. Even if you could conceivably imagine a scenario where one group of men in one location intentionally created a patriarchy, it's difficult to imagine this happening many, separate times, without some other influencing factor. I think this theory also falls victim to the current observation ("many men actively and/or passively uphold the patriarchy") for a past explanation ("a group of men chose to create the patriarchy").

Others: There's likely some other issues/counter-arguments for these! (There's probably also counter-counter-arguments as well!)

---

Conclusion:

So, where does this leave us?

I'd argue that it's most likely that some combination of all these factors ultimately led to the patriarchy. I doubt, however, that we'll ever know exactly what factors were involved or how we got from "there" (i.e., some biological and social differences between the sexes) to "here" (i.e., with a complex social organization favoring men and oppressing women).

It's an interesting thought exercise to consider how these factors could have interacted. I'd like to provide and example, but to be explicitly clear, I am not suggesting that this is the "correct" theory (or even a necessarily likely one) this is purely an example of one way these factors could have, potentially, interacted:

The biological differences between women and men (i.e., reproductive capacity and physical dimorphism), resulted in a generalized, but not completely restrictive, division of labor by sex in early human societies (i.e., men tended to undertake long hunts over large areas and women tended to remain in a smaller area, gathering and cultivating plants and hunting/trapping smaller animals while tending to children). In addition to this, men's greater-on-average strength meant they were primarily responsible for defending early territories (i.e., from animals and/or other groups of male humans). These factors advantaged men who were disproportionately inclined towards aggression (i.e., increased the personal survival and mating success) of such men. However, these differences did not ultimately result in organized social oppression of women (i.e., the patriarchy) until these early civilizations started to grow in size around the advent of agriculture. Once this additional factor was added, women's previously reduced mobility became even more restricted and more formalized. Defense of territory (now agricultural land with far denser resources) and the increase in private property (as increased food production allowed for diversification of labor) also resulted in increased warfare. Again, men inclined towards aggression tended to survive longer and have more success in finding a mate, due to the expansion of conflict over land/property. In contrast, women were increasingly treated like the property of men, as something that provides a resource (e.g., babies) and requires protection from other men looking to obtain that resource. This status change was realized in laws and religions restricting women's movement and behavior (i.e., which also indicates a degree of choice in the process – some men, at some point, must have decided to (unfortunately, successfully) try and codify the policies). As time passed these laws and social norms became more and more ingrained, ultimately leading to the patriarchy we know today.

Again, please recognize that I am not suggesting that this is the "correct" theory of the patriarchy's origins. I add this primarily to showcase how many factors may have interacted, but also to demonstrate how any theory will have problems. For example, holes in the above theory include:

We know women have been, and are, involved with the defense of their families and homes. So, why hasn't this also favored women with naturally high aggression? If it actually has, then at what point did society start emphasizing docility in women? What factor resulted in compliance with this new norm? We also know that men are primarily "protective" of women they consider "their own (property)". So if men were primarily protecting "their" women from other men ... then men were already thinking of women as a resource, implying evidence of a patriarchy prior to this initial time point. If this is the case, then what factor came before this?

Further, if women were treated like a resource (i.e., for reproduction) following the invention of agriculture, what is to say they were not also treated this way prior to the invention of agriculture? If they were treated as such, why are there are other species in which this does not happen? What factors result in these differences?

How was the codification of women's oppression successful when there was, presumably, a point in time in which these norms did not yet exist? We can only assume that early women – as fully realized, independent people – would resist obvious attempts at such restriction, so how were these laws initially created and proposed? To assume there would be no resistance implies that women were either already oppressed en mass prior to the codification of such policies or that they generally supported such policies. Both of these assumptions are likely erroneous: how could there be organized, ubiquitous, oppression of women in complex societies without any centralized organization, and why would one assume early women were any less likely to advocate for their own self-interest than early men?

What degree did choice play? If the patriarchy truly did emerge independently in many different places, and the creation of the patriarchy included at least some element of choice, why do we not have strong evidence of any societies fully rejecting patriarchy? Alternately, do we have any evidence of societies fully rejecting patriarchy (either implementing a matriarchy or true egalitarianism)? If so, are there any other factors that differentiate these societies? Was men's choice to codify laws the ultimate factor? If so, what made them so inclined to codify such laws? If it was purely self-interest, then why were no early resistance movements successful?

Those are only a portion of possible critiques, so clearly the proposed scenario is flawed. My central point is really that any theory will be flawed.

To me, the more important question is what perpetuates the patriarchy now (e.g., patriarchal religions, patriarchal laws, commodification of women's bodies, gender stereotypes, etc.) and what we can do about these factors (e.g., legal opposition, gender abolition, etc.). Most importantly, in modern society, the patriarchy is perpetuated by both active choices (e.g., men choosing to pass laws that restrict women's bodily autonomy, men protecting sexual predators, etc.) and passive actions (e.g., compliance with restrictive gender stereotypes, ignoring sexist rhetoric in organized religions, etc.). It is therefore these choices that we must work to shift.

I hope this helps you! It was an interesting topic to research!

References below the cut:

Hansen, C. W., Jensen, P. S., & Skovsgaard, C. V. (2015). Modern gender roles and agricultural history: the Neolithic inheritance. Journal of Economic Growth, 20, 365-404.

Lerner, Gerda, and Gerda Lerner. The Creation of Patriarchy. Oxford Univ. Press, 1987.

Saini, A. (2021). The patriarchs: The origins of inequality. Beacon Press.

Kraemer, S. (1991). The origins of fatherhood: An ancient family process. Family process, 30(4), 377-392.

Wrangham, Richard (2009). Catching Fire: How Cooking Made Us Human. Basic Books.

Potts, M., & Campbell, M. (2008). The origins and future of patriarchy: the biological background of gender politics. Journal of Family Planning and Reproductive Health Care, 34(3), 171–174. doi:10.1783/147118908784734792

Goldberg, S. H. (1974). The inevitability of patriarchy.

