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whatimdoing-here · 5 months ago

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Sometimes I wonder if I'm being overly sensitive about things or whatever but T just had his own little breakdown to me saying his dad seems grumpy all the time and like he's always mad at him. Ouch.

#and reminds me i need to keep patient which i feel I've done pretty well with #and he's not ALWAYS mad #but damn if he's not been short with them all summer #t said 'its only two months!' and i reminded him that every person has different levels of what they can handle etc #but part of my brain is also like 'he spends at least half in the days in the basement alone on meetings while i work on the main floor'#since he cant do that for privacy reasons #and i know his job can be super draining and i try to leave space for that #at what point is it too much and does it come back to being my fault anyway #i have also been trying to be much better about sympathizing instead of always standing up for the person thats not there #i am not innocent but damn its hard when the hurt starts to impact your kids (he's not completely faultless either)#personal nonsense #need to find a different tag besides tbd to remind me to delete

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