#nnngghhhhh i don't want to be stressed about planning a wedding
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hi all, here's a late night thought-ramble
[it's about wedding stuff so please scroll away if you're not interested lol it's 100% okay]
as you are all technically strangers, i thought this would be a good place to get unbiased opinions (^:
i'm a people pleaser by nature, so i'm struggling with the whole "it's your wedding! do what makes you and your groom happy, and that's all that matters! if they love you enough, they'll understand."
why? because i want a small wedding. but i also think it'd be nice to have everyone who ever supported me there lol. to keep it relatively small, i think only inviting family would work (this would be under 60 if everyone came from both sides of our family). i don't have many close friends, so this wouldn't be impossible. but my groom definitely has people that he'd like to have at the wedding that aren't related to us. it's just a "if he invites these people, will the category of those people in my life get offended? does it matter, NO, but won't they?" and again, he has told me time and again, that i should do what i want and nothing more.
but oh my GOSH do i worry about having regrets and hurting feelings. like!!!!!!!!!! what's wrong with me!@1!!!!!!! i know if i was giving the advice to someone in my position, i'd say "JUST INVITE WHO YOU WANT TO INVITE! in the grand scheme of things, it doesn't matteR!!!!"
i need to follow my advice. but let me tell you................... it's hard. i'm so stubborn when it comes to knowing what's right for me vs. other people.
ANYWAY. i want this type of wedding what do we all think
#nonsims#nnngghhhhh i don't want to be stressed about planning a wedding#but like............................................................everyone is all 'when is the date? you have to figure that you first'#out*#and knowing that i want a fall wedding#and that's something i won't give up on because that's the ONLY thing i ever dreamed about growing up.#i didn't know any details of my wedding except the season so i'm KEEPING IT#anyway. if it's fall. then it has to be in like......less than 8 months#it seems so SOON#and waiting an entire YEAR AND A HALF TO MARRY HIM DOESN'T SEEM RIGHT EITHER#i've been dating him for 5.5 years so i am rEADY to be his wife#so ready.#it doesn't help that he's trying to get into graduate school and we will have to move soon and if he doesn't get in then he has to find#another job because we do not like this job he has rn#so we don't know what area we will be in#or what type of money#it's...it's very.....#it's very LIFE. i should say.#anyway. goodnight everyone i love you all thank you for all your support and kindness#i love scrolling through my dash bc you guys inspire me#MWAH#kisses
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