#nancyjosales

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#blingring #blingringmovie #blingringaganguedehollywood #hollywood #futility #fashion #emmawatson #facebook #vanityfair #youg #lindsaylohan #orlandobloom #parishilton #sofiacoppola #taissafarmiga #nancyjosales @intrinseca @editora_intrinseca.ofc (em Rio de Janeiro, Rio de Janeiro) https://www.instagram.com/p/ButntywBvgS/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=18thqzihcghal

[kattra]

ONE DAY WE'LL ALL BE DEAD AND NONE OF THIS WILL MATTER by #ScaachiKoul, RED DRAGON by #ThomasHarris, THE BLING RING by #NancyJoSales, LIFE OF PI by #YannMartel. #amreading

[mchaleann]

Honestly, my favorite celebrity quote. #alexisneiers #nancyjosales #prettywild #theblingring #twitterverse #obsessed #vanityfair

[lovegangnyceastvillage-blog]

#newproduct ⚡️Paper back Books arrived today, 50 to be exact. Mark your calendars, this Saturday at 8pm, the brilliant @nancyjosales will be reading from her new book "American Girls, Social Media and the Secret Lives of Teenagers" the #paperback edition at Love Gang NYC. On sale now at @lovegangnyc through @randomhouse ⚡️All sales of the paperback will be donated @planned_parenthood_ny ❤️👊🏻 #bookparty #nancyjosales #socialmedia #bookcover #conceptstore #plannedparenthood #eastvillage #nyc (at Love Gang Nyc)

[dimitryleger]

For this holiday weekend, check out any or all these #books by my friends and favorite writers. A romantic novel set in exotic Madagascar by the great @andreagordonlee, a tour of the dating app world with great humor by @nancyjosales, and a study of the link between love in all its forms and spiritual growth ghostwritten by my buddy @nick_chiles . Enjoy! (at New York, New York) https://www.instagram.com/p/CPd-cDtDylY/?utm_medium=tumblr

[news-mashable-yahoopartner-blog]

The chilling reason everyone's sharing that 'New Yorker' story about dating

Have you ever finished a story and thought to yourself: "I just read my life on a page"? That's how many women are responding to a New Yorker short story about a young woman's shitty dating experience.

SEE ALSO: Do the decent thing and send one of these texts instead of ghosting

If you haven't yet read Cat Person by Kristen Roupenian, then stop what you're doing right now and get to it. Oh, and while you're at it, you should avert your eyes this very minute: spoilers abound. 

The story depicts a dalliance between a 20-year-old female student, Margot, and a man named Robert she meets while working at her local arthouse cinema. IRL flirting turns into texting, texting turns into a date, and, well, the date turns into drunken fumbling in the dark. 

But, this story isn't a love story. This is the story of a young woman navigating the at-times perilous path that is modern dating. At times, she feels her life is in danger. At other times, she wonders what she's done wrong. Her story is one that's been lived by countless other women. 

In subtle ways, Robert's changeable disposition makes Margot wonder if her words or actions have offended him. At first, she feels touched by his "vulnerability" but, she also seems to feel the need to atone somehow and make him feel better. And, the interactions are infused with an uncomfortable realism that will speak to the soul of anyone who's ever been treated badly on a date. 

The terrible sex shared between the pair leads Margot to a realisation:

After some terrible kissing, and clumsy sex, the protagonist is driven back to her dorm. The subsequent sequence of events will sound pretty familiar to anyone who's grappled the dilemma of not knowing whether or not to ghost after a first date. 

In the end, Margot's roommate sends a text on her behalf letting the guy know she's not interested and doesn't want him to text her anymore. 

The story ends with a powerful scene, in which the woman sees the man in a bar. He proceeds to send her a string of texts. At first, the texts are friendly, but they soon take a turn for the abusive

Some women tweeted that they felt the story captures a shared experience that many women have while on dates with men. 

"Now imagining a world where women aren't socialised to placate men's feelings above her own safety, happiness and pleasure," reads one woman's tweets. 

tons of women in my feed are sharing the new yorker “Cat Person” story but not many men; which is unfortunate bc it’s like a secret window into a private experience our majority has suffered thru & if anyone needs to read that shit it’s men.

