#ppl cannt handle people ‘passing’ well
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Tbh if someone that “passes” comes out as trans your first reaction should not be “i gotta see a picture of them when they were younger!!”
#like i get being curious but its not necessary in the slightest#bc they are not that person anymore. ppl focus on the past too much smh#’they just pass so well i Must look at a younger picture and make facial comparisons’#its just. it aint right. youre just want to see trans people as who they use to be#ppl cannt handle people ‘passing’ well#idk this is about that makeup artist though and my mothers reaction#when nikki i think is her name start talking abt how loving and accepting her mother is#my mom was like ‘i try to be that for you :)’#and i didnt say anything but haha doesnt feel like it#i dont wanna say ‘i know shes trying her best’ because it doesnt feel like it#she helps me with how i wanna look what i wanna wear etc but... she’ll never ever get my pronouns right gdugdj$c#she occasionally corrects herself and tries to avoid ‘girl/woman/etc’ and SOMETIMES she#but she doesnt change to my actual pronouns she just avids using thek at all#which im only okay with Sometimes gifgdjbd#when its around close family i dont get it........ but around strangers or extended family i understand#i mean idk maybe i shoukd be thankful shes accepting at all i iust wish it was more than it is now#idk maybe she is trying her best and its hard for her but i just dont get it because its never hard for me#so i dont really understand....#but ack idk maybe im just ungrateful idk i hate that i feel this way#anyways sorry thats all unrelated#also she knows i go by andrew bt im too scard t tell her its my actual name and not just a fun online nickname or whatever#it feels like im insultng the name she gave me and i hate it but i dont like going by this name i dont i dont like it
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