#please be respectful 👍 i don't want this post to come off as me saying my headcanon is better

[aroaceyunarukami]

my favourite Naoto headcanon is that they are bigender. this is because I am massively projecting. but genuinely, on my first playthrough of p4, I got around to their social link in mid November, scrambling to finish anything I started, and I liked it. I loved helping them with their own little mystery as a distraction of what was going on at the time in game.

and then I got to their rank 7.

now, I had named the protagonist after myself, but I mostly treated him as his own character, but he just had my name instead. this made one of the lines in Naoto's rank 7 hit a little harder.

“The need to change... And the desire to remain the same...

They’re mixed together...

...And it scares me.”

...

“[Ross]-san... Have you ever felt like that before?”

I had to take a small break to regain my composure. yes, I have absolutely felt that way before. to the point where it hurts.

that was my exact thought process when I was questioning if I would be happier as a trans man or not.

"transmasc" didn't feel entirely right for me, but I knew being a man made me happy. just a year before my interest in p4 was even a thing, I had discovered the bigender label, and I was over the moon.

in that moment, it felt like Naoto was speaking directly to me, relating to me even, and not just at a character I had named after myself.

it made me feel seen. it made me feel like I wasn't weird for once. I loved it. I love being bigender. I love Naoto.

[wisteriawilliowboulevard]

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[seven-oh-four]

i'm not good at putting my thoughts into words, so this post may be incomprehensible, or come off the wrong way. if it seems like what i'm saying is horrendously evil, please understand that i'm probably just really sucky at words. some of these thoughts are incomplete, some of these thoughts are fluid and my opinion changes with the wind. i could also just be flat-out wrong, i guess. just try to go into it with an open mind i suppose

i feel like, even without "religion", everyone has a set of strong personal convictions that don't actually have logic behind them, certain feelings about the way the world is supposed to be. like, oh, you can't change your gender because uh, you just can't, it's not the way it works! or you can't just hand out free money to poor people because they have to work for it! or you can't wipe away the student debt, it's unfair to the people who have suffered from it prior! i feel like more than any religion or ideology, this is what drives people in power to do the things they do. i've wondered this for a long time. people in power want more power - sure, but why? what for? they make it so that everyone has to do what they want them to do... and what do they do with that? what's the end goal? and i feel like i've found my answer.

to make things the way they feel it should be. use religion to justify what doesn't have logic behind it. the way they usually think it "should be" is how it was when they grew up - as they grew up they became aware of the wider world out there and the problems it has, but came to the conclusion that it must be because of the things that weren't there before, back when there weren't any problems. all these socioeconomic problems only happened when gay people started existed, they didn't exist when i was a kid! stuff like that. i hope that made sense. my mother would have explained it better.

This came to me at school last year while trying to figure out what the heck this one kid's problem was. He was so angry all the time at so many little things, and I came to the conclusion that he has more strong feelings about the way the world works than other. like, people who don't want to participate in the activity for phys ed can't just walk laps, they have to participate because it's phys ed. it's an infallible loop of logic inside your own brain that's incredibly hard to break, especially when other people validate it.

i have some too but i keep quiet because i know i'm in the wrong so i just choose to be a respectful person anyway. it's not easy. i'm constantly trying to expel the harmful mindsets in my head but they've latched on tight. thinking someone is "cringe" just for liking a certain thing or acting a certain way. i'm not going to give other examples because people would miss the point and make a callout post about how i'm bad because i have this opinion despite my efforts to not have that opinion.

i'm glad to be able to try to improve myself. even if in all my years i can never change my thinking, i think the important thing is that i knew what was flawed, and tried to improve it, and didn't let it make me act negatively towards people. i think we can all feel a little bit better about ourselves if we do that and realize that we are doing it.

ok i'm bored of writing now. i hope this made sense and was also correct 👍