— Anya Jaremko-Greenwold (@AnyaJaremko) December 10, 2017

As brilliantly/depressingly relatable as everyone has said. Now imagining a world where women aren't socialised to placate men's feelings above her own safety, happiness and pleasure. https://t.co/IIF3lDvEDL

— Jessica Alice (@jessica_alice_) December 10, 2017

This New Yorker short story has gone viral which, to me, seems to indicate that not enough short stories about young women's experiences are being published https://t.co/OVz0TMn0rt

— Rhiannon L Cosslett (@rhiannonlucyc) December 11, 2017

For those of you feeling like someone stole your diary and read it aloud, you're not alone. Countless people took to social media over the weekend to share the exact same thought.

Read “Cat Person,” the excellent short story everyone's talking about, if you haven't (https://t.co/w3JJC93Amu), then come back for this interview with its author Kristen Roupenian that touches on digital culture and online identity https://t.co/trUsOABuY8. #amreading #amwriting pic.twitter.com/ilzTHmuTuX

— Kate O'Neill (@kateo) December 10, 2017

I want an investigation on how she wiretapped my inner monologue

— sebastian gawker (@libbycwatson) December 9, 2017

that New Yorker 'cat person' piece is TRIGGERING

— priya (@priya_ebooks) December 10, 2017

Basically anyone who's ever used a dating app could write Cat Person, just maybe not as well

— Nancy Jo Sales (@nancyjosales) December 11, 2017

Just go read it. 

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[itsmemo]

📚: #nancyjosales #MargaretAtwood #Pandoland (at 1871 Chicago)

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Ayyy #prettywild #alexisneiers #nancyjosales #nancyjo

[cambriaebooks]

New book by @nancyjosales. Can't wait to read it! #nancyjosales #americangirls #teenagers

[lovegangnyceastvillage-blog]

#newproduct⚡️Brilliant books arrived today, 50 to be exact. Mark your calendars, the brilliant @nancyjosales will be reading from her new book "American Girls, Social Media and the Secret Lives of Teenagers" the #paperback edition. On sale now at @lovegangnyc through @randomhouse ⚡️All sales of the paperback will be donated @planned_parenthood_ny ❤️👊🏻 #bookparty #nancyjosales #socialmedia #bookcover #conceptstore #plannedparenthood #eastvillage #nyc (at Love Gang Nyc)

[thisisdigitales-blog]

Last week, ​Nancy Jo Sales a writer for Vanity Fair published an article about online dating, where dating app Tinder came off maybe a little unfavourably. Tinder then went on a Twitter tirade - posting 30 times about the article sources, meaningful relationships and how we are now in #GenerationTinder. With many sources giving theories on why Tinder reacted the way they did, here is the story of what went down...

I want to head to Digg to read more about this

[notbeckyscott]

Love is Boring, Part One: Loose Women are not Ruining it for Everyone

“Is it enough to love? Is it enough to breathe? Somebody rip my heart out and leave me here to bleed.” - Avril Lavigne Kroeger

         Think of the happiest couple you know. Picture the joy in their eyes when they look at one another. Consider how they launch into a detailed recounting of their first date at the merest mention of the subject. Maybe they hated each other at first (how funny!) or maybe he saw her face for the first time in a boardroom conference and immediately looked up company policy on dating coworkers, only to eventually forfeit the rules in favor of fucking on the baby-changing table in the new gender-neutral single stall bathroom that your company constructed to avoid a lawsuit. 

              And then admit to yourself, if you haven’t already, that you aren’t interested in their love at all.  

              I'm not saying that you’re not interested in rumors about how Caroline had a nervous breakdown on Saturday night and punched through a mirror while Michael looked on helplessly. I’m not saying you don’t enjoy the meaningful look from your best friend when Michael makes a passive aggressive comment to Caroline under his breath and she emits a hysterical giggle in an attempt to distract you from the fissure in their happiness.  And I'm definitely not saying that you won't be there with a glass of wine in hand when the story of their relationship finally reaches its dramatic end – even more dramatic than the most dramatic season of “The Bachelor” yet.