UCL. “Analysis: How Did the Patriarchy Start – and Will Evolution Get Rid of It?” UCL News, 20 Sept. 2022, https://www.ucl.ac.uk/news/2022/sep/analysis-how-did-patriarchy-start-and-will-evolution-get-rid-it.

Engels, F. (2001). The origin of the family, private property and the state. Wellred Books.

Venkataraman, V. V., Hoffman, J., Farquharson, K., Davis, H. E., Hagen, E. H., Hames, R. B., ... & Stibbard-Hawkes, D. N. (2024). Female foragers sometimes hunt, yet gendered divisions of labor are real: a comment on Anderson et al.(2023) The Myth of Man the Hunter. Evolution and Human Behavior.

Kaufmann, J. H. (1983). On the definitions and functions of dominance and territoriality. Biological reviews, 58(1), 1-20.

Allen, M. W., & Jones, T. L. (2014). Violence and warfare among hunter-gatherers. Left Coast Press.

Curry, Andrew. “Gobekli Tepe: The World’s First Temple?” Smithsonian Magazine, https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/gobekli-tepe-the-worlds-first-temple-83613665/.

Gibbons, Ann. “The Evolution of Diet.” National Geographic, http://www.nationalgeographic.com/foodfeatures/evolution-of-diet/.

Novak, Sara. “Females Dominate Males in Many Primate Species.” Scientific American, https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/females-dominate-males-in-many-primate-species/.

Lewis, R. J., Kirk, E. C., & Gosselin-Ildari, A. D. (2023). Evolutionary patterns of intersexual power. Animals, 13(23), 3695.

Novak, Sara. “Females Dominate Males in Many Primate Species.” Scientific American, https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/females-dominate-males-in-many-primate-species/.

Pare, Sascha. “6 Animals Where Females Reign Supreme.” Livescience.Com, 4 July 2024, https://www.livescience.com/animals/animals-where-females-reign-supreme.

“In Real Life, Simba’s Mom Would Be Running the Pride.” Animals, 8 July 2019, https://www.nationalgeographic.com/animals/article/lion-pride-family-dynamics-females.

Larsen, C. S. (2003). Equality for the sexes in human evolution? Early hominid sexual dimorphism and implications for mating systems and social behavior. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 100(16), 9103-9104.

*Please note that some of these sources are books that I have not read in their entirety. I also don't necessarily agree with all/any of the content, as I am merely presenting them as sources for the various theories/counter-arguments. They should all be read critically.

**Please also remember my disclaimer ... I did my best, but there are probably more/other/better sources on these topics out there.

#feminism #patriarchal culture

48 notes · View notes

sanctity-in-sexuality · 7 months ago

Note

I'm a little confused about the teaching that it's ok for a couple to use a perforated condom to collect a sperm sample for medical testing (as stated in USCCB's 2020 "Reproductive Technology Evaluation and Treatment of Infertility Guidelines for Catholic Couples"). I assume that even a punctured condom must still reduce the chance of a pregnancy by a little, otherwise it wouldn't collect a sample very well? Isn't reducing the chance of fertilization through the use of a tool like this kinda partially being closed to life? Regular condoms don't have a 100% prevention rate and yet we still condemn them for reducing the chance. I'm also assuming that a couple who does the same behavior but without the intent of keeping a sample for medical testing is doing something faulty. But don't we say that a faulty act cannot be made permissible even with a good intent, like with it still being unacceptable to masturbate to obtain a sperm sample? And I guess I'm confused about the theology handles nitpicks like, how small can the holes be before it's no longer permissible. This isn't like a pressing relevant issue in my life by any means but I'm trying to better understand the logical thinking behind topics in sexual morality! Thanks

The reduced chance of conception in this scenario is so negligible that it is practically non-existent. You honestly need very little sperm to get a woman pregnant; that's why the pull-out method doesn't work as birth control, because even the sperm in the pre-ejaculate is enough to cause conception. To say the amount of sperm a man ejaculates during sex is overkill is an understatement.

Intent doesn't necessarily excuse faulty action, but intent is nonetheless important in determining whether an action was faulty in the first place. Some actions are inherently sinful; others are sinful based on circumstance, means, and intention. Avoidance of conception during sex falls in the latter category. Masturbation falls in the former. (I'm happy to explain why, if you'd like).

I think the problem here is that you assume the issue with condoms are that they reduce conception rates. Which is true, but the moral issue is not the thing itself, but the purpose of its use. The tools themselves are neutral. Using it to collect samples for health evaluations wherein its property for potential barrier to conception has, in all practicality, been rendered harmless, is a licit use of a neutral tool.

FYI, a couple could actually licitly use a condom during sex regularly -- i.e., such a textured one for assisting the wife's pleasure -- if they were to cut the tip off. I don't really see any reason why a couple would regularly use a perforated condom except with the hope of potentially mitigating conception, in which case the intent is clearly sinful (even though it wouldn't work lol).

#condoms #nsfc #ask

11 notes · View notes

wickershells · 2 months ago

Text

halloween '24: watched arrival 2016… hm

the parts I enjoyed were enough to keep me engaged and I do love slowness, films that take their time. I think I really liked the twist. but these are, as I like to say, newborn thoughts

