#my mother has a degree in childcare and i love her and im proud of her but i desperately wish she did that before she had a child | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

humblefryingpan · 19 days ago

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Fucking wild hearing your mum give parenting advice that blatantly contradicts her parenting. "You shouldn't force your child to apologize" and "I'm glad she says when she's annoyed" does that just apply to other kids?? Didn't you bitch at me for being annoyed literally today???

#my mother has a degree in childcare and i love her and im proud of her but i desperately wish she did that before she had a child #she hates seeing people bitch about teen parents because “she was great” and i have to nod along as if i can't notice how she acts #tbh i really resent her sometimes. i wish she learnt how to be a parent before. i wish she didn't wait until i was nearly an adult #i wish she could see the stuff she says and i wish she remembered the stuff she said before #i wish she actually listened to how i felt and i wish she tried to understand #i feel so guilty for even thinking that shit but why couldn't you grow up and get over your childhood first #shes not abusive and she never has been so i feel so awful when i dont see her as the perfect parent she clearly thinks she is #sorry for the rant #vent post #mostly in the tags but still

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