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randomly thinking about when Kakashi died in the manga and it was leaked via spoilers

I SOBBED FOR LIKE 2 MONTHS

and I kept saying to anyone who would listen to me HES NOT DEAD HES GONNA COME BACK, despite crying over it so much

and they kept saying girl accept it, you're weird, get over it, denial is a river in egypt, etc, etc

AND I WAS LIKE NO AND DID NOT WAVER (even though i was still sad)

then eventually he got resurrected

AND I WAS LIKE SEEEEEEEE

Not saying I manifested Kakashi's resurrection but maybe I did

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ive been getting a lot of love on old posts recently, thank you :)

i also thought i should mention that yesterday i saw a middle aged lady with a rokudaime phone charm on the train, it was very endearing

I hope everyone is good :)

whats happening in naruto land

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Hi there, love your takes on kakashi, I'm glad to see someone else who I share a lot of headcanon about Kakashi with!! My question is, would Kakashi date a oc without a situationship in question? Like no sexy stuff untill they are dating, if at all? And, if yes, can you state some ideas how it would go?

Like no sex before commitment?

Yes, he could, it just would take a lot longer. I just think the situationship/sex before relationship thing would be his way of addressing the sexual tension/attraction without dealing with his *issues*, and that's why I think it's a likely that that's how he segues into a relationship.

He just has to do a lot of internal work to be ready to enter into a serious relationship with somebody, and it would have to be someone he already has an attachment too as well as attraction, and just the amount of time that would take without sex coming into the equation makes it a little less likely.

But not impossible!

They probably just start off as friends or comrades, not a huge part of each other's lives but have spent time together in certain situations like missions etc, enough to build up a connection. But he just has to do a lot of internal work before addressing on any romantic feelings. And it's hard for me to imagine him pursuing a partner with the interest of a relationship from the get-go, you know? Which is why I think how these feelings would come to the surface would be a kiss or something after a lot of tension, you know? But it doesn't have to necessarily involve sex.

Idk, even the word 'situationship', like yeah I guess a lot of my previous headcanons do entail that kind of scenario but I never thought of it like that, like it's a very contemporary dating issue being applied into a different world so it's kinda hard for me into the specifics of how Kakashi might enter into a relationship in a normal way because I think it'd be very hard for him to? Having relationships isn't an established part of his life and whilst I do see him potentially pursuing sex easily I don't see him doing the same with a relationship unless they already had a super strong connection to each other, which sex helps facilitate.

But again, not impossible! I just don't really know how it would go beyond them developing a close friendship with an underlying attraction, then some tense situation might force that attraction out, like my previous headcanons about them having a bad fight about a mistake on a mission, which might culminate in a kiss. But then maybe the OC can put up a boundary, saying that they don't think it's right for them to have sex. And then maybe it can force him into dealing with his own feelings for this person, and maybe say that he wants to have a relationship with them.

I hope that answers your question!

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FISHIIIEEEE YOU'RE BACK OH MY GOD WE MISSED YOU HOW ARE YOU DOING WHAT ARE YOU UP TO AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA- 🥳😆

hello hello!

idk that I’m back back but I’m trying to check in more or at least not go completely awol all the time… just trying to make time for other things, you know?

But I’ve been fine! Work and life, still in Japan, making it work out here and oh god I’m such a social butterfly who’d have thought. I’m suffering financially though LOL but it’s not so bad

I did wear a yukata for the first time a few weeks back! But here’s a few random pics from this year that I’ll delete later hehe:

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thank you for the tag @lemony-snickers <3

i've been on a beatles kick lately and it shows lmao

"In My Life" - The Beatles

"Got My Mind Set on You" - George Harrison

"Sunflower" - Post Malone

"Send Me on My Way" - Rusted Root

"Baby, you're a Rich Man" - The Beatles

"Maahi Ve" (it's from a bollywood movie lmao)

"Waterloo Sunset" - The Kinks

"Shotgun" - George Ezra

おもかげ - vaundy

Here Comes the Sun - The Beatles

tagging @scaredlittlefoxy @dattblobbyfish @aerinth @mylittlesyn @skykashi @chemmerson @katwithakeyboard and whoever else would like to do this!

