#or ryden for that matter. i hate brendon too but it’s about FACTS it’s about HISTORY

[dashiellqvverty]

everyone wants to talk about rpf these days but no one wants to talk about larry stylinson. sad.

[specialinteresthaven]

Lindsey Way/Brendon Urie

(Disclaimer: I’m not an expert on whats going on here. I don’t know every detail. Correct me if I get something wrong or if I leave something important out. Thank you!)

Lindsey Way is getting canceled on twitter again. Brendon Urie is as well.

Lindsey:

So obviously, I don’t know everything about the topic. But I’ve seen enough. Do I think Lindsey is perfect? No. Do I believe she did what everyone is saying she did? Um, no.

LynZ is one of my idols. She’s one of the people who inspired me to start learning bass guitar. From all I’ve seen, she’s an amazing person. I don’t think it’s right for people to censor her name as if it’s some kind of slur. She’s a human being. It’s sickening to see the amount of hatred she gets.

She’s not abusing Gerard. She’s not bashing on anyone’s mental health.

She and Gee seem happy together, don’t try to dig into their private life and make some sort of fucked up conspiracy.

And god forbid you’re one of those people who dislikes her because she “rUiNeD fReRaRd!1!1!1!!!!!1″

I’m not saying that Lindsey hasn’t done wrong in the past. She has, and I know she has. I don’t agree with every single thing she does either. But that’s the past, it was like ten years ago. Yes, she’s made mistakes, but she’s clearly grown from them and moved on. You should too.

You can dislike Lindsey Way all you want. I can’t force you to like her. Being stupid and hating on her on twitter is disrespectful. If you don’t like Lindsey, be respectful about it.

Brendon:

So, Brendon has a lot of shit on him right now from sexually harassing Ryan Ross, to using racial slurs, to whatever in the living fuck is going on with Zack Hall.

I’m a Panic! at the Disco fan. When I was informed on all this today it honestly broke my heart a little bit. Brendon was one of my idols, but after all this, I really don’t think I can support him for the time being.

The first thing I want to address is the whole Ryden thing. Apparently, Brendon would kiss Ryan even though Ryan was uncomfortable with it. That’s really messed up. While it was so many years ago, this still seems like something Brendon would do. If it had seemed like he changed, then I think I could let this one go for the most part. But honestly, I don’t think he has.

Next: Girls/Girls/Boys. So, I’ve just been made aware of this, but this song was written because Brendon thought two girls kissing each other was hot. Now, honestly, there’s not that much of a problem with thinking two girls kissing is hot. You cant really control what you think is hot. My problem is that he was clearly sexualizing it (correct me if I’m wrong, but that’s the information I recieved.). Apparently Brendon sexualized/sexualizes women. That’s obviously wrong. This song was written seven years ago, but I don’t know if there are any other examples of Brendon doing this. However, Dallon Weekes also helped write the song (i think), so it might not be completely horrible. If there are any other examples of Brendon sexualizing women or female bisexuality, let me know. This was years ago, but it doesn’t seem like Brendon has changed. It seems like he’d still do this, so I cant really let it go.

Now, this is going to be my shortest point on Brendon, but apparently he’s said the N word in livestreams. Yes, that’s fucked up. I’m not sure how long ago this was, since he’s been streaming for a while, but I don’t think Brendon would do something like this again. I’m not black, so I can’t give much of an opinion on this matter, but personally, I’m letting it go.

The last thing I want to bring up is the thing with Zack Hall (is that even his name?). I hardly know who this guy is, but I’ve heard he’s ableist, sexist, etc. Basically a predator. So, Brendon hasn’t fired this guy despite what he’s done. I personally do not agree with that, and I know most people don’t either. I think if Brendon actually cared about his younger fans, or his disabled fans, etc., he’d do something about Zack. But he hasn’t, and people are mad at him for it.

Seriously, Brendon. Just fire him.

I love Brendon Urie. But hearing about all this just....I’m just confused. It’s hard coming to terms with the fact that your idol is not that great of a person.

I will no longer support Brendon until he betters himself. 

Panic! at the Disco will remain one of my favorite bands, because at the end of the day, I cant force myself to stop liking music. But until Brendon fixes the shit he’s done, I cant support him as a person. I cant allow myself to look up to him.

If you got this far, thank you for reading.

-Ella (Miss Fancy Gremlin)