#news flash: you *might* be riddled with toxic positivity | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

coockie8 · 11 months ago

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I don't know what anti needs to hear this, but a ship having the occasional argument, sometimes insulting each other, and having *gasp* sex every now and again is not "toxic", that's called an average, human relationship.

Sorry, but I see antis who brag about how "problematic and toxic" their blog is, while having a several miles-long DNI full of anything and everything that could even be remotely "problematic" way too often, and it's like what, exactly, are you defining as "toxic and problematic" here, when all the actual "toxic and problematic" themes are in your DNI????

#news flash: you *might* be riddled with toxic positivity #it's not ''toxic'' to have an argument with your partner sometimes #it *becomes* toxic if screaming at each other is literally the only way you can communicate #but having a fight and saying things you don't mean when you're angry is a normal part of being in a relationship #so is sex by the way!#no not everyone needs sex to have a healthy relationship #but a lot of people do!#I know this may come as a surprise for you but sex is a pretty massive form of intimacy for a huge number of people #and that's coming from someone to who sex is *not* particularly intimate!#like I'm demi I could 100% do without sex in my relationship it is not the be all end all #but I also understand that sex as a form of physical intimacy is very important to a lot of people #and there is literally *nothing* wrong with that you're just a fucking puritan #just anti things #anti bs #proship #trash king vents

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