#our house just doesnt retain heat at all

[doebt]

haavent slept more than 1 consecutive hr all day and night bc of GRAVY MEOWING TO GET OUT but had to keep her in due to its like 10 degrees out wtffff

[dracos-eternity]

Homework Date-Topper Thornton X Reader

Anon Request- Can I get a fluff with Topper from OBX and a pogue reader who happens to be J.J.’s little sister and Top doesnt like her big brother? With “No no no, sorry! I just-… I honestly didn’t think you even knew my name.” and “Stop flirting with me, I’m not going to fall for it.” and “Just say the word.” please, like they are working on a project or something and he asks her to work with him and then he tries to flirt to get her to do all the work and then he ends up taking her out for food or something just really fluffy.

Summary-^^^^^^^^^

Sorry its so short, kinda suck at fluff

Warnings-Cursing, Fluff

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Y/N P.O.V.

“Hey, Y/N, wait up.” I stop, looking for the voice that called me. I turn around, coming face to face with Topper Thornton. “Hey, Y/N, you good?” 

“Oh, no, no, no, sorry! I just-… I honestly didn’t think you even knew my name.”

“Oh, uh, yeah anyways, I was wondering if you wanted to work together for the Shakespeare project?” The boy smiles at me, hope flashing in his eyes.

“Um, yeah, sure.” He nods and begins walking to his car, turning back and looking at me. “You coming?” I nod and climb into his car, noticing the way it looks so new. “Hey, come on in.” He steps out the car and into the house, opening the door for me to come inside. I walk in, my jaw dropping at the sight of his house. 

“Dude, I knew kook houses we’re good but this, this is awesome.” He chuckles, rubbing the back of his neck.

“I almost forgot you were a pogue, your not that bad.” I mock a laugh at his remark, shooting a glare at him. “Um, okay, well come on.” I follow him into the living room, sitting beside him. 

“So, for the assignment we have to take lines from Romeo and Juliet and translate it into modern words, should be pretty easy.” He nods, looking confused by what I said. “Okay, we start in scene two, since we’ve already done scene one.” 

-----------few hours of not getting anything done bc of Topper--------------

“O Romeo, Romeo! wherefore art thou Romeo? Deny thy father and refuse thy name;  Or, if thou wilt not, be but sworn my love, And I'll no longer be a Capulet.” 

“Blah, blah, blah, this is boring, besides how am I supposed to focus when all I can focus on is how pretty you are.” I roll my eyes at yet another attempt to flirt, continuing what I’m reading and writing down the translations.

“Shall I hear more, or shall I speak at this?” I say walking back and forth across the living room floor. 

“He’s a hopeless romantic, in the worst of ways.”

“'Tis but thy name that is my enemy; Thou art thyself, though not a Montague. What's Montague? it is nor hand, nor foot, Nor arm, nor face, nor any other part Belonging to a man. O, be some other name! What's in a name? that which we call a rose By any other name would smell as sweet; So Romeo would, were he not Romeo call'd, Retain that dear perfection which he owes Without that title. Romeo, doff thy name, And for that name which is no part of thee Take all myself.” I look up, noticing Topper’s bored look.

“This is boring.” He deadpans.

“I think it’s romantic, poetry in itself is romantic, pair it with these star crossed lovers.” I plop down beside him, smiling to myself.

“Sure.” He states, looking over at me. He smiles at me, pushing back a strand of my hair that was in my face. “Your pretty, y’know that.” 

“Stop flirting with me, I’m not going to fall for it.” I roll my eyes, sitting up and checking my phone. “Shit.” I start to pull all my stuff together, throwing it in my back before answering my phone, now blowing up with back to back calls.

“Y/N, where the hell are you?” My brother shouts from the other side of the phone.

“J., chill, I’m working on a project, I’ll be home soon.” 

“Who is that?” My eyes go wide as I rush to cover Topper’s mouth.

