#on a non tangent if this is true about ur whole ass family imagine leaving that miserable little bitch that u met a while ago

[kafkaesquefemme]

To everyone who has gone no contact w their parents and ur doing good and u haven't seen any signs of that being a mistake, TRUST THAT SHIT. Many parents don't appreciate what they have until it's gone. It's always "other kids wish they had a parent like me" but never "other parents would b so lucky to have a kid like u" nd u try to defend urself and get called ungrateful. Not all of this necessarily means abuse but it's already putting u lower than them. Over protective parents can hinder u more than help u and not actually helping build trust that they'll b there for u "if something happens" cuz nothing is gonna happen. This doesn't have to b I'll intentioned, but it can lead to superiority complexes and more if not already there. Even if the claims are true, u still need to experience life including the hardships u need to build ur survival muscles and mental strength as well. It's easy to trust when u have ur parents to back u up. In cases of abuse they'll never take u seriously especially if there's narcissism. U have to leave and b prepared to really struggle on ur own and it's NOT gonna b aesthetically pleasing at all so get ready to unlearn everything u thought u knew. And make space for the new version of u that can defend urself now. U do not owe ur parents ur life cuz u didn't ask for it, don't fall into that trap. That's almost like threatening to kill u if I don't behave bc they could've just aborted u before u were born if u just weren't gonna behave however they want. That's not the point of having kids. Cut off ur parents or whoever in a productive way. W the intention of surviving and ending the cycles of codependency, not out of spite or just bc u wanna grow up too fast. Pls learn the difference and leave accordingly but pls if ur parents do learn their lesson, welcome them back into your life. And make it very clear that you are welcoming them into your life not that ur coming back to them bc u can't handle urself w/o them. Stand ur ground and don't let urself become hardened into loneliness bc the sadness will catch up to u. Don't b afraid to walk alone u are capable.