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plotting call ! give this post a like, and i'll eventually be dropping by your DM to discuss / plot something out with our muses and hopefully get some dynamics & interactions going ! this is open to old & new mutuals ! please have at least one muse in mind before liking this post so we have something to start off with. i also have a shipping call that you could interact with if you'd like some romantic dynamics between our muses !
my discord is under the cut for easier communication bc tumblr IM sucks. just let me know who you are if you added me ! *please note that i can be slow in DMs so i humbly request for you to be patient with me.
kuroihina
#.ooc#.plotting call#[ i'm going to be doing a clean up of both my inbox & drafts soon#as well as my followers + updating & tidying up my main & exclusive page#so that i can get myself back in gear for writing#i'm awkward as all hell but i want to try my best at reaching out to mutuals & get some interactions / dynamic going !#hands you all some marshmallows & chocolate !! let's plot !! ]#[ also me posting this in the dead of the night for most ppl is genius move i know hjkhkl ]
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how i scroll tumblr knowing that i'm too nerv to interact with half my mutuals
#sabs posts!#some of u guys r scary#not in a bad way bc i can tell ur really friendly#but it's still a bit intimidating interacting with other writers#bc i look up to a lot of u !#i'm pretty selective about who i follow now#so if i do follow u then that means i think you're a cool person and/or a good writer#but i'm always a little nerv to interact with the ppl who i think r the best writers on tumblr#even if we're mutuals#so i just end up liking all ur textposts when they show up on dash instead........#i guess that's my love language#so if u see me in ur textpost notes#assume that i'm waving hi at u from across tumblr 🤞
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Now that I can do words more coherently. Still feel all yucky about that fiasco the other day. Genuinely never expected that shit to break containment how it did cause I'm used to stuff staying sorta within my circle, then it left my circle, I saw the info wasn't exactly/all what I thought AND that I left out some stuff I should have put in (I tend to be vague on accident sometimes and it freaks people out), and if I had been thinking straight, I would have turned off reblogs before deleting it, cause deleting effectively does nothing. My first reaction when I saw the corrections was "oh shit I need to stop the panic then".
I feel really really bad about this and I regret the post so much I was really just not thinking right. If it scared or frustrated anyone, I am sorry. If I ever share stuff again (I rarely did in the first place tbh, this is kind of an isolated incident for me), I'm gonna be sure that the information is more of what I think it is (I knew some stuff wasn't new, but some stuff I thought was new was not) and try to be clearer about what's in there that I do. I personally don't see these things as panic situations but I should really have just added something to ease worry regardless, cause I forget that other people are bigger worriers.
That being said, I think the corrected versions are what people are familiar with now and that's what matters. I did everything I could think of to help clear it up, but it feels like garbage that there's no perfect solution. Gonna let it rest now since people DO seem clearer on it now. But seeing the post continue to spread especially as it originally was is like. -insert that Breaking Bad meme of Walter screaming from inside a car-
I was sorta inclined to believe something bigger was going on too cause like. Some accounts of mine were actually gotten into recently (which almost never happens) and the article felt like it kinda. Explained that to me. And maybe that is the explanation but I kinda rolled too hard with it and got caught up in trying to warn I guess.