deeply american: the ones instigating violence and fearmongering are of course chinese, russian, pakistani, sudanese -- even the clips of riots in venezuela carry with them an undercurrent of something real bitter; the consistent perception of the american military and those adjacent as logical and tactical (if not seeing the fuller linguistic picture, and therefore arguably unfair), and the subsequent perception of those antithetical as violent and inane. there's a lack of gentleness here to the treatment of non-americans, and yet a gentleness to the cosmic aliens, and perhaps that's the point: an inability to see good in or trust one's neighbour. the movie was released in 2016, and I'm not sure how long of a pre- or post-development it had, but presumably trump's campaign loomed large over this. you build a wall with hands, likewise hands tear them down, hold others'. the arrival of those who are alien to you, the reaching out to know them, the refraining from prior judgment, the refusal to accept incomplete judgment. but there's even an american-ness to that absolvement, dismissive of difference and of harm done. at the end of the day it doesn't feel effective: china still communicates to the aliens with language of weaponry and defeat and victory (specifically attached to mahjong, a chinese game), china still backs out first, china still gives an ultimatum, china is the proverbial big-bad right until they're not. whatever this is trying to teach us about perception is made null and void when it continues through with each plot point just as every other hollywood military movie does. sure, it matters that louise connects through being the one to reach out, and speak fluently to shang in his own language. but regardless of what it could be trying to subvert expectation-wise, it is still a gentle white american woman who saves the equally gentle giants from the violence of the east. the barriers of language are so often the barriers of ourselves; a narrative based on that has to end with communicating in the tongue of another -- I guess I respect that, if it is the vision? but there's a flatness to this in execution. if the vision is the ignorance of america it is far too forgiving

speaking of hands, the aliens are of course themselves hands, to touch and write and outstretch. very symbolic and I do like hand imagery. the white floor of the ship reminded me of the texture of fungus, and from there their writing could look like veins, neural pathways, all connectors. very amuse-bouche, of course. the arrival of understandings

palindrome: begins as it ends. linguistic ouroboros

a little interstellar 2014 with it but somewhat less subtle, which isn't a very high bar to cross (still have a soft spot for that movieee). language shapes time and time shapes language and both are the means through which we elucidate our love, like nuclear semiotics: a bridge we build to care for the ones left to reckon with our waste, in which the building of it means having to reckon with it ourselves

if you know me I gotta make it womb-ish somehow so let's get crazy with it. the alien vocalisations are deep rumbles, clicks, almost whale-songlike; akin to the sounds one might hear within the walls of a womb. let's think of the ship as vagina and its entrance as vulva: the extending lift (penis) ushers them all in, whereupon reaching a certain height they are released (ejaculated) from the tenuous grasp of gravity and are thus free à la sperm to move or fly up & through a rectangular letterbox-opening (cervix) where, if they are un-protected, they will make contact with unity; or those who came down to bestow it, anyway. and who is the main character but a mother and what is her journey but accepting the role of motherhood, in its pains, its joys. to know time is to know death and to know death is to know birth: the arrival of a child. I’ve connected the dots "you haven’t connected shit" I’ve connected them

cinematography was kind of whatever. I've got a draft somewhere about the staleness of modern sci-fi, its stiffness, rigidity

that's all I got right now I think. it was this or rosemary's baby and I do wish we had picked rosemary's babyyyy (I think I thought this was more annihilation-like, more horror? not very halloween night of us) but this was fine, I guess

#only half-kidding about the womb stuff. actually maybe only quarter-kidding the more it circulates in my head. still funny though #arrival 2016 #log

3 notes · View notes

eleganceclinicsurat · 1 month ago

Text

Premature Ejaculation Management: Natural Tips for Lasting Confidence

Premature Ejaculation (PE) is one of the most common men's health issues, affecting millions worldwide. It occurs when a man ejaculates sooner during sexual activity than he or his partner would like. While it can feel frustrating or embarrassing, the good news is that this condition is manageable, often without invasive treatments. By making simple lifestyle changes and adopting natural techniques, many men can improve their condition effectively.

At Elegance Men’s Health Clinic, we offer comprehensive solutions for pre ejaculation treatment, combining expert advice with patient-centred care. In this guide, we will discuss natural ways to tackle premature ejaculation, helping you take the first step toward improving your sexual health and overall well-being.

Understanding Premature Ejaculation

PE can happen for various reasons, including stress, anxiety, hormonal imbalances, or certain medical conditions. It’s essential to consult a male infertility doctor or a male sex doctor near me for a thorough evaluation if this issue persists. However, for mild cases or additional support, natural methods can make a significant difference.

Effective Natural Ways to Improve Premature Ejaculation

1. Practice Pelvic Floor Exercises (Kegels)

Strengthening your pelvic floor muscles can enhance sexual control. Kegel exercises, commonly used for urinary incontinence, are effective for managing premature ejaculation. To perform them:

Identify your pelvic muscles by trying to stop urine mid-flow.

Once identified, contract these muscles for 5-10 seconds, then relax.

Repeat 10-15 times, at least twice daily.

Regular practice can improve stamina and control during intercourse.

2. Focus on Breathing Techniques

Deep, controlled breathing helps calm your mind and body, reducing the anxiety that often triggers PE. During intimacy:

Practice inhaling deeply through your nose for four counts.

Hold the breath for four counts, then exhale slowly through your mouth for six counts.

This relaxation technique lowers your heart rate and shifts focus, delaying ejaculation.

3. Mindfulness, Meditation and Stress Management

Stress and anxiety are often major contributors to premature ejaculation. Managing these effectively can make a huge difference.

Practice mindfulness or meditation to stay relaxed and focused.

Dedicate 10-15 minutes daily to deep breathing exercises to calm your mind and body.

Engage in activities that you enjoy to reduce daily stressors and improve overall well-being.

4. Behavioural Techniques

Certain techniques can help train your body to delay ejaculation naturally:

Stop-Start Method: Pause stimulation when you feel close to ejaculation, then resume once the urge subsides.

Squeeze Technique: Gently squeeze the tip of the penis just before ejaculation to reduce the urge.

These methods require practice but can be highly effective when done consistently.

5. Switch to a Healthy Lifestyle

Adopting a healthier lifestyle can greatly impact sexual performance. Here are some tips:

Maintain a balanced diet: Include foods rich in zinc, magnesium, and omega-3 fatty acids, such as nuts, fish, and leafy greens.

Exercise regularly: Activities like jogging, swimming, or yoga can enhance blood circulation and reduce stress.

