#ok lets be real i think lots of 20 somethings would got to p!atd
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iampikachuhearmeroar · 6 years ago
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band rant:
okay, so. i never get involved in band drama nowadays bc like who has the time for that? but i felt like i had to say something on this topic.
today i woke up to being tagged on a fb article about how absolutely disgustingly creepy and inappropriate fans are being at p!atd concerts, when brendon urie does a big walk through the crowd during the song death of a bachelor. the thing that disturbed me the most about the people that lick or kiss him or do other creepy/concerning things (without his consent) is that they’re literally adults in their 20s, or at least that’s what people were assuming in the comments on the article, who should know that this stuff is creepy asf.
like don’t get me wrong, it took me literal years in my teens to realise that my attitude towards brendon and other band members (who I won’t mention by name here, but y’all know who they are by now) was creepy. 
 I’d make jokes about turning up their shows naked under a trench coat or how if i ever lived in the states they’d all have restraining orders out on me bc i’d follow to them to their houses and shit. hell, I even made a joke coming home from a concert once that i wouldn’t wash my hands for a week bc i touched one of the guitarist’s guitars and their hand at a show in 2009 (y’all can all guess who that was). i cried for an hour on the way home, bc i did actually wash my hands after that show. seriously 13/14yo me was a fucking freak when it came to her fave bands. 
but the difference between me and these creepy presumably 20something women who should know better is that i was a kid who didn’t know any better and thought these jokes and other ones i made (like tagging a particular band’s members on my crotch and my very non-existent bewbs (*teenaged sniggering*) at that point, on my myspace with sexual tags) were funny and not creepy. when on the contrary, they were really, really fucking inappropriate/creepy and NOT FUNNY (bc these guys were in their fucking 20s (!!!!!!) and i was a literal goddamn child in high school). 
it wasn’t until I was about 15/16 however, that i realised that i wouldn’t like some random kid turning up on my lawn to scream at me or turning up to my shows naked etc. but younger me thought her fave celebs owed her their time and stuff.... when they don’t. at all. in any sense of the matter. and yes, when I found those mentioned myspace tags at 18 when I went through my MS before it got deleted: I WAS FUCKING MORTIFIED. DO NOT DO THAT SHIT ON SOCIAL MEDIA. EVER. PERIOD. 
finally, to finish this part of the post, the topic of consent wasn’t as openly discussed 10 years ago, back when i was doing this shit. if it was ever was discussed, it wouldnt’ve been like it is now, and I would’ve been to selfish and young to care about it tbh. bc after all, teenage me was an asshole. it’s only recently, (meaning like 2013), that I started to better assess my behaviours towards famous people (especially my faves/idols/role models) and my ignorance of their obvious non-consent in these scenarios.
the very same goes for these incidents. like, who the fuck wants a completely random stranger (and especially one that should know better by now) randomly kissing them or licking them???? what the fuck????? and then other weird things like intentionally grabbing their face etc??? i don’t fucking care if you’re inebriated (bc it’s a concert and if you’re over 18 in aus or over 21 in the US, why wouldn’t you have a couple of drinks? but this is currently happening on p!atd’s US tour) while you’re at p!atd shows. i don’t fucking care if you think that brendon urie is “my (your) baby! <3 *sigh* 😍😍😍😍😍😍” (girl he ain’t your baby, let me tell ya.) and “oooh my ovaries!!!” 🤤🤤🤤😩😩😩 (idk what constitutes as a swooning emoji lol) or any other weird fangirl nonsense speak shit you want to throw at me, because:
THIS SHIT IS CREEPY ASF. IT. NEEDS. TO. STOP.
like for the women apparently doing this, think about it this way: if some creepo dude in the club starts kissing you when you’ve repeatedly told him to fuck off or whatever.... or just randomly approaches you for a hug; you’d be grossed out and uncomfortable right? now stand in a famous person’s shoes, at their shows meeting fans and having them doing this to you. how do you feel? surely you feel exactly like you do when that creepy fuckwit dude gives you an unsolicited/unconsented kiss at a bar. or when someone touches you in general without your consent.