“Is that fucking Topper, Y/N, I swear to god, where are you, send me the address!” 

“No, I’ll be home in a few, J., I promise.” I hang up smacking Topper’s shoulder afterwards.

“I forgot you were his sister, your so different from that little shit.”

“Fuck off, that’s my brother!” I smack him in the back of the head. “Don’t you have someone else to bother, Sarah Cameron, oh wait she left you for my brothers best friend!” I let the words fly, instantly regretting them. “Oh, shit, I’m so sorry.” I cover my mouth.

“No, it’s okay, I said something about your brother.” I look at him with sad eyes.

“I’m sorry, Top.” He gives me half of a smile and stands up from the couch. 

“Want a ride home, maybe some food?” I nod and we walk out to the car, driving down to some fast food place. Once we order I start to pull out money, Topper cutting me off by paying for both of us. 

“You didn’t have to do that, could’ve payed for myself y’know.” 

“I know, but I wanted to, little pogie.” 

“Little pogie?” I let out a small laugh.

“Yup, your younger, and a pogue, not in an insulting way, just a pogue.” 

“Actually, the name ‘pogue’ is an insult but I’ll let you slide.” I smile at him, sitting down at the bench. 

“Oh, oh well.” He shrugs, biting into his burger. We eat in silence, other than a few jokes and comments, it was nice actually. After we finish I shoot J.J. a text asking where he’s at, him replying with one simple word, which led to an entire argument.

Chateau.                Are you seriously mad? Nope.               J.J. hes not even that bad Do you like him or something?               Idk, and if i did its not your business Uh yeah it is, your my sister               Exactly, sister, not child Whatever                Yeah, whatever, I’ll be there in a few.-_-

I huff in annoyance putting my phone in my back and looking up at Topper.

“You good?” 

“Yep, take me to the Chateau, please.” He nods and begins driving towards the cut.

“So like where is it?” 

“Go towards the boneyard, right before you get there you’ll see a small house, that’s it.” He nods and we continue driving. Once we get there he gets out the car, causing me to look at him confused. “What’re you doing?” 

“Walking you to the door, duh.” 

“Well, this is going to end so well.” I mumble stopping once we get to the door.

“I, uh, had a good time today.” He looks down, playing with his fingers.

“Yeah, me too.” I smile, heat rising in my cheeks. He leans down, his face inches from mine. I stand on my tiptoes, wrapping my arms around his neck as I pull him closer, kissing him. His hands fall to my waist, pulling me closer and closing any space between us. This is it, that moment in all those movies where fireworks go off and everyone disappears. 

“Not bad.” He smiles as we pull apart, our foreheads leaning against each other. My brother taps on the window, glaring at Topper. I grab the doorknob, stopping him from opening it. 

“Give me your phone.” He complies and I type in my number, sending a text to myself with his name. “Night, Top.” I stand on my tiptoes again, kissing his cheek.

“Night, little pogie.” He kisses my forehead and walks off the porch. I watch him drive away, walking inside after. 

“Really, Y/N, a kook, your first kiss had to be a kook?” J.J. deadpans, making me smack his shoulder as my face turns red from embarrassment. 

“Aw, little Y/N has crush on the kook.” Ki pokes my side playfully.

“He’s a good guy, Y/N, be good to him.” Sarah Cameron whispers as she hugs me.

“He’ll get over it.” Pope says, John B. agreeing, in reference to my brother. I look down as my phone buzzes, Topper texting me.

I meant what I said, I had a good time.                                 Me too, Top. Maybe we can do it again some time?                                 Are you asking me out on a second date? Maybe Are you accepting?                                  Maybe, hey wanna know something? Sure                                 You were my first kiss. Really?                                Yeah, with someone as overprotective as J.J. as your                                     brother you don’t get to have boyfriends.  Yeah lol Do you maybe wanna be my...y’know                                 Just say the word. Gf?                                 Yes, Top, would love to. Okay, great Goodnight ... Little pogie                                lol goodnight top.

