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greensagephase · 5 months ago

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what made you wanna name the story non-violent communication?

Hiii, nonnie!! Thank you so much for the ask (and also, I'm sorry for the delayed reply! I took off tumblr yesterday)!! 🥰 Thank you for asking this question because I don't think I've ever talked about it before!!

Long story short:

THIS SONG RIGHT HERE!!!!!!!!! 🗣🗣🗣🗣 If you haven't listened to it, pls do!!😭It's one of Miguel's songs and has part of his dialogue at the end of the song before it transitions to "Givin' up (Not The One)" in the album!!! The transition is (in my humble opinion) ✨😭✨😭✨ !!!

If it has a million fans, I'm one of them. If it has one fan, I'm THAT FAN. If it has zero fans, it means I'm no longer on this Earth!!! 😤

This is my fav song from the album!! I'll explain why below the cut! I'm going to give a short (lol, I yapped too much, I gave a whole story time) explanation because I love this song sm 😭 so if you care to read a bit of an analysis on the songs, then proceed, if not, pls disregard the rest lol and thank you for sending this ask!!!

So I first heard the song a day or two before I posted the first chapter to NC, which was late July 2023. I watched the movie in June but I only listened to the songs that I really, really liked (I love all the songs but some a little more than others) that were included in the movie without listening to the full album, so I hadn't listened to this song because Miguel's songs (this one and "Givin' Up (Not The One)") are not included in the film. I only found out about "Givin' Up (Not The One)" because it was all over tiktok lol

So yeah, I listened to the song for the first time a day or two before the first chapter was posted and fun fact, the first chapter I posted for NC was actually nameless lmao!!😭😭 I didn’t know what to title it (I’ve always been bad with titles), so it was just a writing post with no title. I didn't think much of it either because my og plans were for the story to be like 3-4 chapters total (past me would've been shocked I'm still going with the story and that we're 249k ish words in just from the main parts of the story, not counting the one-shots lol).

As I mentioned, I hadn’t heard the entire album yet but after part 1 was posted, I sat down and FINALLY listened to the entire album to appreciate it (I've since then listened to the entire album like a hundred times (Metro Boomin was my #1 artist of 2023💀)) and once I listened to it in order, I immediately knew I wanted to title my fic Nonviolent Communication. 🥹❤️

When I heard both of Miguel’s songs right after the other it made something in my brain click.

I felt like it was so, so fitting for what I was trying to achieve with my story, even when I was planning to make the story like 4 chapters long lol.

So my explanation for connecting the song to my fic:

I'm probably going to sound crazy, or like someone who gave the song too much thought but hear me out.

In a way, I felt (and ofc everyone is going to find a different vibe, feeling, or meaning to a song but this was mine) like it was kind of ironic how "Nonviolent Communication" didn't receive much attention like his other song, "Givin' Up (Not The One)" did, which is more... out there (???). It's more like !!!! You know? Like the lyrics themselves and the production are more bold and strong, more “rough” for lack of a better word. Despite it not being in the film like "NC", everyone knows it! Everyone also knows Miguel's dialogue because of it, "But I'm not like the others..." and so on along with his little quote about "being Spider-Man is a sacrifice" at the end of the song.

Then, you have "Nonviolent Communication." It's the second song with the least plays on the album on Spotify (after "Nas" which is another one of my top fav songs from the album), and the lyrics and production are an entire different vibe from the other song!! It's so much more softer and vulnerable, even slower.

You let me fall first, then you dream awake I'd do anything to bring you to that other place We speak so differently alone, love like Vincent we are low Watch for constellations, soft as cloud formations That will never leave, much as duty calls If I'm in over my head, I'll swim Niagara Falls

It still has themes of being Spider-Man but it's not so !!!! like the other song is. It's truly so much more vulnerable and soft, and even has romantic themes included. And at the end of the song we have another part of Miguel's dialogue, that's often disregarded, included, "I'm this dimension's one and only, Spider-Man... At least I was," which I'm always !!!! about because one, his tone for that part is much softer (almost sad), and two, I feel like him no longer being the only Spider-Man in his own dimension goes along with him not feeling like a true Spider-Man, and no longer having this one thing to himself that he can have in common with other spider members.

I could go on about this but this is already so long 😭 but anyway, I think that part is usually disregarded, much like Miguel’s soft side that we don’t get to see a lot of in the film. We’re given very little of soft Miguel and the majority is him being angry, stressed out, scared, and frustrated (rightfully so) with what’s happening.

So, hearing both songs, I felt like they represent two sides of Miguel. One that is more direct, bold, and rough, maybe even “violent.” It’s the side that’s most known to probably all the spider people and fans alike. Some people only see Miguel as an angry man that’s determined to protect the multiverse and sacrifice anything, since he’s already given up so much.

But then there’s the side of him less known (less seen), one that we didn’t see much of but that many of us picked up on. He has a soft side despite being through a lot, and has a lot of love and care to give. He’s a man that’s capable of having nonviolent communication, someone who can fall first, speak differently with someone when he’s alone with them, and be willing to do anything to “bring” that person “to the other place” - while still being Spider-Man and sticking to his duty that comes with such title but not sacrificing those very things.

