#or men who go 'um stop lecturing me until youve tracked down and punished every single woman who told me its not manly to paint my nails 🙄'

[spiritunwilling]

Any post commenting or critiquing on how the patriarchy harms men is always inevitably met with people in the comments yelling about how dare you not mention the ways in which women play a part in upholding toxic masculinity which is certainly well and true but it never really feels like the people getting randomly upset about this actually give a shit about understanding or dismantling the patriarchy and just kind of want to offload all the blame and responsibility to Their Mom Who Told Them They Shouldn't Cry When They Were Seven