[leasboyfriend]

All of them for an f/o of your choice! Go off and have fun!!

oh god ok ummm re3cule lets go

this is going under a cut bc its long

oak - who’s the more emotional one? how do you balance each other out in this aspect?

carlos is the most emotional one and thats mostly bc he actually lets himself feel emotions. jill and i tend to hide ours bc we dont want to burden anybody. carlos can somehow always tell when we’re hiding something tho and does whatever he can to get us to let it out

mist - how does your f/o help you out when you’re feeling lost?

we help ground each other when we’re too lost in bad thoughts or memories. usually with touch but sometimes that doesnt work so we do whatever we can to help ease each other out of it

stars - what kind of a date would your f/o take you on?

we spend so much time in coffee shops omg. if we go out on a date thats probs where we’ll go and after we’ll probs go to a park or somewhere kinda secluded so we dont have to deal with people thinking our relationship is weird (carlos will make jokes about how he doesnt understand how anyone can see us and not thing we’re cute as fuck together adfasdf)

apple - do you and your f/o cook together? what do you make?

carlos cooks the most and i like to help him out sometimes. i prefer baking to cooking tho. jill is kinda hopeless in the kitchen so she’ll just watch. carlos makes a lot of food he remembers from his childhood and sometimes he’ll talk about his mom or his grandmother while he makes them

dove - what kind of wedding would you and your f/o have?

something small and secluded. only ppl we know and trust are there. its outdoors in autumn and theres flowers everywhere

storm - what are cozy days in with your f/o like?

cuddles and movies and a bunch of blankets if its cold bc jill and i retain like 0 body heat and carlos cant quite pick up our slack even if he runs rly hot

ivy - how do you take care of each other when you’re sick?

fawn - do you and your f/o play video games together? which ones?

peaches - how did you and your f/o meet?

jill and i met while she was going thru police training and i was in college. we were dating by the time we met carlos during the RC Incident 

pine - do you believe in love at first sight?

jill doesnt. it takes her awhile to allow herself to open up at all. carlos does. he’s a sappy romantic and loves v easily. my answer was in a previous ask

pond - how do you get along with your f/o’s friends?

carlos can get along with just about anybody. jill and i mostly share a friend group bc we both tend to drag the other along bc we dont want to be alone and awkward among strangers

mushroom - give a headcanon of your f/o

jill mentioned missing having a piano to play so carlos and i both saved for awhile to get her one for her birthday. we had to hide it with claire bc hiding a piano in ur house isnt rly possible especially when the person ur hiding it from has a detective brain. when she finally got to see it she started crying. she’ll play it whenever she’s stressed or if one of us cant sleep that night

moonlight - freebie! say anything you’d like about your f/o

i cant imagine my life without them and i think they would say the same

also god we all need therapy but what therapist is trained for zombie outbreaks, queer relationships, and anxiety

[galaxy-sharks-and-bottled-ships]

I can’t believe I’m having to ask this. For those of you who have seen the post accompanying this page:

https://gogetfunding.com/radio-station-manager-falsely-accused-of-theft-prosecuted-by-most-corrupt-county-in-america-which-doesnt-even-have-jurisdiction/

I have some news for you. Walker County still is holding my dad. Our lawyer has advised us to hold onto the retainer fee for now and see if the department will do the legal thing and release my dad on June 27th (this month) during his preliminary hearing so that if they do we can use it to pay a civil lawyer and if they don’t, we can pay her. This mostly stems from the fact that she has apparently talked with someone about what a reduction in his bond would likely be. Too high for us to pay. She says it would be financially responsible to leave him in there, since they have already held him longer than his 30 days between arrest and preliminary, because otherwise we are looking at a more than likely $15,000 bond and a $150 dollar ankle monitor with a daily $10 maintenance and surveillance charge. She has said that if they do not release him on the 27th, despite not having any evidence, then she will finally step in, but otherwise to hold the money and be packing our house up. Yes, that’s right. Our lawyer has advised us to be packing the house up “to be ready to move the very week he is released.”

