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llitchilitchi · 6 months ago

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sometimes I wonder why all famous internet women are attractive, if it's because they are just more confident in sitting in front of a camera or the inherent societal nature of people (women included) is to watch attractive women and their attractiveness is part of what makes them gain popularity even in genres that do not focus on beauty and fashion.

or if it's just cause I'm hella fucking gay

#litchi.txt #theres a whole essay that could be written on the topic #but I notice that a lot of male videoessayists are not yknow. sex bombs #theyre dressed in hoodies and have balding spots and a stubble that they forgot to shave maybe some chub #and Im not saying this as 'oh these are ugly traits' no I mean it in a sense that they are a lot more laid back about their appearance #and they also do not appear entirely conventionally attractive #neither in a cishet hot man way nor in more queer perception #(and lets admit it. queer spaces do have a few Types that they find hot that are not mainstream. but theyre queer mainstream)#theyre just Some Guys #and then when I watch women or fem-presenting individuals theyre all just... pretty?#they care for their appearance a lot more first and foremost. which I love. themed outfits for videoessays my beloved #but theres still a certain amount of just... pretty faces by default #I dont think ive ever really seen a fem-presenting/fem-leaning individual that wasnt already pretty #be it in a mainstream or queer mainstream way #and Im wondering if its just cause Im a lesbian or because non-attractive fem-presenting individuals dont get the attention #because we are somehow hardwired to watch hot women. but with men we give a pass #someone smarter than me probably already did an essay on this

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