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screamingay · 2 years ago

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ok so is there actually a crazy sjw mra misandrist truther cult or have i just been seeing a lot of questionable strawman arguments on here lately abt feminism and how we need to remember Real Feminism because we're "reinventing the patriarchy" by like.. idk being nicer to people??

gender roles are like the oldest and most complex and nuanced topic in existence especially since the internet began and it feels to me like everyones opinions are wildly swinging from one extreme to another rn and while it's nice to discuss and exchange ideas and all that... at the end of the day it's still just about how u treat the people around u.

do u drive away anyone with any connection to masculinity? do u intentionally exclude them from public events and spaces? do u see trans women as a different species? do u see gnc and/or trans men as threats to the community? like, even subconsciously??

ive been trying to think on this for a few days and this still isnt exactly what im trying to say but every post i see isn't saying what im thinking so here we are

#like idk.. ive dealt with misogyny my whole life being raised as a girl but anyone raised as a boy who acted too 'feminine' also #experienced misogyny. like. almost all homophobia is rooted in Men Being Too Feminine #and like. men who consciously use the system to abuse women are still a result of the system itself. it's cyclical we know that already #but sometimes it seems like ppl forget what that means. breaking the cycle takes more than just idk trying to oppress men back #or whatever tf the rdfems are going for #breaking the cycle means raising children ESPECIALLY boys differently so that theyre aware of the system and can avoid taking advantage #that kinda thing. yknow??#if this gets too many notes im deleting it i just wanted 2 make it clear

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