She has told us that while she was out shopping someone approached her and mentioned our visitations to her office and inquired if she would be taking our case, after which they reminded her the local lake is deep. Smith Lake is a well known body dump in our area – it is reportedly under constant surveillance (going out on a boat with no lights is a very quick way to get arrested too because of the body count they have supposedly pulled from it). Now, I admit, I have no idea how true this story is but, I can’t imagine our lawyer would make this up for no reason; let alone insist we move within a single month for no reason. Granted, we were planning on moving this year. Maybe around September or August, but not this soon.

Several times now people have swerved at my car like they are attempting to swipe it off the road, I have had slurs and curses spit at both my sister and my mother, and we have found my little sister’s dog poisoned. We are scared to leave the house unattended and scared to go out into public alone. We have a friend order any food in his name to be sure that we don’t get anything ‘extra’ in it. Like spit, trash, or anything else. It my seem like overkill but we have actually upset a woman once who worked at our Domino’s – she bragged that she had scraped along the bottom of a dumpster with the cutter she used to cut our pizza with. On Facebook, no less! A repeat of the incident is what we are trying to avoid.

On another note, I have still been in contact with my dad. According to him the jail there is only legally equipped to hold 13 inmates, and currently holds 23. He says the other 10 sleep on the floor and everyone is fed the bare minimum. “Last night’s dinner was a weenie.” I want to state that my dad is very specific with speech, and I even checked to make sure I had understood correctly. A hotdog is a weenie and a bun. They had just the weenie, no bun! That was dinner! From what he has told me that was a common occurrence! He has also notified me that he is not the only man being held in there illegally – one man was able to prove in his preliminary that the arresting officer was lying and that man is still in the jail. Another was arrested with a friend while they were in their vehicle. His friend had drugs on him and the officers arrested them both. Despite both his testimony at the preliminary, and his friend also stating that he had no drugs and that it all belonged to that friend, they are both still in the jail under drug charges.

And so we wait hoping that the legal thing will actually happen and he will be released. Honestly though, we’re prepared to have to go to court over this nonsense. Until then we’re trying to pack to move away. We have listed all of our redundant equipment for sale, as well as the jump tents that we used to use at charity events to try and get the funds to stay above the red line; however, someone keeps reminding people of my dad’s current whereabouts and telling people we’re thieves, frauds, and not to buy anything from us because we likely stole it. Thanks to a generous family member, we at least have our power on so we don’t have to try and move in the heat and dark but, we can’t even resume the station’s broadcast. Not only will none of our patrons (who we have worked with for years by the way) help us right now. After the power was kicked back on, I went to check on the radio equipment to get the station back and on the air. I had even planned on starting a radio segment called ‘Know Your Rights’, where I was intending on tackling the topic of rights being violated, why our rights exist, and what they mean.

However, the moment I turned our transmitter back on and checked the power output versus reflected power I was amazed to discover that, despite the 200 watts, we were somehow reflecting 600 watts. An impossibility, according to my dad who has worked as my engineer. “Check the heliax and make sure those idiots didn’t cut it.” I have inspected the portions of it that are visible but I did not find any cuts. Still, our transmitter insists we are reflecting everything it pours out back into it, and then double that. It doesn’t sound too bad, but as a bit of an idea of what that can do – A few years back, a violent storm took our antennas down and that caused reflected power. We smelt a burning ozone smell for a few hours the next day before anyone went to check. We found to our dismay that the reflected power had melted the -now partially detached- antennas, overheated our heliax cable, and fried the internals of our transmitter. Overall, a few thousand dollars worth of damage as well as a good scolding from dad about the importance of inspecting towers right after a storm. Reflected power is no joke when it’s over half of what the transmitter puts out, and right now my engineer/tower climber/dad sits in jail.