Limit alcohol and quit smoking: Both can interfere with sexual stamina and control.

At our health clinic for men, we provide tailored advice on lifestyle adjustments to improve your overall health and sexual well-being.

6. Explore Natural Supplements

Herbal supplements like ashwagandha, ginseng, and maca root are known to support sexual health and enhance stamina. However, consult a specialist before starting any supplement to ensure its safety and efficacy.

If you’re looking for tailored advice and expert care, Elegance Men’s Health Clinic provides holistic solutions for men's health issues, helping you regain confidence and improve overall well-being.

When to Consult a Specialist

While natural remedies are effective for many, there are cases where professional help is necessary. If you notice persistent symptoms despite trying these methods, visit a men's health clinic like Elegance Men’s Health Clinic.

Our expert team includes specialists like male infertility doctors who can evaluate underlying causes and offer advanced pre-ejaculation treatments. Don’t hesitate to seek help - early intervention can significantly improve your quality of life.

Why Choose Elegance Men’s Health Clinic?

At Elegance Men’s Health Clinic, we specialise in addressing men's health issues with a holistic approach. Our clinic provides personalised care, privacy, and effective treatments for conditions like premature ejaculation. With experienced doctors and advanced facilities, we ensure you receive the highest level of care tailored to your needs.

Explore more about our services at Elegance Clinic - Men’s Health Clinic. Take the first step toward reclaiming your confidence and improving your health naturally.

Premature ejaculation is a common and treatable condition. By incorporating natural methods like pelvic exercises, mindful breathing, and a healthier lifestyle, you can see significant improvements. Remember, seeking professional advice is crucial if symptoms persist.

Start your journey toward better sexual health today with expert care at Elegance Men’s Health Clinic, your trusted health clinic for men. We’re here to help you overcome challenges and enhance your well-being.

Ready to improve your health? Contact Elegance Men’s Health Clinic today to book a consultation with a male sex doctor near me and explore our comprehensive range of treatments!

#Premature Ejaculation #pre ejaculation treatment #male infertility doctor #male sex doctor near me #men's health clinic #health clinic for men #men's health issues

0 notes

althafrana · 11 months ago

Text

Kerala's Leading Ayurvedic Sexologist: Healing Sexual Disorders Naturally

Dr. Rana’s Medical Hall, An Exclusive Men’s Sexual Health Clinic in Kerala

Holistic Treatment for All Your Sexual Disorders ● Premature Ejaculation ● Erectile Dysfunction ● Penis Enhancement ● Low libido problems ● Stamina issues ● Infertility ● Hijama and many other sexual problems ● Pre-marital Counselling ● Post Marital counseling

Set up as a single clinic in Kochi, we branched out to Kottayam, Angamaly, Alappuzha, Thrissur, and multiple clinics in India and abroad, apart from online consultation, with thousands of satisfied clients.

Meet us at the following locations ● Ernakulam: https://ranamedicalhall.com/sexologist-near-me-ernakulam/ ● Kottayam: https://ranamedicalhall.com/sexologist-near-me-kottayam/ ● Thrissur: https://ranamedicalhall.com/sexologist-near-me-thrissur/ ● Alappuzha: https://ranamedicalhall.com/sexologist-near-me-alappuzha/ ● Angamaly: https://ranamedicalhall.com/sexologist-near-me-angamaly/

feel free to call us @ +918848511462 for a direct appointment or an online consultation WhatsApp us: https://wa.me/918848511462

For More details: https://ranamedicalhall.com/best-ayurvedic-sexologist-in-kerala/

#AyurvedicSexologist #HolisticHealth #NaturalHealing #SexualWellness #KeralaExpert #VitalityRenewal #TopSexologist #DrRana #Drranamedicalhall #KeralaCare #AyurvedicTreatment #AyurvedicTherapy #AyurvedicSexualClinic #KeralaWellness #AyurvedaCare #NaturalRemedies #TraditionalMedicine #AyurvedicClinic

2 notes · View notes

saramays-blog · 1 month ago

Text

HRT impact - UPDATE 9-December-2024

I’ve been on daily dosage of 6mg Estro with 100mg Spiro since the beginning of December 2024, and it’s been a rollercoaster of emotions for me. I’m talking with 5 other trans women who’ve been on HRT for much longer than myself and one is about 9 months (I’m 7 months on HRT thus far). The experience varies vastly from one person to another.

My testosterone is literally at zero and now I’m on maximum allowed daily estrogen. The experience is out of this world, at least for me. This morning I woke up with sore breasts and I could feel them growing, a really weird sensation. My sense of smell became so sharp I feel like I’m transforming into a dog. I literally smell everything. Also, I started to look at things very differently from before. I began to notice details I used to overlook before, especially with my clothes and how I looked. My taste buds are changing. I no longer have certain food cravings like I used to. It’s a really interesting world being on HRT. One thing that is very noticeable is the sense of touch. My skin became so sensitive to the slightest thing. A wind breeze feels like a sensual massage.

The psychological aspect was very positive for the most part. I did not experience anxiety, no depression or mood swings. I find myself in touch more with my emotions and I feel the urge to let people I know and care about, to know how I feel. I find myself to be less assertive in a strange way; let me explain: isydia was very assertive guy and he’ll let you know it without confrontation. It was an art, the way isydia did it. However, Sara is simply no longer interested to let you know if you don’t show interest in her. It’s a truly foreign world. This HRT transformed my reality right before my eyes. I find myself staring at things I never had interest in pre-HRT.

