#nezudesks

[nezuswritingdesk]

Okay— people who do self-shipping, I have a question! (Kindly answer please if you can) . The question is, is it still considered self-shipping when its use a self-insert of yourself shipped with a character you like or is it a completely different thing?

(Answers are appreciated, context down below and people who don't like to do self-shipping dni please! I'm not looking for negative energy here I'm genuinely curious about my question and would like to hear opinions of others who self-ship)

The context is that I'm under the aromantic spectrum (demi-aro) and I can't really feel romance much (even if I really like the idea of it),and I also start to like the idea of self-shipping as well but I can't imagine shipping myself myself with a character I like because I can't feel romance to begin with. This leads me to create a self-insert that has similar traits to me to be used instead for shipping with characters I like.

[nezuswritingdesk]

Thoughts so bad I might as well throw up and cry

[nezuswritingdesk]

Miya's dynamic with the lnds men!

A/N: happy valentines! Here's my MC's (Miya) dynamic, tropes, and headcanons with the lnds men.

Xavier and Miya ✨️🦪

Tropes involved: workplace romance, close proximity, colleagues to lovers, matching each other's freaks?, can't cook and can barely cook

Headcanons :

Definitely a new couple (has been dating for a year or a year and a half)

Their favorite dates are: arcade dates, convenience store dates, late night dates, nature walks, scrapbook dates, and food dates

They have a shared journal. It gets filled up when they go on a date.

They love to journal together! Miya collects stickers and Xavier collects literally anything — ticket stubs, receipts, etc.

Late night talks!

Miya tries to cook food for them. Emphasis on tries.

Miya is a little baby spoon, Xavier is a big spoon.

Miya also gets really jealous like Xavier. They match.

He helps her find her glasses.

He soothes her after suffering from nightmares

Miya (a part-time hunter, because she works at a laboratory primarily, the hunter thing is a side hustle so that she can get enough money to go to med school) patches up Xavier's wounds after his missions.

They try to stargaze when they can (the light pollution sucks but good thing that Xavier can teleport them somewhere farther from all the lights)

When they don't have work, they like to do nothing and sleep.

Zayne and Miya 🦪❄️

Tropes involved: childhood friends to lovers, pinning, domestic fluff , ofc they both work in the med field, introverted ² , banter plus sarcasm

Headcanons:

Has been dating for years. Zayne graduated early in college and went along to be a cardiac surgeon whilst Miya becomes a laboratory scientist (part-time hunter)

She works in a different laboratory.

Despite their busy schedule, they still try to visit each other

Miya had practiced venipuncture on Zayne in college. Zayne trusts her to draw his blood.

Beyond work, they are so lovey dovey, it's sickening. Its giving married couple

She cuddles up to Zayne when it gets too hot. THEY ARE BOTH SEVERELY TOUCH-STRAVED.

Miya kept every letter and gift Zayne gave her in a box in their closet. She doesn't know if he knows or not.

Favorite dates: bakery, coffee shops, library, study

They're both sweet tooths ? Sweet teeth? 😭

Would probably fight each other for chocolate , pastries, anything sweet (they might as well see a dentist)

Zayne helped her review for her board exam and she helps him study or do paperwork. They like their work together lol

Has two cats! Pantoprazole and Spectrometry (also known as panpan and spectro for short), those two are their babies. Zayne named them, that explains the fancy terms.

They like to meal prep together!

Rafayel and Miya 🐡🦪

Tropes involved: artist x muse, nonchalant x over reactive, likes cats x doesn't like cats , teaser x gets teased , banter

Definitely a newer couple like Xavier and Miya , probs almost a year into dating

Rafayel loves to take photos of Miya, loves to draw and sketch her when she comes over to his place

The muse at his recent art exhibitions

Rafayel tries his best to get her plushies (they only got 2— those are the ones on top of their heads)

Favorite dates: museum, ocean, aquarium, late night drives in his sports car

Miya collects him shells and gives it to him (it's like her version of pebbling)

Miya adopted a tiny baby kitten— the little baby (her name is baby) adores rafayel but oh well :(

she helps feed reddie when she's there

helps him with ideas

Rafayel loves to bring her around, calling her his girlfriend, bodyguard, etc

they like to swim together but miya isn't the best swimmer but rafayel likes to tease her before swimming back to her

rafayel and miya likes to match their clothes! absolute fashion icons (he'd do her makeup even)

they make each other jewelry

sylus x miya 🪶🦪

tropes involved: rivals to lovers, charismatic x easily flustered, sweethearts in love, absolute power couple, princess treatment

headcanons:

miya helps him patch the twins' wounds and by extent some of his

absolute princess treatment from sylus

has been dating for a while too (has passed the rivals to lovers stage)

miya gets flustered when sylus opens his mouth and talks

sylus buys her pretty jewelry, the most finest pearl earrings (her favorite kind)

miya writes poetry and sylus reads it to her at night,

sylus likes to braid her hair and miya brushes her fingers through his hair

sylus gets her clothes customed made!

Favorite dates: dinners, rooftop dates, late night motorcycle rides, auctions, attempts at slow dancing, shopping spree

absolute power couple

customed clothes for the both of them

sylus cooks and helps miya when doing chores

absolute lover boy sylus and miya who's an absolute sweetheart baby

Caleb and Miya 🍎🦪

tropes involved: childhood friends to lovers, has known each other since, puppy x puppy relationship, extrovert x introverted , pinning

headcanons:

Caleb likes to cook for Miya. in thanks, Miya washes the dishes.

has known each other since and memorized each other

miya was scared of Caleb when they reunited again

Favorite dates: park dates, arcades, outdoors, photobooth, cafes

miya cheers for Caleb when he used to play sports

since they reunited, they loved to go to photobooths and take photos

love to do errands together

Caleb buys fruits for Miya

so much PINNING. LITERAL DECADES OF PINNING.

have been living together in skyhaven and likon

miya keeps a plushie of caleb when he's too far

caleb slices her fruits

they hope to live together one day, away from the rest of the world

Caleb loves to tease her and shes all flustered and shy lol

a/n: thank you! happy valentines day!