Our station sits still off the air unable to help, our equipment listings are all being flagged as fraud, and the one other form of income (through engineering work) sits in a jail cell hoping someone will let him out.

–And so it is with great regret that I am once again posting here asking for donations. Now for a moving fund, that we were hoping to be able to provide ourselves by the selling of our extra and backup equipment. If any one needs any equipment for their own station just send me a PM, tell me what you need, and I will see if what we have is up to the specs that you need and we can talk from there.

The current goal set by family members older, and so therefore somehow ‘wiser’ than I, is $10,000 to cover any extra court fees or surprises, the moving fee, a partial fee for someone to climb our tower and help disassemble (unless someone here can help with that) it so we can move it, as well as the general price of living while we try to find a new home to move into. Also the rent to get into the new home. The bare minimum we need is $5,000 but I’m being told $10,000 will (“Had better damn well.” actually) cover everything. I know it is a lot to ask for but this has really wrecked our business and we’re looking at a minimum of 4 months of recovery. We have to pack up our house and disassemble our station, find a new home and rebuild our station, and then pretty much go door to door hoping to find new patrons before the first power bill comes in and we get shut off the air again. It’s hard to get patrons when the station they’re thinking of supporting isn’t even on the air for them to hear.

I hate to ask for money given it is generally our job to help others in need but this entire situation has put us in that place right now.

Any little bit helps; I feel bad enough having to ask for anything at all.

https://gogetfunding.com/walker-is-still-illegally-holding-my-dad-and-now-we-have-less-than-a-month-to-move/

[averydecker1995]

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Arplis - News: Ice Fishing Basics

Chain pickerel are common a catch. Photo Tom Richardson

When my wife gave me a guided ice-fishing trip in the Berkshires as a Christmas gift a few years ago, I wasnt sure what to think. Yes, I had previously expressed some curiosity about ice fishinga form of angling with which I had littleexperiencebut to banish ones spouse to a frozen lake for the day? Really?

My guidewas Paul Tawczynski, an accomplished freshwater angler who once competed on the B.A.S.S. tournament circuit.Tawczynski is the founder of Charter the Berkshires, which he built into a successful year-round guiding service before selling the business to fellow guide Patrick Barone, who continues to offer guided groupice-fishing trips, as well as warm-weather trips targeting everything from bass to trout.

A basic tip-up is all you need to get started in ice fishing. Photo Tom Richardson

Serious Operation

On a cold and overcast day in mid-February, I met Tawczynski and the four other members of our shared party at snow-covered Lake Laurel in Lee, an hour west of Springfield and roughly two hours from Boston.Once our group had assembled in the parking lot in front of the lakes launch ramp, Tawczynski gave us the drill on how the four-hour afternoon session would proceed. He had pre-rigged 25 tip-ups over holes the ice, all baited with live shiners, which hestores in buckets treated with a chemical that keeps the water from freezing.

What to Wear

Speaking of freezing, its critical to dress properly for ice fishingat least if you want to enjoy yourself. Insulated, waterproof boots for the often slushy lake surfaces and layered clothing are a must (most ice-fishing veterans favor snowmobile suits)and dont forget ear protection and your best pair of gloves or mittens. If things get really bitter, Charter the Berkshires provides aportable shelter warmed by a propane heater.

The tip-ups we fished were standard-issue. Each featured an orange flag that automatically pops up when a fish takes the bait. A set of bells on the flag also alert the angler to a bite. The reels were spooled with 50-pound-test braided line and a three-foot monofilament leader with a No. 1 hook tied to the end (hook size varies according to the size of the bait and the species being targeted). A small split-shot sinker is sometimes attached several inches above the hook to keep the bait at the desired depth. The shiners, meanwhile, were lightly hooked just ahead of the dorsal fin and above the spine, so as not to impede their swimming ability.