And here is a tid-bit for you. I will bet you don’t know about this one and if you did, it’s the wrong information. Are you ready for this: Did you know that going on HRT makes your hair fall out, at least initially? My doctor-therapist told me that before I go on hormones. Before HRT, I had such thick hair, you couldn't see my scalp, now, I shed so much I feel like one of those hairy pussycats that shed everywhere. What HRT does is it changes the hormone levels in your body and this change in hormones affect the different stages of hair follicles. For example, it will speed up the hair falling out stage while it slows down the new hair growth. So depending how thick your hair was before starting HRT, you might shed enough to have male bald spots until new hair grows. And if you are genetically prone to male baldness, then your fallen hair might not all grow back. I know some people might have anxiety just from hearing that HRT can make your hair fall out. I told my doctor I still want to go through with it and if he needed proof, I will be willing to take a clipper and shave my head bald so yeah, I was determined to go on hormones at all costs; and as a side note:(I find bald men AND women, especially fully shaven heads very attractive!!!). My doctor told me since I don’t have male baldness, prior to taking HRT, my fallen hair should all grow back the same level and even more, once my HRT dosage gets to a fixed level. Since December 2024, my dosages of estro at 6mg and spiro at 100 mg fixed-dosage level, I should see my hair growing and thickening again; at least in theory. Also, for the trans-women who are wondering, HRT will not stop male baldness if you had it prior to going on hormones. In some cases, HRT slowed down the hair shedding but did not stop it without extra treatment.

My sexual drive at present is literally zero. At 6mg estro and 100mg spiro, I will assure you, you will not have a sexual drive in terms of getting hard, having penetration sex and ejaculating the regular portion of semen. Since my sexual pleasure is not dependent on penetrative sex and not tied to ejaculation-orgasms, this really has no tangible impact for me.

Lastly, the biggest noticeable change you will see in me is that I find myself prone to crying when emotionally provoked. This is a really weird one. isydia never ever cried and now Sara is literally a cry-baby, like what the fuck!!!

I will keep writing these journals for myself to reflect back on and to whomever wants to know the good, the bad and the ugly about taking HRT for Male to Female transformation.

If you have any questions, please drop them in the comment section and I will answer them. And, if I don't know the answer, I will ask my doctor and let you know.

Stay sweet and beautiful 🩷🥰🩷

#hrt woman #lgbtq+#sara mays #transgender woman #hrt mtf #trans woman #Sara-Time-Capsule

0 notes

alvinsmith0176 · 1 month ago

Text

Delay Wipes for Men: Achieve Better Control and Last Longer in Bed

Premature ejaculation is a common issue that affects men of all ages, often leading to frustration and decreased confidence in intimate situations. Fortunately, innovative solutions such as delay wipes for men have made it easier to manage this condition. Products like Clockstopper Climax Delay Wipes and ED wipes are specifically designed to help men control early ejaculation and improve their performance. This article will explore how these wipes work, their benefits, and why the Peakbody Delay Wipes 50 Pack is a top choice for those seeking long-lasting solutions.

Understanding Delay Wipes for Men

Delay wipes are pre-moistened towelettes infused with mild anesthetics like benzocaine or lidocaine. These active ingredients help desensitize the skin, allowing men to delay climax and enjoy more prolonged intimacy. Unlike oral medications or other treatments, delay wipes offer a simple, non-invasive solution that works quickly and effectively.

Clockstopper Climax Delay Wipes are among the most trusted options on the market. They provide just the right amount of desensitization to help men stay in control without sacrificing sensation or pleasure.

Benefits of Using ED Wipes

Quick and Easy Application: ED wipes are easy to use — apply a wipe to the sensitive areas a few minutes before intimacy.

Fast Acting: These wipes work within minutes, making them perfect for spontaneous moments.

Portable and Discreet: Compact and individually packaged, they are easy to carry and use discreetly.

Improved Confidence: By helping men last longer, delay wipes boost self-esteem and enhance the overall sexual experience.

Safe and Effective: Products like the Peakbody Delay Wipes 50 Pack are dermatologically tested to ensure safety and efficacy.

How Delay Wipes Help You Last Longer in Bed

Using longer-in-bed wipes can make a significant difference in intimate encounters. By reducing sensitivity, these wipes give men more significant control over their climax, allowing for extended sessions and more satisfying experiences for both partners.

Clockstopper Climax Delay Wipes are specifically designed to tackle early ejaculation, offering a reliable solution for men who struggle with this issue. The wipes are easy to incorporate into your routine and require no complicated preparation or planning.

The Peabody Delay Wipes 50 Pack provides excellent value for men looking for a long-term solution. With 50 individually wrapped wipes, this pack ensures you’re always prepared at home or on the go.

Why Choose Peakbody Delay Wipes?

Peabody has established a reputation for delivering high-quality products that cater to men’s sexual health needs. The Delay Wipes 50 Pack is ideal for those who want a cost-effective and convenient solution to premature ejaculation. Each wipe is carefully formulated to provide just the right level of desensitization, ensuring effectiveness without over-numbing.

Peakbody wipes are dermatologically tested, making them safe for regular use. They are perfect for men who want to enhance performance and enjoy more fulfilling, intimate moments.

How to Purchase Peakbody Delay Wipes 50 Pack Online

Thanks to modern technology, buying sexual health products has never been easier. You can now purchase Peakbody Delay Wipes 50 Pack online from reputable platforms like Edrugstore. Ordering online offers numerous benefits:

Discreet Shipping: Products are delivered in plain packaging to protect your privacy.

Convenience: Shop from the comfort of your home and have your order delivered right to your doorstep.

Competitive Pricing: Online stores often provide better deals and promotions.

Wide Selection: Access various sexual health products, including the Peakbody Delay Wipes 50 Pack.

Premature ejaculation can impact your confidence and relationships, but it doesn’t have to define your intimate life. With innovative solutions like delay wipes for men, you can take control and enjoy longer-lasting, more satisfying experiences. Products like Clockstopper Climax Delay Wipes and the Peakbody Delay Wipes 50 Pack offer effective, convenient, and discreet ways to manage early ejaculation.

