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altschmerzes · 14 hours ago

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omgggg shipping is not arophobic in the LEAST but keep making us look like whiners with no real problems by continuing to complain about it I guess

yeah that's definitely what i said in any post ever man great job

average person who has made shipping their entire identity will see a post where someone says 'hey please don't say these specific types of things that are degrading and cruel about nonromantic relationships while enjoying your ships and maybe examine the thought processes and beliefs and prejudices that led to saying them' and be like 'oh so you're a whiner with no real problems who thinks shipping is arophobic?'

telling on yourself there bud

#gav gab #lmaoooooooo #gav answers #i feel like my brain ghosts would have a much harder time with this if i didn't already like #obsessively couch every single comment i made about shipping and arophobia and amatonormativity #with a million disclaimers about how everyone is allowed to do what they want and enjoy what they enjoy #implying this comes from a fellow aro person is like #unfortunately not hard to accept bc i have seen a Lot of aro people who love shipping #also fall down the same logic traps #of people's behaviour when shipping can Never be questioned or criticized bc shipping is sacrosanct #bc they feel like #idk particularly self conscious about engaging in arophobic behaviour when shipping #ive noticed that like people who make shipping their entire fandom identity have a VERY LOW distress tolerance #for someone even so much as not also approaching fandom that way #and watching them freak out at the mere suggestion that it's possible for someone to #ever so gently suggest maybe the way they talk about this affects other people #and 'but my ships' isn't a blanket justification to say whatever you want forever about relationships and love and feelings #and devotion and whatever else and how Friends Don't Look At Friends Like That!!11!111!!!!!#bc it's Not That Deep and It's Just A Joke Calm Down and Ship And Let Ship!!!!!!!#is like. well. skill issue. i am so uncomfortable in fandom spaces all the time lmao you couldn't survive in my shoes #imagine being so selfish and incapable of handling people having different experiences that you hear like #the mildest critique of your behaviour and go so far off the rails you send shit like This #is this take for real 'it's not possible for any shipping related behaviour to be arophobic' bc if so uh. Uh #shipping related behaviour is not immune from critque about but not limited to #misogyny homophobia racism arophobia etc etc you do actually have to care abt other people #even when youre making your barbies kiss. sorry!#i see a notification on my inbox and i get excited to see a message. maybe it's about one of my fics or smth!#no. it is this asshole.

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