brendon has literally told the p!atd fan base on multiple fucking occasions about HOW UNCOMFORTABLE, UNEASY AND FUCKING CREEPED OUT HE IS when random fans kiss/lick him or do other creepy fucking shit like grabbing his face without his consent. just because he’s famous, and you love him soooo much XDDDD, or just bc you’ll probably never see him again after the concert or whatever other weird bullshit justification(s) y’all wanna give, DO NOT GIVE YOU THE GROUNDS TO DO THIS SHIT.  I REPEAT: THESE REASONS/JUSTIFICATIONS DO NOT GIVE YOU THE GROUNDS TO DO THIS SHIT.
he has told you stop again and again. pls just stop. just because brendan urie is famous, it doesn’t mean that his safety and personal space should be violated in this twisted manner. obvs you could say that “hey he should expect this when he interacts with a crowd bc he’s famous. he should just deal with it. 🤷🏻‍♀️ but why should he? he should not have to deal with this, when he has requested again and again for it to cease. just grow the fuck up and respect his boundaries, yeah?
anyway the point of this rant is that you should fucking respect your faves boundaries, safety and requests to stop any fucking behaviour that makes them feel uncomfortable y’all. just be decent human beings yeah?
rant over.
an addendum: if you’re a woman or just generally a person who condemns and considers entitled male fans who scream things like “HEY SEXY WANNA MARRY ME?!” or “I WANNA FUCK YOU!” at female solo acts/female lead singers like idk lady gaga or hayley williams (paramore) etc or any other weird shit that happens to female acts as creepy... but you don’t think literally grabbing someone’s face or even licking your finger before you touch a stranger (which was another weird thing a fan did at a p!atd show).... all because it happened to a man; then take a good long hard look at yourself in the mirror and look at your fucking hypocritical bullshit. because this is the exactly the same shit as what happens to female acts.
so in short, you’ll stand in solidarity with female acts and agree that this is unacceptable behaviour (bc feels as a woman, right? and women are TIRED OF THIS Y’ALL), but you won’t stand with a guy when it happens to them? that’s fucked bruh. y’all need to sort out your priorities and shit STAT. learn that this behaviour is fucked up and unacceptable etc from both genders (or all genders if you’re non-binary or trans etc) and on all fronts. again, I’ll assert that you just have to be a fucking decent and normal human being in this instance. and *elle woods voice* is it really, like, that fucking hard?
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transgenderboobs · 5 years ago
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bunch o’ tag games under the cut
tagged by @dykeangel​ !! ty emilie 
what was your last…
drink - jus woter 
phone call - my phone company
text message - dad
song you listened to - the fall by half alive
time you cried - last night watching jojo rabbit 
have you ever…
dated someone twice - kind of?
been cheated on - not to my knowledge 
lost someone special - yes? i mean not like they died but people have like. left my life u know
been depressed - lmao
gotten drunk and thrown up - Yes. :|
in this year, have you…
made a new friend - Yes ! 
fallen out of love - no
laughed until you cried - Yes. do this a lot in the horny for worms chat
met someone who changed you - u mean like in these 3 months of 2020? no
found out who your true friends are - idk??? i mean i like to think i KNOW already
kissed someone on your facebook list - lol no
general…
how many of your facebook friends do you know in real life - like.....most of them.
do you have any pets - yes!!!!!! i have two cats and two dogs
do you want to change your name - yes. i just have to find one that feels right and then go about making the Effort to actually change it
what did you do for your last birthday - i just like. went out for dinner and ice cream
what time did you wake up - like. noon
what were you doing at midnight last night - watching jojo rabbit!!!!!!!
what’s something you can’t wait for - this pandemic to end so i can finally go the fuck to germany
when was the last time you saw your mum - new years eve
what are you listening to right now - nuffink babe
have ever met a person named tom - don’t think so
what’s something that gets on your nerves - my school’s admin giving me Useless info about this pandemic sitch re: my thesis/graduation
what’s your blood type - absolutely no clue. i asked my parents and they don’t know either. it’s a mystery
nickname - prem is a nickname
relationship status - obviously i’m married to daisy tonner sorry ladies ;)
zodiac sign - aquarius
pronouns - they/them
fav tv show - the good place!!!!!!!!!
tattoos - many. got some pics of a few of them in my tattoo tag
right or left handed - right
first…
surgery - none. well i had to be put under anesthesia  once so they could do some weird shit to my teeth cuz i had this nasty infection but idk if that counts
piercing - ears babey
best friend - her name was kalea we stopped talking when i was like 6 or 7 and she recently added me on fb again
sport - LOLLLLLL ME PLAYING A SPORT???? LMAO I HAVE TO LAUGHHHHHHHH
vacation - hmmmm i think going to texas to see my dads family just before my parents got divorced 
pair of trainers - what the fuck are trainers
right now…
eating - nothing
drinking - nothing? water?