Ready to enhance your performance and regain confidence? Purchase Peakbody Delay Wipes 50 Pack online from Edrugstore today for fast, reliable, and discreet service. Take the first step towards better control and more fulfilling intimate moments.

0 notes

fertilitywithgrace · 3 months ago

Text

Male Fertility Test Vancouver: A Comprehensive Guide

When you’re looking to start a family, male fertility is a crucial part of the equation that’s often overlooked. But did you know that male factors contribute to about 40-50% of infertility cases? If you're in Vancouver and considering male fertility testing, you’re not alone. Whether it’s for peace of mind or understanding potential challenges, here’s everything you need to know.

Understanding Male Fertility Testing

What is Male Fertility Testing?

Male fertility testing is a medical assessment designed to evaluate various aspects of male reproductive health. The primary focus is on semen analysis, but other tests can also help determine the health of sperm and identify potential issues.

Why Male Fertility Tests Are Important

Male fertility tests provide valuable insights into your reproductive health. If you've been trying to conceive for a year or more without success, these tests can help pinpoint underlying problems that might be preventing pregnancy.

Reasons to Consider Male Fertility Testing

Infertility Statistics in Canada

According to the Canadian Fertility and Andrology Society, infertility affects roughly 1 in 6 couples. With such high statistics, it’s essential to consider both partners when evaluating fertility concerns.

Common Signs That Indicate the Need for Testing

Some signs that may suggest the need for male fertility testing include difficulty achieving pregnancy, sexual health issues (e.g., erectile dysfunction), and low sperm count or quality. Other symptoms like pain or swelling in the testicular area could also point toward fertility problems.

Types of Male Fertility Tests

Semen Analysis

The cornerstone of male fertility testing is semen analysis. This test evaluates the volume, concentration, motility (movement), and morphology (shape) of sperm. It’s a straightforward procedure that requires a semen sample to be collected and analyzed in a lab.

Hormone Testing

Hormones play a vital role in sperm production. Hormone tests measure levels of testosterone, FSH (follicle-stimulating hormone), and LH (luteinizing hormone), which can provide insight into underlying fertility issues.

Genetic Testing

For some men, infertility may be linked to genetic factors. Genetic testing can detect chromosomal abnormalities or other genetic conditions that could affect sperm health or production.

Imaging Tests (Ultrasound, MRI)

In some cases, imaging tests like scrotal ultrasound or MRI may be necessary to evaluate the structure of the reproductive organs and detect blockages or abnormalities that might interfere with fertility.

The Male Fertility Testing Process in Vancouver

Where to Get Tested in Vancouver

There are several clinics and fertility centers in Vancouver that offer male fertility testing. Popular options include the Genesis Fertility Centre and Olive Fertility Centre, which provide comprehensive evaluations and personalized treatment plans.

What to Expect During Your Test

The testing process typically starts with a semen analysis. After providing a semen sample, it will be analyzed for various factors such as sperm count, motility, and morphology. Additional tests, like hormone levels or genetic screening, may be recommended based on your initial results.

How to Prepare for a Male Fertility Test

Pre-Test Instructions

Before undergoing fertility testing, your doctor may ask you to abstain from ejaculation for 2-5 days. This ensures that your semen sample provides the most accurate results. Also, avoid alcohol, tobacco, and certain medications leading up to the test.

Lifestyle Factors That Affect Fertility

Lifestyle factors like smoking, heavy drinking, poor diet, and stress can all negatively impact male fertility. It’s a good idea to adopt healthier habits leading up to your test for the most accurate results.

Interpreting Your Male Fertility Test Results

What Does a Normal Result Look Like?

A normal semen analysis will show adequate sperm count (usually 15 million sperm per milliliter or more), strong motility (at least 40% of sperm moving), and healthy morphology (with at least 4% of sperm having a normal shape).

What Abnormal Results Could Mean

Abnormal results could indicate a variety of issues, from low sperm count (oligospermia) to poor sperm motility (asthenozoospermia). These conditions might require further investigation or treatment depending on the severity and underlying causes.

Costs and Coverage for Male Fertility Testing in Vancouver

Insurance and Provincial Healthcare Coverage

In Vancouver, some fertility tests may be covered by provincial healthcare (MSP), but coverage varies. It’s essential to check with your insurance provider and fertility clinic to understand what costs you might be responsible for.

Out-of-Pocket Costs

If tests are not covered, expect to pay between $150 to $400 for a semen analysis. Additional tests like hormone or genetic testing may incur further charges.

Improving Male Fertility Naturally

Diet and Nutrition Tips

Improving fertility often starts with a balanced diet. Focus on foods rich in antioxidants like fruits, vegetables, and nuts. Zinc, vitamin C, and folate are known to support sperm production.

Supplements That Support Fertility

Supplements like Coenzyme Q10, omega-3 fatty acids, and L-carnitine are popular for boosting sperm quality and motility. Always consult with a healthcare professional before adding supplements to your routine.

Lifestyle Changes to Boost Fertility

Maintaining a healthy weight, exercising regularly, reducing stress, and avoiding heat exposure to the testicles (like saunas or hot tubs) can positively impact sperm health.

Treatments for Male Infertility

Medical Treatments (Hormonal Therapy, Surgery)

If fertility issues stem from hormonal imbalances or physical blockages, treatments like hormone therapy or surgery may be necessary. These are common and effective options depending on the specific condition diagnosed.

Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART)

For more severe fertility issues, ART options like Intrauterine Insemination (IUI) or In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) might be recommended. These procedures can significantly increase the chances of conception.

Conclusion

Male fertility testing in Vancouver is an important step in understanding and addressing fertility challenges. Whether you’re just beginning your journey to parenthood or have been trying for a while, these tests offer clarity and guidance. Remember, there are many options available to improve or treat male infertility, so seeking professional advice early on can make all the difference

#Male Fertility Test Vancouver

0 notes

best-sexologist-in-gurugram · 4 months ago

Text

Discovering Top-Notch Sexologist Services in Gurugram: Dr. Anirudh Kaushik

When it comes to seeking specialized care for sexual health issues, choosing the right sexologist is crucial for effective treatment and support. Dr. Anirudh Kaushik, a renowned sexologist in Gurugram, offers exceptional expertise and compassionate care for a wide range of sexual health concerns. With his extensive experience and holistic approach, Dr. Kaushik stands out as a leading sexologist in Gurgaon.

