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[theoccultarchives]

I'm so behind here, but episode #5 drops tomorrow! Links for #theOccultArchives in bio. #occult #occultarchives #occultlibrarian #yule #jul #jol #yuletide #christmas #folklore #yulefolklore #pagan #norsepagan #krampus #perchta #grýla #yulelads #yulegoat #yuletree #witchcraft #witch #magic #horror #ghoststories https://www.instagram.com/p/CJMahSWgV40/?igshid=t5vm5m9weyvy

[wildwitch-artandmagick]

“1.  We need to kill out language and thought patterns of rejection.  The language of rejection suggests that if someone does not want to have sex with you, it is because you are less valuable and in some way it hurts you.  Instead, the default expectation should be that people do not want to have sex with you and if they do, it is because they want to share something with you. 

2.  We need to set up some contextual understandings about when it is and is not appropriate to be hitting on each other.

3. We need to find ways to make it safe for people to express desire and facilitate hooking up, but in ways that don’t require women to use behaviors that are potentially dangerous. . . I think we need to have some conversations about how we can get assent in ways that are not threatening…especially in situations in which people are likely to remain in community with each other. “