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#nevermind the fact that a snapshot of her expression isn’t representative of her emotions in the moment nor what was causing those emotions
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The harm the Karen meme has done to women is honestly beyond description
#it’s hyperbole but I am being genuine#cause the way karen has evolved from ‘middle age white women having a tantrum over the smallest mishap’#to ‘women (still primarily white) reacting negatively to literally anything’ has affected the way people respond to women’s emotions#it has provided a new avenue for people to dismiss womens feelings whenever those feelings become inconvenient#like I’ve seen people call a women a Karen because in a candid photo of her taken without her consent she looked annoyed#nevermind the fact that a snapshot of her expression isn’t representative of her emotions in the moment nor what was causing those emotions#annoyance is a valid response to someone taking your photo with permission especially if it’s a stranger#like people have had their lives ruined because of a photo someone took of them (mary ann vecchio I remember you)#but some people really enjoy street photography and don’t want to grapple with ethics of it#so when a women reacts negatively to being the subject it’s easier to label her a Karen then to examine the morality of the thing they enjoy#more tragically though I’ve seen the Karen meme affect the way women responds to negative circumstances#like I’ve seen women afraid to correct mistakes or report abusive behaviour because they don’t want to be a karen’#which breaks my heart as it can already be difficult enough to speak up when something is wrong even with the fear of being viewed as a kare#I’m writing an essay at this point but to summarize karen meme bad
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