#not negatice I don't think???

[fitzselfships]

Hey tumblr stop recommending me canon x canon ships with Zooble and recommending me entire blogs that feature that content thanks

[measuringbliss]

hello! have you seen the recent uncharted movie with tom holland? I saw it with family and unexpectedly really liked it lol but god damn that man should get wrecked by every character he costars with. two (2) scenes where he's crammed into a small space with an older bigger man. father figure my ass. that guy wants him carnally. idk why I'm telling you this but you needed to know.

Apologies, this starts with some negatice ramblings but I think it's worthwhile.

No I actually haven't! I have no personal affection for Tom Holland, in that I readily admit he's pretty, but he's not Pretty in the sense that I like looking at him (contrary to his Spider-Man co-star Zendaya who is gorgeous and has This Thing).

The Uncharted trailer didn't look appealing, maybe because I also don't care about Mark Wahlberg. Like the casting was uninspired and uninteresting (especially when Game!Nathan Drake was a hot guy. WELL. ACTUALLY. HE'S PRESENTED AS A HOT GUY BUT IS HE TRULY? It's like the MVU, he feels neutered, unhorny. He should be beautiful, he should be pretty, but he's mainly... boring. He doesn't have The Thing. He's like a hot guy for straight dudes but pre-Ryan Reynolds or whatever actor straight guys are all about. Seriously dudes what's with you and RR.)

Anyway so I feel like you could write an essay on how both Nathan Drakes feel unsexy and neutered and unhorny and generally boring in different ways (OG as the first mainstream big sexy dude protagonist by US standarsds, and Tom Holland by being what I already described + obviously surfing on his wave of popularity). Honestly I don't see Tom Holland as marking his generation by his craft. His roles? Sure. But his craft? Nah. He's wet white bread. He's like Riley in Buffy the Vampire Slayer, an average dude in a world filled with incredible people.

WITH THAT SAID.

I can appreciate (and encourage) the need to see a guy wrecked by an older, more masculine-seeming dude. Close quarters. You know the drill. You like it, I like it, we both like it, hell yeah. Like the concept is great but I just oddly can't bring myself to feel anything for Tom Holland. But you were absolutely right to bring this to me. It is Essential Content.

[ask-blinkous-galadrigal]

Blinky: well they got mine right.

Aarrrgh: -shrug- okay

Blinky: that's definitely wrong.

Aarrrgh: is Blinky think so.

Blinky: I know so dear Aarrrgh

[dreamcatcherfication]

This is a weird question and doesn't really fit the honesty hour and it's fine if you don't answer but how does one tell the difference between being stressed and being anxious?

Okay, let me see if I can give you a good answer. This might be clinically wrong, so don’t hold me to it, but I’m gonna try to give you my perception of things and how I generally deal with it.

Stress comes from something external. Maybe you have a lot of homework, or some big job coming up. That stresses you out, and it’s your response to something outside of you that’s happening. We often think about distress, which is the negatice type of stress, but there is also eustress - positive stress - which can come from things like going to a surprise birthday party. Stress is your reaction, good or bad, to something external.

Anxiety on the other hand, is internal. It comes as a reaction to your stress. Anxiety can stay even after this external problem is gone. Anxiety can affect you even when there is nothing external to stress you out. Anxiety comes from a number of things, and lots of times they’re irrational. That doesn’t mean you can’t be anxious about them, it just means that there isn’t some external, graspable reason for the way you feel.

Hope this made sense!

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