Why Dr. Anirudh Kaushik is the Premier Sexologist in Gurugram

Dr. Anirudh Kaushik has earned his reputation as the best sexologist in Gurugram due to his comprehensive approach and commitment to patient care. Here’s why he is the top choice for sexual health services:

Expertise in Sexual Health: As a distinguished sexologist in Gurugram , Dr. Kaushik brings extensive knowledge and experience in diagnosing and treating various sexual health issues. His expertise ensures accurate assessments and effective treatments tailored to individual needs.

Personalized Treatment Plans: Dr. Kaushik offers customized treatment plans to address specific sexual health concerns. His patient-centered approach ensures that each treatment plan is designed to meet the unique needs of the patient, making him the leading sexologist in Gurgaon.

Comprehensive Services: Dr. Kaushik provides a wide range of services related to sexual health, including treatment for erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, sexual dysfunction, and more. His comprehensive approach makes him a trusted sexologist in Gurugram.

Holistic Care Approach: Dr. Kaushik believes in a holistic approach to sexual health, integrating medical treatments with lifestyle and behavioral counseling. This approach helps address both physical and psychological aspects of sexual health, making him an exceptional sexologist in Gurgaon.

Confidential and Compassionate Care: Dr. Kaushik prioritizes patient confidentiality and offers a compassionate environment where patients can discuss their concerns openly. His empathetic approach ensures that patients feel comfortable and supported throughout their treatment journey.

Services Offered by Dr. Anirudh Kaushik

As the best sexologist in Gurugram , Dr. Anirudh Kaushik provides a range of services designed to address various sexual health issues:

Erectile Dysfunction Treatment: Dr. Kaushik offers effective treatments for erectile dysfunction, utilizing advanced techniques and therapies to help patients regain confidence and improve their sexual health.

Premature Ejaculation Solutions: For those struggling with premature ejaculation, Dr. Kaushik provides personalized treatment plans to address the issue and enhance sexual satisfaction.

Sexual Dysfunction Management: Dr. Kaushik is skilled in diagnosing and treating various types of sexual dysfunction, providing tailored solutions to improve sexual health and overall well-being.

Sexual Health Counseling: Dr. Kaushik offers counseling services to address psychological and emotional factors affecting sexual health. His holistic approach helps patients overcome challenges and achieve a healthier sexual life.

Pre-Marital and Post-Marital Counseling: Dr. Kaushik provides counseling services for individuals and couples to address sexual health issues before and after marriage. His guidance helps couples build strong and fulfilling relationships.

Why Choose Dr. Anirudh Kaushik as Your Sexologist in Gurugram?

Dr. Anirudh Kaushik’s dedication to excellence and patient-centered care makes him the top sexologist in Gurugram. His expertise, comprehensive services, and compassionate approach set him apart as the leading sexologist in Gurgaon. Patients can trust Dr. Kaushik for effective treatments and a supportive environment.

Schedule Your Consultation with the Best Sexologist in Gurugram

If you are seeking a skilled and compassionate sexologist in Gurugram, Dr. Anirudh Kaushik is the ideal choice. His extensive experience and holistic approach ensure the best care for your sexual health needs.

Contact Dr. Anirudh Kaushik today to schedule a consultation and take the first step towards improved sexual health.

Contact Information:

Phone: +91-9910033190

Email: [email protected]

Website: https://www.sexologistingurugram.in/

Choose Dr. Anirudh Kaushik, the best sexologist in Gurugram https://www.sexologistingurugram.in/ , for expert care and personalized treatment. Your journey to better sexual health begins here.

#Best Sexologist in Gurugram #Sexologist in Gurugram

0 notes

alvinsmith0176 · 2 months ago

Text

Delay Wipes for Men: Achieve Better Control and Last Longer in Bed

Understanding Delay Wipes for Men

Benefits of Using ED Wipes

Quick and Easy Application: ED wipes are easy to use—apply a wipe to the sensitive areas a few minutes before intimacy.

Fast Acting: These wipes work within minutes, making them perfect for spontaneous moments.

Portable and Discreet: Compact and individually packaged, they are easy to carry and use discreetly.

Improved Confidence: By helping men last longer, delay wipes boost self-esteem and enhance the overall sexual experience.

Safe and Effective: Products like the Peakbody Delay Wipes 50 Pack are dermatologically tested to ensure safety and efficacy.

How Delay Wipes Help You Last Longer in Bed

The Peabody Delay Wipes 50 Pack provides excellent value for men looking for a long-term solution. With 50 individually wrapped wipes, this pack ensures you’re always prepared at home or on the go.

Why Choose Peakbody Delay Wipes?

Peakbody wipes are dermatologically tested, making them safe for regular use. They are perfect for men who want to enhance performance and enjoy more fulfilling, intimate moments.

How to Purchase Peakbody Delay Wipes 50 Pack Online

Discreet Shipping: Products are delivered in plain packaging to protect your privacy.

Convenience: Shop from the comfort of your home and have your order delivered right to your doorstep.

Competitive Pricing: Online stores often provide better deals and promotions.

Wide Selection: Access various sexual health products, including the Peakbody Delay Wipes 50 Pack.

0 notes

ayushmanskin · 6 months ago

Text

What are the Types of IVF Treatments?

In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) has become a household term, signifying hope for couples struggling with infertility. In Latin, “in vitro” translates to “in glass,” referencing the fertilization process and initial embryo development occurring in a laboratory dish. Often referred to as the “test-tube baby procedure,” IVF bypasses natural conception within the woman’s body. Louise Brown, born in 1978 in England, holds the distinction of being the first “test-tube baby” conceived outside the womb.