Shiners should be hooked just ahead of the dorsal fin and above the spine. Photo Tom Richardson

Live Baits Best

While Tawczynski sometimes fishes small jigs tipped with waxworms for species such as perch, sunfish, and bass when the fish are biting well, the live-bait approach is best for inexperienced anglers and days when the fish are sluggishwhich is much of the time. Winter fish do not eat to increase their size, energy, and muscle mass for breeding and competing with rivals or evading predators. Rather, they are simply trying survive the winter, and therefore feed less frequently and aggressively than during the warmer months. They still have to eat, however!

But where to set the lines? Much depends on the species being targeted, but in general one should look for drop-offs, weed beds, rocks, tree stumps, and areas of current flow, such as near the outlet or inlet of a lake or pond. All of these places tend to attract baitfish, which in turn draw predators. To locate these spots, consult a bathymetric map, available through the state, digital charting companies, andvarious apps, such as GPS nautical charts. In our case, the lines were set in 5 to 20 feet of water and staggered to cover different depths in the hopes of intercepting the fish as they cruised for a meal.

Some Massachusetts lakes are stocked with tiger trout. Photo Tom Richardson

Laurel Lake is noteworthy for containing stocked salmon, which can weigh 10 pounds or more. They are an elusive species that tend to cruise just below the ice, and are often spooked by the movements of fishermen above. Catching one is a real challenge. More common are the pickerel, trout, bass, crappie, sunfish, and perch that inhabit most of the lakes and ponds in western Massachusetts.

Like any type of fishing, ice fishing action is affected by the weather. As during summer, high pressure tends to get the fish feeding more aggressively. On the other hand, low or falling pressure can make for slow days.

Ice-Fishing Safety

Before venturing onto thefrozen lakes and ponds of New England, follow these important safety tips:

In general, a clear layer of ice four inches thick is safe for foot traffic, but there are no guarantees. Always consider ice to be potentially dangerous. Assess the ice by using a chisel to chop a hole in the ice to determine its thickness and condition. Ice thickness is seldom uniform, so continue to test the ice as you venture further onto the pond or lake. Remember that ice thickness depends on water currents, depth, and the presence of springs and objects such as tree stumps or rocks (ice will be thinner around objects that retain warmth from the sun). Daily changes in temperature also cause the ice to expand and contract, which affects its strength. Never venture on to ice-bound rivers or streams, because the currents make ice thickness unpredictable.

What if you fall through the ice? As with any emergency, dont panic! Briefly call for help. It doesnt take long for the cold water to start slowing your physical and mental functions, so you must act quickly. Air will remain trapped in your clothes for a short time, aiding in buoyancy. Kick your legs while grasping for firm ice. Try to pull your body up using ice pins or picks, which should be hanging around your neck. Once your torso is on firm ice, roll towards thicker icethe direction from which you previously walked. Rolling will distribute your weight better than walking.

After you reach safe ice, you need to warm up quickly to prevent hypothermia. Go to the nearest fishing shanty, warm car, or house. Dont drive home in wet clothes.

If a companion falls through the ice, remember the phrase Reach-Throw-Go. If you are unable to reach your friend, throw him/her a rope, jumper cables, tree branch, or other object. If this does not work, go for help; do not risk becoming a victim yourself. Pet owners should keep pets on a leash. If a pet falls through the ice, do not attempt to rescue the pet; go for help. Well-meaning pet owners often fall through the ice when trying to save their pets.

Ice Thickness and Strength

Ice Thickness (inches)

Permissible Load (on new* clear**, blue ice on lakes or ponds)

2 or less

STAY OFF!

4

Ice fishing or other activities on foot

5

Snowmobile or ATV

8-12

Car or small pickup truck

12 15

Medium truck

*New ice is stronger than older ice. **White ice or snow ice is only about half as strong as new clear ice. Double the above thickness guidelines when traveling on white ice.