#I'm sooo embarrassed#This is more of an updated version of my earlier post now that my brain is a little more in gear#I have made an error and it was a big one#Also if you're wondering why comments were turned off- comments are disabled across my posts in general for most people#I disabled them when the sex bots started coming into my comments to @ random people for their spam shit#Plus my mutuals are the main people I interact with so I just kept it that way. I'm using the comment section to post up that correction th#So the only people who can comment being long time followers or mutuals thing- it's been that way for a long time
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I'll stop posting wips eventually but it's been five days since I've said anything and I don't want anyone to think I'm dead/dying/stuck in a ditch and withering away, so here's 10% of the reason I disappeared (the duck is stuck in rendering hell) (and my little baby laptop is screaming at me every time I open up this file)
I might still be mostly lurking for a little bit so please be patient with me in the meantime 🙏🙏
#seriously though I'm sorry for just up and disappearing like that#wanna talk to people and interact with them so bad lately but I just can't bring myself to do it#so the best i can manage is blabbing in the tags like always#i don't know wtf is going on but over the past few days I've just felt like i don't deserve to talk to anyone#tried to reblog posts from mutuals several times but something in my head keeps saying;#'yeah they don't actually care for your input at all and you're being a bother for even trying etc etc'#and i know deep down that's probably not true (i hope) but i can't reason it away you know#and i know the best solution to this is to just talk to someone#let it be known that i *did* make an attempt to#i tried texting someone (and succeeded) but i couldn't keep doing it and I'm back at square one (and now feel worse lmao)#i'm not really putting this here for anybody to see it as much as i am for myself#but i know that (hypothetically) this could be seen by a real human so it still kinda feels like I'm reaching out in a way which feels nice#makes me feel less like I'm shriveling up in my own self imposed solitude#so uh hello person who might be reading the tags (there's six of you guys here now which is crazy cause i post nothing but junk here lol)#((but thanks anyway for following and even more thanks for reading this if you did))#i'll make my way around all the posts i missed soon enough don't worry#i'm sorry i'm really not meaning to ignore anybody#i have drafted quite a few posts from moots that i couldn't finish leaving comments on but i have seen them#everyone here is super cool and talented as always <3 whether that be through art or writing or just finding neat posts to share#this wall of text is long enough and i'm very eeby so thank you again for reading this#tldr; not dead and i'll be okay eventually :)#not rb#hey look i didn't post a picture of my dog this time (a crime)#i'll make sure to share one the next time i get a good one
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i really do try my best to not post too much non tennis related stuff on this blog i really do but the problem is i feel a lot more comfortable on this blog than my main 😭😭 like i just don’t post over there anymore rly bc i just like the vibes better over here
#i never had any mutuals or consistent people i would interact with on my main and so i just feel more comfortable here#which is a problem bc i still have other interests and i don’t rly want to post on my main but i don’t want them to clog stuff up over here#it’s not too big of a deal bc most of the stuff on my dash is tennis (idk the other ppl i was following stopped showing up it’s weird)#but just sometimes i don’t want to post on my main#it’s kinda funny in the end tho bc i was so scared to make this blog and i was so dramatic too it was like i was breaking the law#just for me to end up way more comfortable over here#i think part of it is that when i made my main blog and account i was a lot younger than i am now so i kinda can interact with people#slightly better than i did
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Okay given our recent topics nd us being more open and whatnot we think we’re slapping an eighteen plus warning on our blog.
#we held back for awhile because we’re open about mental health nd wanna create yknow a nice space for any folks to read up on experiences#they may share#but it’s like ahhh we wouldn’t in good faith like having our blog not have a warning yknow#we want to try nd be much more open here than usual#unapologetic and what not yknow .#thank you all!#we don’t think we have minors following atm but like if you’re a mutual nd a minor you can stay#just yknow don’t interact with anything you shouldn’t nd stay safe#we can’t keep minors from going places we only hope they’re safe wherever they go
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tumblr please get rid of all follow buttons that arent directly on the person's blog im tired of accidentally following people because you slapped a follow button at every turn with no kind of confirmation or at the very least a little "you followed (x)!" at the bottom of the screen like when you reblog a post
^^ this doesnt need to be here
and these DEFINITELY dont need to be here oh my god. it is so easy to follow/unfollow someone on the activity screen on desktop view-
#so tired of seeing content i did NOT wanna see and then realizing it is from someone that i dont *actually* follow#I DID NOT CHOOSE TO FOLLOW YOU!#i am so picky about my following... we can interact but i dont wanna follow back i curate my experience So Much#''if my mutual is annoying i will just put up with it bc that's the tumblr experience'' not for me i just slap that unfollow button KGJHDF#chat