So yeah, I heard the songs and it just clicked. “Nonviolent Communication” to me is the soft side of Miguel that we don’t get to see much in ATSV, but it’s still there. And so, I decided that it was the perfect title for my fic because of my interpretation of the song and my goal with the fic: show Miguel’s soft and vulnerable side that I so desperately hope we get to see more of in BTSV (I am begging the writers to do Miguel justice!!!!!!!).

I hope this made sense, maybe as I mentioned earlier, I’ve given too much thought to this (I’m an overthinker) but that’s my version and I love the song SO MUCHH!!! It was my most heard song in 2023, so I guess that says a lot :)

If you read this far, thank you so much!! I definitely talked too much but I seriously love Miggy and this song so much and I always get so emotional listening to it lmao 😭 but yeah, thank you for the ask, nonnie!!! I hope you're having a great day/night!!!🥺🥰

-Alondra❤️

#I yapped for too long but I gotta show some love to the song <333333333333333333333 #it's truly my fav song in the album #nonviolent communication #miguel o'hara #atsv miguel #spiderman 2099 #across the spiderverse #miguel spiderverse #asked and answered

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lovebeatriceplz · 4 months ago

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COD characters as songs form the spiderverse soundtrack (tf-141 and ghosts).

They don't actually make sense🕴️

1. Simon "ghost" Riley - What's up danger by Blackway and Black Caviar

2. John "soap" Mactavish - Infamous by Shenseea and Myke Towers ( "bad gyal, big steppa" AS A JAMAICAN. Idk it js gives his energy).

3. Kyle "gaz" Garrick - Sunflower by Post Malone and Swae Lee ( he's so Miles coded)

4. John Price - Givin' Up (Not the one) by Don Toliver, 21 Savage and 2 Chainz

5. David "hesh" Walker - Nonviolent Communication by Metro, James Blake, A$AP rocky and 21 Savage (I've started to fall in love with his character)

6. Logan Walker - Start a Riot by Duckwrth and Shaboozey ( this song's such a vibe and so messy, like him aw🥰)

7. Elias Walker - Save the day by Ski mask, Coi Leray and more (💀).

8. Keegan P. Russ - Silk & Cologne by EI8HT and Offset (he's so fine someone help, also this song slaps).

9. Thomas A. Merrick - Am I dreaming by Metro Boomin, A$AP Rocky and Roisee

10. Alex V. "Ajax" Johnson - Annihilate by Metro, Swae Lee, Lil wayne and Offset

11. Kick - Link up by Metro, Don Toliver, Wizkid and more

12. Gabriel T. Rorke - Home by Metro, Don Toliver and Lil Uzi Vert ( guess where he's not going lol)

Bonuses:

14. Kate Laswell - Hummingbird by Metro and James Blake

15. Valeria Garza - Take It To The Top by Becky G and Ayra Starr (Cartel mommy 🤰)

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haveyoulistenedtothisalbum-poll · 5 months ago

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Tracklist:

Annihilate (Spider-Man: Across The Spider-Verse) • Am I Dreaming • All The Way Live (Spider-Man: Across The Spider-Verse) • Danger (Spider) • Hummingbird • Calling (Spider-Man: Across The Spider-Verse) • Silk And Cologne (Spider-Verse Remix) • Link Up (Spider-Verse Remix (Spider-Man: Across The Spider-Verse)) • Self Love (Spider-Man: Across The Spider-Verse) • Home • Nonviolent Communication • Givin' Up (Not The One) • Nas Morales

Spotify ♪ YouTube

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justanotherrpmeme · 1 year ago

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Across the Spider-Verse starters

"Annihilate" - Character A engages in an epic battle alongside Character B, using their skills to defeat a powerful enemy and protect their loved ones.

"Am I Dreaming" - Character A surprises Character B with a romantic date or getaway.

"All The Way Live" - Character A and Character B join forces to perform an electrifying live performance or dance routine.

"Danger (Spider)" - Character A warns Character B about an imminent threat or danger, urging them to stay safe and providing them with crucial information to navigate the risky situation.

"Hummingbird" - Character A surprises Character B with a small but meaningful gift or gesture, symbolizing their love and affection.

"Calling" - Character A reaches out to Character B, initiating a heartfelt and honest conversation about their feelings, desires, or concerns.

"Silk and Cologne" - Character A wears a specific cologne or perfume that holds sentimental value to Character B, reminding them of shared memories and creating a nostalgic ambiance.

"Link Up" - Character A organizes a gathering or reunion for their friends and loved ones, bringing everyone together to celebrate.

"Self Love" - Character A encourages and supports Character B in their journey of self-discovery and self-acceptance, reminding them of their worth.

"Home" - Character A surprises Character B with a beautifully decorated space that feels like a warm and cozy home, creating a comforting and safe environment where they can relax and be themselves.

"Nonviolent Communication" - Character A practices compassionate and empathetic communication with Character B, actively listening and understanding their needs.

"Givin' Up (Not The One)" - Character A refuses to give up on Character B, even in the face of challenges or obstacles, showing unwavering dedication and determination to support and fight for their relationship.

"Nas Morales" - Character A writes and performs a heartfelt song or poem dedicated to Character B, expressing their love, admiration, and gratitude.

#rp ask #starter meme #rp starter #sentence meme #roleplay meme

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