               Appreciating these aspects of a love story doesn’t make you a bad person. It's not horrible people alone who are fascinated by tumult (although they probably enjoy it more and better). Storytelling has been an important part of all cultures since the beginning of time and everyone knows that what makes a story good is conflict, conflict, conflict. No one writes a book or screenplay about two people in a loving, healthy relationship who go on vacation to Europe and put locks on all the goddamn bridges, although I’m sure this is a popular trend amongst basic moneyed couples in our population. There’s a reason that movies spend very little time establishing the reasons for which their protagonists love each other – she’s beautiful, he’s sincere, she’s kind, he’s a successful Jewish film director whose quirk manifests itself in high socks and a tendency to refer to himself in the third person. Boom, they’re in love. Now, let’s tear them apart.

                Love is boring. It’s boring. A healthy love between two people who aren’t you is like the child that might one day belong to them – possibly cute and definitely necessary to the continuation of our species but ultimately uninteresting and incapable of functioning on the same intellectual level as your demons. Now, more than ever, people are choosing independence over relationships. This isn’t due to Tinder ruining men – men were already ruined, Nancy Jo Sales – as much as the fact that there is less of a stigma surrounding women who choose not to marry. Society’s slow move away from regarding women only as vessels for (crossing my fingers!) future hedge fund managers has made the option of permanent bachelorette-hood more of a choice and less of a prison sentence. When the societal cons of being a single lady begin to dissipate, the emotional pros of lying spread-eagle in your bed eating Cheez-Its and watching the entire first season of Homeland become a lot more potent.

               A vast number of millennials are choosing to live by what I like to call the “Avril Lavigne” doctrine. She sings “I don’t care if you love me, if you hate me, you can’t save me, baby, baby”, preaching rugged independence, singular apathy, and putting your relationship with the girl in the mirror above all others.  To drive home the importance of crafting an independent identity, she later married the front-man of Nickelback as a joke.

              This doesn’t mean that all young people are choosing high-carb snacks in bed over an intimate connection with another human being. The plains of Iowa and suburbs of Ohio are teeming with young love.  Somewhere in Wisconsin, a single tear rolls down a mother’s cheek as she watches her beautiful daughter exchange vows with the man who once made sure to get her home from prom by midnight. Cities, however, and particularly the one from which I write this, attract starry-eyed young people with dreams that extend far beyond two kids and a white picket fence. They are comforted by the notion that there is no one out there for them, that while others may find contentment with a life spent as someone’s better half, they themselves are whole.

                The myth that sexually liberated women are ruining romance for everyone is a tired one. Love is boring and that is why fewer people are choosing to engage in it. We are bored by other people’s healthy relationships and we are also, eventually, bored by our own. The market for Ashley Madison’s notorious cheating site is vast, horny, and dissatisfied. Like the music videos I choreograph in my head to Taylor Swift songs, nobody wants to hear the intimate details about your incredible relationship except your parents and that’s only because your parents sacrificed their identity for yours when you were born – yet another reason not to have children.

                  Love is boring and that’s okay. It’s beautiful, at least for a while, to those who practice it. What’s not okay, however, is that Hollywood presents it as the only viable happy ending. Is it too hard to imagine a film that doesn’t end in romance or a hand job or a romantic hand job? Will our future contain films that aren’t afraid to let the protagonists continue to hate each other well into the third act and beyond? What if there was a movie where they hated each other and then had sex and then still hated each other?  Stay tuned for the answers to these complicated questions in the continuation of my Love is Boring series.

[johnmichaelantonio]

Repost from @nancyjosales : Trailer for SWIPED drops today at 1:30 pm EST on Bustle.com! Check it out and let me know what you think! 🍿 https://www.instagram.com/p/BnCzggHF4Rv/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=lhkzwx9r8642

[flawsandperfection]

Book 1 of 2015: I've been reading this book since last year! (Lame😝) I found this at the YA section and I doubt it's a YA read. This is an extensive research paper of WHY the Bling Ring did what they did, and some of the things these kids (including their parents) said or did is to me egregious. This case is a representation of everything that is wrong with the fame and celebrity obsessed society and culture. People want to be famous for the sake of it, they want the celebrity lifestyle, and it doesn't really matter how they achieve it. Think of all the reality shows and 30 second of fame sort of actions, it's sickening and worrying. Wake up call for 2015 (and beyond). #Endofmorningblabber #TheBlingRing #NancyJoSales #2015Resolutions