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actually now that the clique thing is a few days old, i didn't really get involved for a reason and I don't feel super strongly in either direction
but I will say that like. while there's certainly a problem of less interaction on the fanworks/posts from less popular blogs, this isn't really a byler exclusive issue? this happens in most fandoms these days, interaction is just on a decline in general which IS. a problem but not really a "byler tumblr is cliquey" problem. in regards to any actual cliques I wouldn't say they don't exist but I don't think it's "the popular kids" themselves doing this. I don't know if the rest of you have some other bloggers in mind that I don't know about, but as someone who is mutuals with a fair amount of who I thought were the popular blogs, they are always very nice and welcoming to me, and actually easy to talk to once you just. see them and talk to them as a normal human and not an omnipotent fandom god. so this is all to say that if there's a clique issue I think it's from the outside. I think maybe people are perceiving these bigger blogs who all happen to be friends as these untouchable idols in fandom and it's. making it cliquey from the outside. like are they a clique or have you just convinced yourself they wouldn't want anything to do with you and isolated this group from everyone else. this isn't to say that people can't be assholes of course just that I don't think any of this is intentional
#I think a lot of post interaction problems are also just probably coming from the fact that I don't think anyone checks the tag anymore#I certainly don't. I just keep up with what my mutuals are posting#and my mutuals are posting their work and they're sharing their friend's work or the work their friend shared from someone else#so if you're a little known blogger it can just be harder because. your posts just aren't making it as far you have a few followers#and they have even fewer. and so unless you get an anomaly popularity boost it'll be harder for a post to get traction#also “it's a clique bc all the popular blogs are friends and only associate with each other” well they have been friends for months#or a year now. and also probably were not as popular when that friendship started#so it's more like. a friend group forms and then when one of you gets a popularity boost so do the others bc you're friends#and then next thing you know it's a friend group of popular bloggers#anyway. all this to say get out and make some friends! either I'm right and this will actually fix the problem#or there really is a clique in which case why tf would you want to associate with them anyway#but genuinely this is rich coming from me actually known to most as godawful at talking to people irl#but it's really so simple to make tumblr friends it just requires you to be a little brave and genuine#if you see someone posting a lot of cool stuff follow them!! and then get in their askbox and talk to them about something#if they have an au you really like talk to them about that if they have some music they've been posting about check it out#and tell them what you thought!#just like. be friendly and open they'll probably respond in kind and next thing you know you have a really cool friend#anyway if you're one of my mutuals and you saw me like a post the other day or whatever that might feel contrary to this#well the other day I was just watching things go down lmao#I didn't care what any posts said I was busy with my own discourse lol#(and also if you're ANOTHER mutual wondering wtf this post is about don't worry about that)#idk I think I just. haven't really witnessed cliquey behavior but I see posts about this with enough notes#that sometimes I think. well you guys gotta be experiencing SOMETHING so idk. idk#I guess this is another “some people just have friends” post#anyway I think a good thing to remember here also is that we're arguing about popularity on Tumblr Dot Com. brother we are bloggers#and we're calling it cliques. like a highschool movie
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hi! i hope this isn't weird but i was going thru the tags on the "reblog if you ship from pokemon" post and saw you shipped with prof mirror and got so excited. i should really put him back on my list but i ship with todd from the same game! you do not need to post this but if you wanna be mutuals and talk about the game feel free to hit me up!
~ zale (@zaletham)
@zaletham that's not weird don't worry!!
Unfortunately I'm notttt necessarily the best person to talk to about new snap ajhfkshf I never played it myself. I just watched a longplay when it first came out bc I didn't/don't have a switch 😔. And admittedly it's been a hot minute since that was a leading interest of mine. I'm not being dismissive or whatever I just don't wanna build up expectations bc I may not have all that much to say 😭💔
Regardless, it is sooooo swag to see people shipping from the same source!!! You're absolutely 1000% welcome to chat to me about ur ship / the game / etc!!! I like that kinda stuff :]! And it'd probably be easy for me to get into it again
#also I actually think I've been following you from my main for a little bit already lol#hopefully that does not make it weirder ✌️ I don't follow/interact from a selfship blog so don't feel awkward about it ajbfmsbfk#mutuals status achieved 🤝🤝🤝#and if you meant that as ''don't post this'' instead of ''it's up to you'' then lmk and I can delete this oops#I see an ask and go ''I have to post this Now. it is my duty...''#asks
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so sheezy is back in a closed beta and I am having the time of my life over there
the fact we've gone so long without any art community sites like it is so terrible no wonder most of us have depression