i’m about to - get up and make some coffee
listening to - nothing
waiting for - nothing
want kids - NO NEVER
get married - yes bitch !
career - i just want to lie on a hot rock under the sun for several hours of the day 
which is better…
hugs or kisses - both
lips or eyes - eyes
shorter or taller - either would be excellent 
older or younger - don’t care as long as they’re close enough to my age 
romantic or spontaneous - romantic
nice arms or nice stomach - no preference
sensitive or loud - either. both
hook up or relationship - relationship
trouble maker or hesitant - trouble maker
have you ever…
kissed a stranger - i wanna say no but i was a god damn lunatic in high school so it’s possible 
drank hard liquor - Yes a lot
sex on the first date - never been on a date. but i have had s*x with someone after only knowing them for like 5 hours day so
broke someone’s heart - I THINK I DID BUT I DIDNT NOTICE TILL LIKE TWO YEARS LATER
had your heart broken - yes.
been arrested - yes.
cried when someone died - never really known anyone who died besides relatives i’d met maybe once in my life at max, so. n/a
fallen for a friend - i only wanna smash my bros bro
do you believe in…
yourself - eeehhhhhh
miracles - eeeEEEHHHHH
love at first sight - no.
santa claus - no
kiss on the first date - sure !
angels - no
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tagged by @paintedvanilla​ !!! thank
instructions: tag 10 followers that you wanna get to know sorry
name: just prem
nicknames: prem is a nickname :3c
gender: oh no thank you i’m ok
star sign: aquarius
height: 5’9″ (OR exactly 69 inches or 175 cm)
sexuality: dyke
hogwarts house: ravenclaw
fave animal: i like owls and cats
average hours of sleep: god. who knows. not enough
current time: 12:30pm lads
dog or cat person: i mean i love them both but i think i’m a cat person
blankets you sleep with: just my comforter 
dream trip: @ MY SCHOOL JUST LET ME DO MY STUDY ABROAD TRIP TO GERMANY........
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dream job: see above
when I made my blog: january 2014
followers: 3798
why i made a tumblr: god who remembers why i did anything in 2014. a bitch was still in high school in 20fucking14
reason for my url: no god damn genders allowed in this fucking house hold thank u Very much
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rules: hit shuffle and list the first 20 songs, then tag 10 people
tagged by @d-quintana​ and @the1975bi​ !!! ilu guys 
ghost - halsey
firefly - breaking benjamin
monster - paramore
i write sins not tragedies - p!atd
broken open - cold war kids
brick by boring brick - paarmore
wild heart - bleachers 
this is gospel - p!atd
don’t stop - innerpartysystem
cliff’s edge - hayley kiyoko
the love club - lorde
anyone else but you - moldy peaches
curse - imagine dragons
west coast - coconut records 
lemon to a knife fight - the wombats
would that i - hozier
killer - the ready set
headfirst slide into cooperstown on a bad bet - fob
snitches and talkers get stitches and walkers - fob
bad side of 25 - patrick stump
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niixell · 5 years ago
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"lets get personal." answer as many as you wanna! if thats meands allof them tn go for it!!!
Hell Yeah imma do all of them!!!! ty!!!!! sorry some of the answers are really boring or short
1. you and Jennifer-bulow, Chlorine-twenty one pilots, missing you-all time low, water fountain-Alec Benjamin, blame it on my youth-blink-182. It was difficult to choose 6 songs cause usually i just put a playlist on shuffle, but this is pretty good representation of whats in it
2. uhhhh, probably Phil Lester cause I look up to him alot and I want to know what’d he’d be like in person
3. ofc it was “this book is gay” the line is “wowsers, this whole gay thing is a lot more complicated then Glee lead us to believe”
4. ngl, how fucking gay i am for certain people
5. pretty boring, it’s “yeahhh”
6. not completely naked, but not in full pajamas
7. i can pop 3 of my fingers completely in and out of their socket
8. Girls, guys, and non-binary pals are fucking attractive and pretty and nice and im rlly fuckin gay.
9. yup, one of my ex’s did, it was rlly sweet
10. no clue, air drums woulda been yesterday though
11. not rlly, nope!
