#or ‘only chronically online baby gays are against queer’

[starlooove]

I need the whole queer discourse thing to progress past interpersonal usage. Whether someone personally refers to themselves as queer or not quite literally does not fucking matter, the only thing worth discussing atp is how widespread that usage may be (calling it the queer community, is it reclaimed enough for ppl outside the community to say it in that specific way, etc.)

[mogai-sunflowers]

I think it's really interesting that nowadays mspec lesbians are "chronically online" and the majority of people (actively and audibly) against them are baby gays. When I was younger, before I got involved with the queer community online at all, the idea of SAM mspec lesbians seemed like an entirely possible and normal thing to me.

yeah. like, I’ll admit when I first heard of bi lesbians I thought it was only possible to be a bi lesbian if you were abro and/or SAM, because I was always taught that lesbian was exclusive wlw, but I’ve learned a lot more since then and now it’s absolutely ridiculous to me that there’s actually discourse over wlw/nlw using their OWN WORDS to describe themselves, just because they’re mspec/nonbinary/male