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cold--carnage · 1 year ago

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people don't seem to realize how damaging and traumatic it is to constantly be the object of someone's obsession. like over and over again. not treated like a person but like a piece of meat or a pet or a favorite toy. people do extreme things when they're obsessed, and the person who usually gets hurt is the person they're obsessed with. yandere and obslove creators love to talk about isolating their darlings and stalking them and controlling them, but no one ever talks about what happens when they actually do that to a person. it's all fun and games on paper but when it's put into action, people actually get hurt. and you never hear about it

#🌹.sebastian #🫀.vents #just a little rant because I've been in this situation more times than i can count #one time i had a person use anons to trick me into deactivating my blog so they could isolate me #only to leave me a week later #and suddenly I was alone #people have fought over me and stalked me and threatened me #manipulated me and toyed with my head #and it was all in the name of obsessive love #i understand obsession and I've been there i know what it's like to want to control and isolate and keep a person #but holy fuck do you know what it actually does to a person's head #it becomes very hard to tell the difference between genuine care and manipulation tactics #anyway that's my rant #no hate to obslove or yandere people ofc i totally support your right to be obsessive #BUT you can't just fuck with a person's life in the name of obsession

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