#people just hate being minorly inconvenienced at fucking all

[lesbianbishounen]

i hate talking about genai bcus its fucking everywhere and even talking about that fact feels redundant but i cannot help but think about how people's arguments for why it could be good feel so indicative of how many americans think about the day to conveniences we have.

like people will say stuff like "oh wouldn't it be nice to have someone who can't draw be able to have art or voices or music for a game or other project they're working on when they're not an artist or voice actor and can't afford to pay one" and like yeah sure it would be nice. devoid of context its a fun little novelty that wouldn't hurt. it'd be a welcome convenience for them but the entire problem is what the cost comes at.

Setting aside the fact that we don't live in a world where that tech will just be used for small personal use, the stuff it comes at the cost of is the whole issue, massive water and energy consumption, people in other countries paid pennies to filter through all the horrific stuff that gets submitted to machine learning datasets. but the people touting this stuff as a great convenience that'll "democratize art" or whatever don't care about that, and it feels like the same mindset of people who refuse to boycott any company that's doing harmful shit.

Who cares if people in another country are dying, i get my convenient caffeine fix. Why should I care about the reason why I get to have out of season fruits year round, it makes things easier for me. Why would I want to take public transportation and change my behaviour, my car is easier. Why should i tolerate any level of inconvenience for the sake of another person or trying to cause less harm. Just complete and utter apathy towards what the negative effects of the things that help you are.

[olderthannetfic]

man, everyone in the summaries discussion is entertaining the faulty premise that literally anyone has an absolute right not to be upset by things on the internet. which, sorry, but you simply Do Not Have. it doesn’t exist. it’s a moot point. there is not a single person posting who has any sort of obligation to make sure that you, personally, are comfy with everything you see, except you. that’s it. you’re on the internet, which means you have actively given up your right to be made comfortable by anyone else’s actions. you curate your own spaces and that’s it.

and moreover, i’m exhausted by the use of the word squick in this context! i’ve always understood a squick to be in contrast to a trigger- one is a dangerous trauma response (still your own responsibility to manage, but i’m more inclined to be sympathetic to triggers) while the other is just an “ooh yuck, don’t like that” reaction. why the fuck should i give a shit about your squicks, random internet stranger? why should anyone? i’m sooo deeply sorry you had to be vaguely uncomfortable and minorly inconvenienced for the 5 seconds it should have taken you to realize what you were reading and scroll on. that’s so tragic for you, i’m devastated.

“i shouldn’t have to be exposed to explicit content without my consent” shut up! everyone shut up! that’s the dumbest thing i’ve ever read, it’s right there in the ao3 tos! why did you come here if you only want to see one kind of thing?? just join a mailing list or something! i see shit i hate on the internet every goddamn day, but that’s my problem for logging on in the first place. y’all are so tiring.

you do not have the right not to be triggered on the internet. you simply do not. many people are kind, and will do their best to accommodate people as best they can, and that’s a good thing! it’s good when people are kind! but they are doing that because they choose to, not because they must. no one is obligated to do that, so for the love of fuck stop acting like your rights are being violated, because you don’t have any. except the right we all have, which is to walk away when we don’t want to be there anymore. christ on a ham sandwich y’all are so dumb.

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[wonderwomanfantasy]

MHA boys with a Nonbinary S/O

Kirishima

-Kirishima has he/him in his bio

-always asks for his bro's pronouns, and if they are chill with being referred to as bros.

-Kirishima said trans rights, I heard him say it.

-a lot of people end up coming out to him because he's just a safe person.

-he's probably the first person you tell not only because he's your boyfriend but because you know he'll be there to support you as well

-Kirishima gives you a big ol kiss and tells you he's thankful you trust him enough to come out to him and he's proud of you for being so brave.

-he's willing to keep things lowkey before you come out to everyone he's 100% in your corner all the time.

-he politely corrects people when they use your wrong pronouns or misgender you, so you don't have to deal with it.

-and if someone purposefully misgenders you he will politely punch their teeth out

Kaminari

-we forget he's an English nerd but he is, and it's important to me that we talk about it

-he gets so fucking mad when he sees TikTok being like "I don't have pronouns, I'm normal :/"

-posts screenshots of conservatives saying "trans women will never be men"

-he's surprisingly chill when you come out to him?

-he's like "oh cool... do you want to come over and watch pokemon???"

-people ask him if it makes him gay to date a nonbinary person and he's like "god I sure hope it does,"

- Kami hates that so many people care about how your gender makes him feel, babe his opinion doesn't matter

- loves coming up with gender-neutral terms of endearment that just get insane.

- "my sexy little corn dog" "Kaminari baby please shut up"

Todoroki

-gender abolitionist <3

-this gender shit is bs baby get rid of it!!!

-Todoroki is very sure that he is a boy, but if he enjoys wearing skirts and dresses that's what he's going to do

-very nonchalant when you come out "I love you just the way you are darling, no matter how you Identify I'll stand by you,"

-if anyone starts grilling you about your gender he'll snap and tell them to just fucking google it you shouldn't have to explain yourself

- he doesn't supper use social media and his bios are always blank but he will put his pronouns on there if it makes you feel more comfortable.

- lmao blow endeavors money on new gender-affirming clothes and whatnot

-He thinks it is very funny to cause someone or something of being transphobic if it minorly inconvenienced you

- "they're out of your favorite tea? I can't believe the rampant transphobia in this store..."