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mental-illness-bingo · 9 months ago

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If you think it's a personality trait or a good or even a neutral thing to hate children just fucking block me. You're pathetic and you don't even deserve for me to bother to argue with you. Enjoy your weird obsession with vilifying a group of people with next to no neurodevelopment or life experience I guess. The rest of us will be here having a real personality, a life, and being tolerable to be around.

i feel like a lot of the 'i hate kids' crowd would be more tolerant if they understood that due to a kid's limited experience of the world that 4 hour flight might just be the longest they've ever had to sit still for or that trapped finger might literally be the most pain they've ever felt in their short life or they might not have ever seen a person with pink hair ever so of course they want to touch it or nobody's told them yet that they can't run around the museum and they only just learned cheetahs are the fastest animals so of course they want to put that to the test. how were they supposed to know etc etc.

#Put me in a room with literally a million crying babies before one childhater #I have sensory issues due to my autism and low empathy from ASPD yet I can still recognize they deserve kindness and grace while they learn #like I am the exact type of person people expect to be a childhater but nope I have basic human decency #it's not hard to be annoyed with the noise without being a complete douchebag #if you can't handle being annoyed without whining why the hell should they be expected to handle their first experiences suffering quietly?#Sit in the corner and think about how goddamn ridiculous you sound #because it is the overgrown version of the same tantrum you're complaining about if not worse #and the childfree crowd is not who I'm talking about here #it's ok to say I don't think I could handle having kids or even just not want them for any reason #but not wanting to raise a tiny human is a lot different than despising them in their entirety #little kids are some of the most understanding and gentle people I've had the pleasure of meeting #nothing like working in a preschool to restore your faith that humanity isn't all bad #we get corrupted somewhere along the way because those kids were so kind to literally everyone #I miss working there and if my disabilities ever become manageable to the point where I can work I would love to go back to it #childhaters will never understand the purity of a kid who struggles to focus on a book spending 10 mins to find the PERFECT rock to give yo #or how much time and effort and care they put into the art that childhaters call just scribbles #sorry to rant it just breaks my heart because enough interactions with childhaters can break kids' spirit and self esteem #and there's no explaining to them the concept of people who hate because they have nothing better to do in life #so they think they did something wrong or worse that they are just bad and deserve that treatment #mibingo addon #mibingo vent #vent in the tags

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