More Safety Tips

Leave information about your plans with someone, including where you intend to fish and when you expect to return.

Wear a personal flotation device.

Ice varies in thickness and condition. Always carry an ice spud or chisel to check ice as you proceed.

Be extremely cautious crossing ice near river mouths, points of land, bridges, islands, and over reefs and springs. Current almost always causes ice to be thinner over these areas.

Avoid going onto the ice if it has melted away from the shore. This indicates melting is underway, and ice can shift position as wind direction changes.

Waves from open water can quickly break up large areas of ice. If you can see open water in the lake and the wind picks up, get off!

Make sure yourcell phone is fully charged.

Carry a safety line that can be thrown to someone who has gone through the ice.

Heated fishing shanties must have good ventilation to prevent deadly carbon monoxide poisoning. Open a window or the door part way to allow in fresh air.

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Arplis - News: Ice Fishing Basics

Chain pickerel are common a catch. Photo Tom Richardson

When my wife gave me a guided ice-fishing trip in the Berkshires as a Christmas gift a few years ago, I wasnt sure what to think. Yes, I had previously expressed some curiosity about ice fishinga form of angling with which I had littleexperiencebut to banish ones spouse to a frozen lake for the day? Really?

My guidewas Paul Tawczynski, an accomplished freshwater angler who once competed on the B.A.S.S. tournament circuit.Tawczynski is the founder of Charter the Berkshires, which he built into a successful year-round guiding service before selling the business to fellow guide Patrick Barone, who continues to offer guided groupice-fishing trips, as well as warm-weather trips targeting everything from bass to trout.

A basic tip-up is all you need to get started in ice fishing. Photo Tom Richardson

Serious Operation

On a cold and overcast day in mid-February, I met Tawczynski and the four other members of our shared party at snow-covered Lake Laurel in Lee, an hour west of Springfield and roughly two hours from Boston.Once our group had assembled in the parking lot in front of the lakes launch ramp, Tawczynski gave us the drill on how the four-hour afternoon session would proceed. He had pre-rigged 25 tip-ups over holes the ice, all baited with live shiners, which hestores in buckets treated with a chemical that keeps the water from freezing.

What to Wear

Speaking of freezing, its critical to dress properly for ice fishingat least if you want to enjoy yourself. Insulated, waterproof boots for the often slushy lake surfaces and layered clothing are a must (most ice-fishing veterans favor snowmobile suits)and dont forget ear protection and your best pair of gloves or mittens. If things get really bitter, Charter the Berkshires provides aportable shelter warmed by a propane heater.

The tip-ups we fished were standard-issue. Each featured an orange flag that automatically pops up when a fish takes the bait. A set of bells on the flag also alert the angler to a bite. The reels were spooled with 50-pound-test braided line and a three-foot monofilament leader with a No. 1 hook tied to the end (hook size varies according to the size of the bait and the species being targeted). A small split-shot sinker is sometimes attached several inches above the hook to keep the bait at the desired depth. The shiners, meanwhile, were lightly hooked just ahead of the dorsal fin and above the spine, so as not to impede their swimming ability.

Shiners should be hooked just ahead of the dorsal fin and above the spine. Photo Tom Richardson

Live Baits Best

While Tawczynski sometimes fishes small jigs tipped with waxworms for species such as perch, sunfish, and bass when the fish are biting well, the live-bait approach is best for inexperienced anglers and days when the fish are sluggishwhich is much of the time. Winter fish do not eat to increase their size, energy, and muscle mass for breeding and competing with rivals or evading predators. Rather, they are simply trying survive the winter, and therefore feed less frequently and aggressively than during the warmer months. They still have to eat, however!

But where to set the lines? Much depends on the species being targeted, but in general one should look for drop-offs, weed beds, rocks, tree stumps, and areas of current flow, such as near the outlet or inlet of a lake or pond. All of these places tend to attract baitfish, which in turn draw predators. To locate these spots, consult a bathymetric map, available through the state, digital charting companies, andvarious apps, such as GPS nautical charts. In our case, the lines were set in 5 to 20 feet of water and staggered to cover different depths in the hopes of intercepting the fish as they cruised for a meal.

