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How to speak to your IH toddler

I read Sera's thread on twitter (owner of @/hashtagartistlife) about how absurd and childish ih's way of thinking is.

source, specifically this one and this

She's so right. They defend arguable human interaction just for the sake of being right, based on their own perception, not taking into consideration the other person and the narrative.

So, I imagined what would happen if an IR was babysiting an ih toddler during a random everning.

So here you go

-B-but what if I really really love someone and I want to kiss him, even if he is asleep, it's not selfish, right ? Because I really really love him.

-You see, sweetie : there is something called the other person in front of you. He's another soul with feelings and opinions that can be different from yours and for him to accept or refuse your feelings, he has to be awake.

-But what if I really really love him like a lot !

-Even if your love is the purest that ever existed, he has every right to refuse it.

-O-oh I see. But what if he's secretly in love with me and he secretly wants to kiss me too. It it is not bad, right ?

-Come here cutie pie. Let me explain something to you. There is something called consent and you have to know that sexual harassment can happen within couples

-w-what really ?

-Yes ! Even when you're married to someone, you have to ask his consent before a sexual act and even before kissing. You can't kiss someone when he's angry, minding his own business or sleeping. Kissing's a mutual experience and that what makes it special

-But, I didn't kiss him so it's not bad !

-Loving someone is usually a noble feeling but attempting to kiss an unconscious person not really.

-But it is romantic, right ?

-... what did we agree on..

-The person in front of me is an individual who is not obligated to understand my intentions. I should take into consideration his individuality just like I take into consideration my own feelings. What I consider to be romantic can be perceived malicious by the other person and I don't have any right to be offended by it.

-There you go ! Good boy, **patting his head**

-A-and what about being revived from death to protect the one you love ? This is so sweet !

-Well, as long as the first thing he does after being revived is not blasting you, then you're right. It could be.

-Ohh o-okay..

-But, let me ask you something, sweetheart. When you ask a corpse to save people, is it good or bad ?

- W-well it depends if it's a corpse of a normal human or a corpse of a supernatural warrior who can revive himself and can save himself and others.

-No sweetie. That's not how you should answer. What ever was the corpse he was still a person who had hopes and dreams and waaaas ..

-Another human being other than myself

-Aaand ..

-Who is not entitled to me .

-Yes and he had experienced enormous pain in his last agony. Being killed is an atrocious experience and asking a dead person to save people is like saying the pain he suffered is worthless and the existence of thoses who are still living is more valuable than his.

-oh mmh..

-Well, I know you don't have bad intentions, my cutie pie, but this is how it is percieved.

-B-but at the end, I triggered his revival and made him save everyone just like he wants so I did something good, right ?

-Okay, let's do it again, one last time. What is the meaning of "good" ?

-Something that is beneficial for oneself

-aaaand ?

-... for the person other than me.

-There you go ! Thanks to this revival trigger, you were safe but what did the other peson feel about it ?

-He asked the enemy who basically killed him to cut his arm and leg which is clearly suicidicial and that he means he would rather stay dead and endanger my life than accept my unwanted revival trigger.

- I'm so proud of you. You made so much progress !

-O-ok and what about liking and eating breads together ?

-Aaaalright !! Time to go to bed !! You've learned enought today. Come on, take you cookie. Tomorrow, we are going to learn about respecting people's privacy and the danger of revolving your goals around someone instead of building your own self esteem.

- B-but w-what if I really really love him !

-Sweetheart, go to sleep. We're going to talk it through tomorrow