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entropy-sea-system · 2 years

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Really don't understand the obsession with calling identities 'rare'. Even if an identity or experience is rare, we still deserve respect and acknowledgement. There is also no way to know how rare or common an experience is, especially when there are layers of social norms that would make it taboo for one to actually openly admit they experience it.

#this is abt being nonfriending #I have heard some ppl say they literally dont have a way out of friendship even if they want to leave #lots of ppl are pressured to have friends or risk facing ableism and being treated worse or seen as a walking red flag #Ive been targeted by school management for seeming 'alone' bc they didnt want the liability #ppl used to constantly pity approach me for socialisation bc I was alone or preferred to be alone due to my sensory issues and unknown #nonfriending-ness #Ive been emotionally abused for not having friends AND for seeming happier around ppl I chose to be around than given family #queer #nonfriending apl

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