#my emotions are valid. my reaction was calm and nonaggressive and boundary asserting without blaming. so that was also valid

[torao-chan]

my mother: how shall i motivate my child on his one day off to do the chores i think he needs to do cause he looks like he's doing nothing on this one resting day he's got for two weeks straight my mother: oh i know, i should suggest he never knows when the estate agents or other people who matter may drive by and take a moment to pause and judge how he's running the place and that this could happen at Any Time At Any Moment On Any Day my mother: this surely won't fuck with his anxiety and social anxiety and trauma and paranoia i know very well he has :) me: please don't my mother: too late I already have :) me: i fuckin know you have ;n;