12. probably, not that i remember though
13. don’t got one
14. wanting to go inside or im at the ocean
15. behind behind behind, i hate being on camera
16. currently...uhhhhhhh......P!ATD probably
17. How are you? “I’m ok”
18. not rlly nope, do believe some people defiantly deserve it though
19. its extreamly complicated. Toby’s my name, and I’m bored
20. Weakness is probably my anxiety. Strength would be...... I can pick up new talents up pretty quicky i guess
21. don’t have one. got people i admire, but not a crush
22. yup, in the lake during the summer once
23. Now that I think about it....I don’t know
24. so, so, so many things. I am an absolute gremlin
25. depending on the people, only time im on the phone is playing mc though so. phone ig
26. maybe? im still “becoming”
27. love: the crunch of refrozen snow. hate: the bus engine which sucks cause i gotta ride it every day
28. what if I fail
29. Ghosts yes, 99% sure my house is haunted as it used to be a doctors office in the 1920s. Aliens 100%. youd have to be an idiot to think that theres not some sort of other life in the entire universe
30. My computer that im typing this on with both arms
31. apple pie filling that I made
32. alberta
33. west west west west west
34. i don’t have an opposite gender
35. the meaning of my life is to study some fucking orcas
36. creation of something new
37. sometimes!
38. pretty grey and boring. maybe rainy, im not sure, im not by any windows
39. 4:28, though it feels like 7. today has gone so slowly
40. Yes and yes. though i only bumped someones truck while learning to park so it wasnt to bad
41. the book needed for # 3!!
42. enh, kinda?
43. not rlly. 
44. film? idk but watching something? im watching bnha right now for the 3rd time
45. ive broken my arm and sprained my ankle but im not sure what was worse
46. yeah!! i was in mexico and they would come land on me!
47. well. Orcas. Bnha. thats pretty much my entire personality
48. Panromanic Demisexual
49. that I cheated on my ex which is compleate bullshit
50. yes!!!
51. sometimes and depends on the situation
52. Aquarius!
53. i need to save it but i spend it. im sucky at saving
54. some food cause im a hungry bitch
55. love<3
56. nope
57. 3 as of current
58. yup!!
59. at school and at work. glad thats over
60. a pan flag hanging on my ceiling
61. yeah. my feet are cold
62. ORCAS
63. i dont really have one. i just hang out with people who like the same stuff and we bond over that
64. shes probably at her house while talking to me on discord rn. hey look @krarshadow, youre part of the asks I told you about
65.  @seriously--fuck--you @krarshadow @official-lucifers-child @thatsthat24 @kitkatthegaybean
66. no clue
67. having a shower i think
68. morningstar
69. nah
70. some of the time. other times im an annoying little shit who shouldn’t be allowed to interact with anyone
71. save the dog and run to work on time. then get fired for refusing to get rid of the dog
72. tell certain people, hang out in my friends classes and not bother with my own, enh, id just be sad I wouldnt see my friends again
73. love as love builds trust
74. I really dont know. I have a playlist called “calming???” and that helps make me not sad
75. ***-***-2083
76. communication. this goes for any kind of relationship, not just romantic
77. i dont know!!!! romantic stuff is confusing and telling the different between liking someone and liking someone is sometimes fucking difficult
78. oh hell yes. one hundred percent
79. wanting to study orcas as a tiny child. its given me something to always look towards and work for
80. 8-91/2
81. i don’t want on. mix my ashes with glitter and throw me into the ocean
82. Sonder, its a pretty boring word but the meaning is cool. “ The profound feeling of realizing that everyone, including strangers passed in the street, has a life as complex as one's own, which they are constantly living despite one's personal lack of awareness of it. “
83. blood
84. *screams are heard in the distance*
85. You and Jennifer apparently
86. blue. but like a Logan Sanders or Tuesday blue
87.
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88. my dad
89. situational. there are ones i don’t want to answer, but nothing i can think of where im scared of the truth
90. kill all but one and strap that one on a table and unwrap and dissect it
91. shapeshifting (gotta love that definatly creative answer from a trans person right there)
92. seeing orcas
93. my fucking childhood trauma
94. what the fuck. do people actually wanna sleep with them???? thats creepy as fuck man
95. Tofino, BC (no surprise there, its really easy to see orcas off the coast)
96. Its my fatherrrrrrrr
97. uhhhhh, no, but i did right after getting out of the car once
98. many times! real fun! i quite like plane rides if i get my own space
99. Fuck terfs. Trans rights
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