#thats a joke i had depression even when deviantart WAS good#but real talk????? its such a mood booster to interact with an actual community#i like tumblr and dont plan to leave at any point but the interactions are a lot....less yknow#most social media doesnt set things up for positive interaction#twitter's one draw for me was the fact replying and commenting were generally more of a thing that would happen#but also it was twitter and they fostered engagement by making it as hostile as possible so people get mad#an art community site though? its so...positive everyone is so nice and friendly#and it feels like if people dont like you theyre less likely to make it your problem#not to mention the team on sheezy is very anti negativity in general so if youre an ass you will get sniped for it#ANYWAY IM HAVING SO MUCH FUN#i hope some of you will join me when it opens up!!!!!!!!!!!#if you happen to be in the beta my user is rainyjackalope as always :3#i dont promise to always follow back everyone forever bc from experience it makes my feeds unusable ashdsgf#but im definitely trying to collect mutuals from offsite whenever i can#rainy rambles
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-ˏˋ 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐢'𝐬 𝐁𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐥𝐥 ˊˎ-
(updated May 25, 2023)
▶ @queencvbra // Tory Nichols // main blog + highest activity ↪ @teachdance // Kumiko // low activity // sideblog ↪ @ncmcrcy // CK multi // low activity // sideblog
▶ @daedriic // Daeris Urzara (OC) // medium activity
▶ @sl2yer // Buffy Summers // medium-low activity
▶ @kaediisa // Skarlet // medium-low activity
▶ @infectvd // Ellie Williams // low activity
▶ @harvhell // Jo Harvelle // low activity
▶ @athicf // Felicia Hardy // low activity
▶ @rang3rs // Power Rangers multi // low activity
▶ @nxthero // multi (more game + comic oriented) // low activity
▶ @dcviline // multi (more horror + live action oriented) // low activity
#⚡ ooc. ── ❝ 𝘖𝘩 𝘯𝘰 𝘪𝘵'𝘴 𝘔𝘢𝘳𝘪. ❞#you can tell red is one of my favorite colors huh sfdjldfjkl#1/3 of my blogs are red-coded#anyway I suck at keeping up with who I am following on which blog(s) so like#just know if we are mutuals on one of my blogs you're free to interact with the others too even if I forgot to follow
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what if there were more involved music ask games that requires a bit more effort, something like reblog and put one band/artist in the tags and then your followers will look them up, learn some basic info or a couple of funfacts, listen to a couple of songs and then send you an ask(anon or not) of what they learned/listened to and their thoughts(preferably of what they LIKE about it, not to hate on it), favorite lyrics, maybe some band pictures or anything they feel like including and then they add their own band/artist name at the end for you to do the same with theirs in the answer
would anybody do this to make their beloved mutuals in different fandoms feel more seen
#me#i feel bad seeing so many other people in small fandoms with little to no interaction#can we help with that somehow#do a little give and take with each other's interests#a music swap#can we invite each other over to trade records and look at the album covers and talk about them and listen to different things together#but like#a tumblr ask game equivalent of that#this could also be done with bands you've heard of but haven't listened to#where you could both learn about a band for the first time together#if you put a band name in the tags that you don't know about but would like to get to know#and then if followers feel the same they could look them up for you and send you things about them#and you could both be like 'omg' together about it at the same time#and then in the answer it's your turn to do it again with another band of the follower's choosing#or if one of your mutuals posts a band a lot that you don't know but might be interested in#you could put that one in the tags to lure them over to your blog to tell you about their band#also adding another band name to the tags of the answer could keep the game going further if you want more#imagine#i want more ask games like this to go around#there are lots of possibilities here why do i not see more things like this#there should be so many
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i love having dc mutuals! would love to follow one some day…
#danbles#dc#autisms#adhdposting#this special interest is a double edged sword bc i didnt think it would still atp feel as fresh as it did the first day#which is great! it means i can enjoy limitlessly!!#but it also means i’m constantly experiencing information overload and that weird anxiety you get around things that make you happy#i actually do have 2 dc mutuals rn (hi dc mutuals!!! thank you for lighting up my dash with joy 🫶)#but there are sooo many blogs i want to follow but can’t bring myself to unless i reach a certain point in my dc dive#i think i’m also worried that i’ll be spoiled/influenced before i even get to form my own opinions#so it’s even harder to follow if they’re not just posting art. you’re telling me there are words out there too?!#i feel like i’m in the garden of eden and at any point i’ll accidentally bite into an apple#i think i’m also just extra weary bc i’ve been burnt out in previous fandoms too#one day tho… one day i’ll be brave enough to have so many dc friends that we could throw a party!!!#in the meantime i’m so grateful to all the fellow dc fans that have been gracious enough to interact with me on my level T__T#discord ppl; random dms/anons; ppl ive met at comic stores… i’ll keep reading and learning more for these conversations 🫡#and to all my non-dc friends that have been following me along in all this :’) number ones fr#waow… me when the special interest is special… heart
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HELLO MY LOVES
it's been so long and I've finally got the time to get on this app omg I missed this place.
i have a few words for my mutuals in the tags so I hope you read it a bit at least—I've decided to post this because, idk sending them to you one by one is a bit time-wasting.