@wind-becomes-lightning tagged me to shuffle my “on repeat” playlist & post the first 10 songs. so let’s see what my weird summer soundtrack has to offer…

1 “Hunger” - Florence + the Machine

2 “Younger” - Seinabo Sey

3 “Her Life” - Two Feet

4 “Cherry Lambo” - Evalyn

5 “Gooey” - Glass Animals

6 “Clairvoyant” - The Story So Far

7 “Shake” - Yoke Lore

8 “Vagabond” - MisterWives

9 “Bellyache (Marian Hill Remix)” - Billie Eilish, Marian Hill

10 “Alone” - Halsey

i’ll tag a few people. sorry if you’ve already been tagged. @pfreadsandwrites @kakashi-with-the-good-hair @chemmerson

if I didn’t tag you & you wanna do it then hop on that train, my dears! <3

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ok have some rare selfies cuz I felt cute today (that I’ll delete later)

(too lateeeee)

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Ok so im choosing gifts for my close friend who's having a baby (i cant get to the UK to see her so big sad)

THE BIG QUESTION!! PANDA OR PENGUIN

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Not me waking up to like a 100 notes on a flyaway ‘translation’ post I did nearly two years ago 😂 glad you all enjoyed and to those who asked i never did the smut Drabble per line thing but I still might… I still might….

It’s been a while since I updated you guys on anything but the long story short is I’m still busy af but I also went bouldering for the first time!

Like, yeah, I ended up getting hurt by the guy i had feelings for BUT through him I ended up making an awesome friend who keeps encouraging me to do new stuff sooooo have a pic of my waist to ass ratio looking fly as I channel my inner spiderman before I delete the picture later (also face reveal under the cut but I will definitely delete later): (edit - removed these now :)))

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i just finished watching beef and that shit was good omg

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I MISSED A PF FACE REVEAL????? PAIN. :(

Haha you did you did 😭

Just for you I’ll post it again (and also delete it soon) (edit yes it’s gone now)

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HEY HEY SO FOR ONCE A PUBLIC HOLIDAY FELL ON A SATURDAY WHICH MEANS I GET A SATURDAY OFFFF

A full weekend!!!

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im always up to discuss anything! as you guys already know, but just a reminder

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One of my kids was being a gremlin today and when she acted up later, she said ‘I’m sorry…. Put me in the trash can please’

😭😭😭

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Ok so i went down a youtube rabbit hole and I found this and I hate myself because... it's so... unintentionally (?) hot??? like i think it was posted because it's supposed to be funny but i'm just here like 🥵

Why did his VA have to deliver the line like that? Like with the extra gravel and depth to his voice?

i've never been one of those punch me in the face kind of girls, but at this rate...

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Hey pf :) just randomly sliding in your ask box lol. I was curious on how you reacted to Kakashi's death in the pain arc? Because I was devastated and was like "I won't continue watching if he dies" and my boyfriend was sitting next to me like chill 👀 (because he knew he was getting resurrected) and I was losing it haha.. Anyway I hope you have a nice day :)

omgggg so this is giving away my age, but when the naruto manga chapter spoilers were leaked for that chapter, I started SOBBING on the spot whilst telling myself it was bullshit

And when the chapter was released and the last panel was literally Kakashi smiling at his dead dad in the afterlife while his body popping out of the rocks like a real life fucking scarecrow, safe to say I was inconsolable. The funny thing is when it came up online, I was like no way is he dead!! they're not gonna give a character like him a lacklustre death like that! and just in total denial to anyone i talked about it with, but in real life I was SO sad and see I knew no one into anime but even some of my friends knew why i was sad at school and were all 'i hope that guy in that japanese comic you read doesn't die' so it was weeks of trying to accept it whilst not really accepting it and legit cried a bunch of times.

BUT. when that revival chapter was released? !!!! It was so VALIDATING because i'd been saying he wouldn't be dead for weeks (even though he technically was dead) but also when was the last time I was that happy?? that's pretty depressing now that i think about it lol.

I totally get why you'd stop watching if he died for real lol, the only thing keeping me reading the manga at the point was faith that he'd come back. And even after that, he was the biggest reason I was reading the manga to its conclusion, I literally did not understand what the hell else was happening lmao.

The first time I saw it animated, years later, it was still pretty depressing, and I still don't really like that episode (but i have watched reactions to it cuz i want to see if there are girls out there getting as sad as i did lol). Idk how your boyfriend managed to keep quiet lollll

Thanks so much for the question and thank you for sending me on this nostalgic trip 😂 have a wonderful day <3

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i regret to inform you that i am yet again crying over fruits basket