Unlike the simpler procedure of artificial insemination where sperm is introduced directly into the uterus, IVF involves fertilization occurring externally. Eggs and sperm are combined in a laboratory dish, and once embryos form, they are transferred back into the woman’s uterus for implantation and pregnancy. While complex and expensive, IVF has become a blessing for many couples facing infertility, with only about 5% seeking this treatment option in the United States since its introduction in 1981.

Let’s delve into the various possibilities offered by IVF, exploring the potential benefits it presents for couples struggling to conceive.

Types of IVF (In Vitro Fertilization)

Conventional IVF: This method involves stimulating the ovaries to produce a higher number of eggs in the initial treatment stage. Medications are used to achieve this stimulation, with the specific protocol varying depending on the individual. This approach is often recommended for women over 35, those with unexplained infertility, or blocked/damaged Fallopian tubes. While offering a 40% to 50% success rate, it’s important to remember there are alternative treatments available.

Natural Cycle IVF: This method aligns egg collection with the woman’s natural menstrual cycle. It avoids the use of stimulation drugs or injections, working with the body’s natural selection of eggs during ovulation. Suitable for women who are still ovulating and prefer to avoid the medications and complexities of conventional IVF, Natural Cycle IVF requires a highly experienced infertility specialist due to its delicate nature. It’s often recommended for women with low ovarian reserve, poor response to conventional IVF, or those seeking to minimize risks and side effects associated with high-dose stimulation.

Minimal Stimulation IVF (Mini-IVF): Similar to conventional IVF in its procedures, Mini-IVF utilizes lower doses of medication, resulting in the production of fewer eggs. In some cases, this method may even be performed without any ovarian stimulation drugs. The reduced medication translates to lower costs per cycle and minimizes the risk of Ovarian Hyperstimulation Syndrome (OHSS).

Intracytoplasmic Sperm Injection (ICSI): This technique is particularly helpful for couples where the male partner has a low sperm count or poor sperm motility. Conventional IVF involves placing around 100,000 sperm with each egg, hoping for natural fertilization overnight in an incubator. ICSI, on the other hand, involves carefully injecting a single, chosen sperm directly into the selected egg for fertilization.

Donor Egg IVF: This method mirrors the IVF process, except that donor eggs are used after ovarian stimulation and egg collection from the donor. The donor eggs are then fertilized with the male partner’s sperm, and the resulting embryo is transferred into the woman’s uterus for pregnancy. Due to the use of young donor eggs, IVF with donor eggs boasts a much higher success rate, reaching around 70%.

ICSI with TESA/Micro TESE: This specialized procedure is used for couples where the male partner has azoospermia (absence of sperm in the ejaculate) and sperms are directly taken from the Testes. It allows the male partner to still father a biological child.

IVF using Donor Sperm: In this scenario, donor sperm is used instead of the male partner’s sperm during the IVF process.

IVF with Surrogacy: This method utilizes the uterus of a gestational carrier to carry the pregnancy to term.

Preimplantation Genetic Testing (PGT): This technique is employed for couples with a history of recurrent miscarriages, IVF failures, or a high risk of having children with genetic abnormalities. PGT allows for selecting healthy embryos for implantation, increasing the chances of a successful pregnancy.

Benefits of IVF Treatment Options

The ultimate goal of IVF is a successful pregnancy leading to the birth of a healthy baby. For couples facing infertility challenges, IVF offers a beacon of hope, making parenthood a reality. Here’s a closer look at the key advantages associated with various IVF types:

Blocked Fallopian Tubes: For women with blocked or damaged Fallopian tubes, IVF offers the best chance of conceiving using their own eggs.

Older Patients with Low Ovarian Reserve: IVF can significantly improve the chances of conception for older patients, particularly women above 35 years of age.

Male Infertility: Couples grappling with male infertility issues have a higher chance of achieving pregnancy through IVF compared to natural conception.

Unexplained Infertility: Roughly 1 in 6 couples encounter fertility problems, and sometimes the cause remains undiagnosed despite thorough investigation. IVF, under the guidance of experienced infertility specialists, can provide a solution for these couples.

PCOS (Polycystic Ovary Syndrome): This hormonal imbalance disrupts menstrual cycles, making natural conception challenging. IVF has proven highly successful for patients with PCOS who may not achieve pregnancy through ovulation induction alone.

Endometriosis: In cases where endometrial tissue grows outside the uterus, IVF can offer a path to pregnancy for women with endometriosis.

Premature Ovarian Failure: Women experiencing premature menopause or ovarian failure can still pursue parenthood through IVF using donor eggs, which typically boast high success rates.

Beyond the Benefits: Additional Considerations

While IVF presents a powerful tool for overcoming infertility, it’s important to acknowledge other factors involved. The process can be emotionally and physically demanding, and the success rate varies depending on individual circumstances. Financial considerations are also significant, as IVF is a costly treatment.

Seeking Professional Guidance

Couples experiencing difficulties achieving pregnancy naturally should consult a qualified IVF specialist without delay. This opens doors to exploring various options, including different types of IVF that can address specific infertility challenges. Choosing the right infertility clinic plays a crucial role in maximizing your chances of a successful outcome.

Ayushman Infertility Centre is a trusted center equipped with advanced technology and a team of experienced infertility specialists. They offer comprehensive care and support throughout the IVF journey, helping couples navigate this life-changing experience with confidence.

Final Note

For couples struggling with infertility, IVF offers a powerful ray of hope. By understanding the different types of IVF available and the potential benefits they present, you can make informed decisions about your fertility journey. With the right guidance and support from a trusted infertility centre like Ayushman Infertility Centre, you can embrace the joys of parenthood.

#ivf treatment #ivf specialist #ivf hospital

0 notes