#i missed you guys truly#so i wanted to patch things up between us. me and you. because it feels like the follow and follow thing is just a status and not us—#—really being mutuals. i truly love you all but as you all know ive NEVER bring up a conversation let alone hold one and therefore—#—im very sorry#i dont know what and how you guys think of me during all these times but i hope not all of them are bad things#having mutuals was actually something i really wanted but now that i have you guys i dont know what to do because—#—the thought of talking with people online and getting to know each other was so thrilling but it made me realize how poor my—#—social skills are and also made me realize that im a big fat wuss#seeing you guys interact so effortlessly was something ive always envy put until now and it makes me think#“how can i be like them”#so i hope that i can go further into this making friends thing instead of looking for mutuals and i hope you guys can tolerate me as—#—i will try my utmost best to communicate#ill also try to send asks frequently so i can stay online on this hell site (im searching for miguel content as well)#also like i said i want to be more than mutuals i wanna be friends to you guys so hopefully youll see me as one too#thank you for reading this far i truly appreciate i#lovies .* ˀˀ#by the way#i hope this post doesn't rub off the wrong way i just really hate being like this and i wanna fix everything😭
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google how to get someone to stop reading about crypto and using degenerate
#jesus christ. i tried to move them over to tumblr to get them off reddit but they just go back to the tumblr subreddit every time.#if i tell them to do something they do it but then they put a new and fascinating /neg spin on it#like i told them to follow more ppl on here and they followed about 50 ppl that seemingly never post and i told them to make their cute#little project a sideblog so they can rb stuff but they made it their main and cant rb anything now#i tell them to be vague about the details of homestuck so that their mom doesnt stop trusting me and they decide its a better idea to keep#calling it a cringey bad old webcomic that i really love because i have bad taste#i tell them to stop using degenarate because its a nazi dogwhistle but they decide thats just stupid i guess and keep using it#i think theyre gonna become a crypto bro they have like 5 books about it#they've been on reddit since they were like 10 i dont think i can get them out of there but they should at least go on better subreddits#instead of r/iam14andthisisdeep and r/tumblr and r/whitepeopletwitter and r/nonpoliticaltwitter and who knows what else#its especially the r/tumblr part that i dont get. because they literally have a tumblr account#if theres a specific user that you see making posts you like on the subreddit go follow them! scroll thru tags of things you like and follo#all the blogs! be annoying and put out a post asking for mutuals tagged with fandoms you like!#oh and they rlly like r/nosleep i wish i could get them to go on the creepypasta wiki instead because at least thatll give them some shared#references with the wider internet and ppl their age. their mom has literally no pop culture references whatsoever so im trying to help the#but its honestly really hard when they dont do what i tell them to do. jesus i sound awful dont i#real sasha waybright moment. “you are going to follow 100 more blogs and turn off algorithm stuff now. end of discussion.”#it's not like they have a community and friends on reddit they dont even have an account theyve been lurking for years#they dont even have the app they use the mobile website. ugh im being so bitchy rn ill just shut up#maybw if yall see that this is how i think then youll realize that im not exactly worth interacting with#sorry for spiraling on ya. im pmsing.#and i have a whole disorder about that so
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//thinking about
✨ t h e m ✨
#[+ their froggy friend on top of robert's head there lol]#[hii everyone~]#[the struggle with mental and physical health has been BIG this week so i might not be able to do much in regards to thread replies]#[but i will try to work on them even if it's only a little]#[i don't want to let them pile up again and also some of those replies i still owe are months old ;v;]#[i'll also be reblogging some stuff. maybe an ask meme or something??]#[i have some followers and mutuals who i haven't interacted with yet at all or only a little and i'd like to change that ;v;]#[soooo chances are i will do it as soon as i can find some good starters or something!! :D]#[as always: asks are open so feel free to send in unprompted stuff for the guys if you feel like it!!]#[hope everyone had a wonderful weekend~! <3]#;tbd
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