Some Massachusetts lakes are stocked with tiger trout. Photo Tom Richardson

Laurel Lake is noteworthy for containing stocked salmon, which can weigh 10 pounds or more. They are an elusive species that tend to cruise just below the ice, and are often spooked by the movements of fishermen above. Catching one is a real challenge. More common are the pickerel, trout, bass, crappie, sunfish, and perch that inhabit most of the lakes and ponds in western Massachusetts.

Like any type of fishing, ice fishing action is affected by the weather. As during summer, high pressure tends to get the fish feeding more aggressively. On the other hand, low or falling pressure can make for slow days.

Ice-Fishing Safety

Before venturing onto thefrozen lakes and ponds of New England, follow these important safety tips:

In general, a clear layer of ice four inches thick is safe for foot traffic, but there are no guarantees. Always consider ice to be potentially dangerous. Assess the ice by using a chisel to chop a hole in the ice to determine its thickness and condition. Ice thickness is seldom uniform, so continue to test the ice as you venture further onto the pond or lake. Remember that ice thickness depends on water currents, depth, and the presence of springs and objects such as tree stumps or rocks (ice will be thinner around objects that retain warmth from the sun). Daily changes in temperature also cause the ice to expand and contract, which affects its strength. Never venture on to ice-bound rivers or streams, because the currents make ice thickness unpredictable.

What if you fall through the ice? As with any emergency, dont panic! Briefly call for help. It doesnt take long for the cold water to start slowing your physical and mental functions, so you must act quickly. Air will remain trapped in your clothes for a short time, aiding in buoyancy. Kick your legs while grasping for firm ice. Try to pull your body up using ice pins or picks, which should be hanging around your neck. Once your torso is on firm ice, roll towards thicker icethe direction from which you previously walked. Rolling will distribute your weight better than walking.

After you reach safe ice, you need to warm up quickly to prevent hypothermia. Go to the nearest fishing shanty, warm car, or house. Dont drive home in wet clothes.

If a companion falls through the ice, remember the phrase Reach-Throw-Go. If you are unable to reach your friend, throw him/her a rope, jumper cables, tree branch, or other object. If this does not work, go for help; do not risk becoming a victim yourself. Pet owners should keep pets on a leash. If a pet falls through the ice, do not attempt to rescue the pet; go for help. Well-meaning pet owners often fall through the ice when trying to save their pets.

Ice Thickness and Strength

Ice Thickness (inches)

Permissible Load (on new* clear**, blue ice on lakes or ponds)

2 or less

STAY OFF!

4

Ice fishing or other activities on foot

5

Snowmobile or ATV

8-12

Car or small pickup truck

12 15

Medium truck

*New ice is stronger than older ice. **White ice or snow ice is only about half as strong as new clear ice. Double the above thickness guidelines when traveling on white ice.

More Safety Tips

Leave information about your plans with someone, including where you intend to fish and when you expect to return.

Wear a personal flotation device.

Ice varies in thickness and condition. Always carry an ice spud or chisel to check ice as you proceed.

Be extremely cautious crossing ice near river mouths, points of land, bridges, islands, and over reefs and springs. Current almost always causes ice to be thinner over these areas.

Avoid going onto the ice if it has melted away from the shore. This indicates melting is underway, and ice can shift position as wind direction changes.

Waves from open water can quickly break up large areas of ice. If you can see open water in the lake and the wind picks up, get off!

Make sure yourcell phone is fully charged.

Carry a safety line that can be thrown to someone who has gone through the ice.

Heated fishing shanties must have good ventilation to prevent deadly carbon monoxide poisoning. Open a window or the door part way to allow in fresh air.

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