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#my bil will not come visit (even when he has unlimited vacation) unless my sil also can (even though she has very limited vacation)
zmaragdos
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2 years
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#forgive me
#i am about to complain
#i am feeling hormonal and emotional
#and i am still not over the fact that my bil & sil are so readily willing to take advantage of my fil's generosity
#i don't know why i can't let this go!!!
#i think it's the double standard
#my inlaws (fil and his wife and my mil) just fucking let my bil & sil take advantage of them
#and hold everyone hostage (including my partner) with the threat of withholding their presence!
#it's like
#they will not come to visit unless someone else foots the bill
#my bil will not come visit (even when he has unlimited vacation) unless my sil also can (even though she has very limited vacation)
#my bil didn't even come back home when my fil had 2 (TWO) heart attacks in june last year!!!
#he just expected my partner to deal with it (which he did bc my fil's wife is garbage in stressful sitations-which fair ig)
#it's just infuriating
#i am so annoyed
#i am so mad that not only did they not care about seeing my kid as a newborn until my fil offered to pay for flights
#but that they now want to make the visit prioitize seeing my sil's grandparents before my kid!!!
#like girl! you didn't want to see your own fuckijg grandparents until someone else was willing to pay for it!!
#and you want to do it before seeing your brand new niece!!!
#aaargh!
#like i don't usually like or want to be the center of attention (for instance when my partner and i got married
#our ceremony was literally just our parents and we tried hard not make a big deal about it bc my bil & sil's wedding earlier that year
#was expensive and stressful for everyone (they made the whole family travel cross country for it and my mil paid for a lot of it)
#and we didnt want to do that to them!)
#but i do want my kid to be the center of attention!! she's going to be a brand new person and a new addition to the family!
#and i want everyone to fawn over her! i feel like you deserve that when you're a brand new baby!!
#and i am so annoyed that this celebration of her birth is going to get derailed by my sil being upset that her grandparents are dying!
#like i get it! loss is very hard and i really feel for her! but i want this visit to be about my baby
#and not her fucking guilt over choosing not to visit them AT ALL over the past 5 years!!
#ok ok ok im done
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