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toxic situations

They are always hidden with good intentions because people  have a responsibility to survive. It’s only natural for a person to think of themselves first  before moving toward others around them. However, where the problem spirals out of control is when those insecurities are constantly being place on you. You might just be the friend or family member who is trying to be understanding and never really asked to be told anything. Unfortunately, this could result in a situation that you were not involved with in the first place, being your fault. Depending on how many times that circumstance takes place it can really start to wear down a person’s understanding of identity. It can often be found surprising to realize that the person doing the blaming is surprised that you have low self esteem or lack of confidence. This can be your own doing, but its not just your fault in having that lack of strength, its also the blamers fault because no one can find that negative path with out someone to show them the way first.

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Validating ypur existance

I know everyone thinks they're special and that we were uniquely created by some higher power for some purpose. People actually believe that it is just one person's job to make a change, and that this process can single them out in the process. This unfortunatley isnt so, you dont have to validate anything. More than likely there is more than one person who has gone through the same thing you have. You might have different personalities, but there is always some one who is just like you. Your not alone in your purpose or your struggle, it only feels that way because you're around the wrong people. Making it difficult for you to find the right people to include into your life.

That shame that is placed on us for having feelings, getting a head, or enjoying life is all situational and is not unique to just you. Our societies make these different situations obscurities that can either hold power or reduce one's social influence. It still doesn't make your situation or anyone's situation unique.

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Black and White

This isn’t a race post, so just remove that from you mind. This is a post about conversation, how we present ourselves, and how people perceive what we relay to them. The only reason why I felt the need to bring this up is because I realized that I spend a lot of my time trying to prove myself to people. Not in an academic or job atmosphere, but  within the causal atmosphere as well. People are so quick to categorizes you because they want to know where you fit in. There are only a few people who are rare enough to allow you state who you are without judgement or classification. Western societies are obsessed with making things clear and understandable, to create a solid base from which to navigate from. This is a understandable, the only problem is people are constantly changing, and people are constantly coming in contact with people who are different from themselves. 

 There is always going to be a state of conflict between friends, groups of people, different cultural groups, and societies because of the constant flow of humanity. it’s the funniest thing but being okay with not being comfortable is the hardest area to overcome within our life time. It takes a lot of practice and a lot of shitty experiences to make a more global thinking individual who can take into consideration these differences and just judge what is right in front of them.