#mutuals can interact/follow up

[osaemu]

how i scroll tumblr knowing that i'm too nerv to interact with half my mutuals

[faithfromanewperspective]

controversial opinion but i really think the best way to enjoy a taylor swift song is to hear it and apply it to your life and have no idea about the actual taylor lore inspiration for the song until maybe 10 years later. that's what i did for every album release cycle i've been around for from speak now to evermore and i've really missed it during midnights and ttpd

[wildegeist-old]

Now that I can do words more coherently. Still feel all yucky about that fiasco the other day. Genuinely never expected that shit to break containment how it did cause I'm used to stuff staying sorta within my circle, then it left my circle, I saw the info wasn't exactly/all what I thought AND that I left out some stuff I should have put in (I tend to be vague on accident sometimes and it freaks people out), and if I had been thinking straight, I would have turned off reblogs before deleting it, cause deleting effectively does nothing. My first reaction when I saw the corrections was "oh shit I need to stop the panic then".

I feel really really bad about this and I regret the post so much I was really just not thinking right. If it scared or frustrated anyone, I am sorry. If I ever share stuff again (I rarely did in the first place tbh, this is kind of an isolated incident for me), I'm gonna be sure that the information is more of what I think it is (I knew some stuff wasn't new, but some stuff I thought was new was not) and try to be clearer about what's in there that I do. I personally don't see these things as panic situations but I should really have just added something to ease worry regardless, cause I forget that other people are bigger worriers.

That being said, I think the corrected versions are what people are familiar with now and that's what matters. I did everything I could think of to help clear it up, but it feels like garbage that there's no perfect solution. Gonna let it rest now since people DO seem clearer on it now. But seeing the post continue to spread especially as it originally was is like. -insert that Breaking Bad meme of Walter screaming from inside a car-

I was sorta inclined to believe something bigger was going on too cause like. Some accounts of mine were actually gotten into recently (which almost never happens) and the article felt like it kinda. Explained that to me. And maybe that is the explanation but I kinda rolled too hard with it and got caught up in trying to warn I guess.

[dawntheduckrb]

I'll stop posting wips eventually but it's been five days since I've said anything and I don't want anyone to think I'm dead/dying/stuck in a ditch and withering away, so here's 10% of the reason I disappeared (the duck is stuck in rendering hell) (and my little baby laptop is screaming at me every time I open up this file)

I might still be mostly lurking for a little bit so please be patient with me in the meantime 🙏🙏

[sheltoner]

i really do try my best to not post too much non tennis related stuff on this blog i really do but the problem is i feel a lot more comfortable on this blog than my main 😭😭 like i just don’t post over there anymore rly bc i just like the vibes better over here

[lovetogether]

Okay given our recent topics nd us being more open and whatnot we think we’re slapping an eighteen plus warning on our blog.

[risingsunresistance]

tumblr please get rid of all follow buttons that arent directly on the person's blog im tired of accidentally following people because you slapped a follow button at every turn with no kind of confirmation or at the very least a little "you followed (x)!" at the bottom of the screen like when you reblog a post

^^ this doesnt need to be here

and these DEFINITELY dont need to be here oh my god. it is so easy to follow/unfollow someone on the activity screen on desktop view-

[rotisseries]

actually now that the clique thing is a few days old, i didn't really get involved for a reason and I don't feel super strongly in either direction

but I will say that like. while there's certainly a problem of less interaction on the fanworks/posts from less popular blogs, this isn't really a byler exclusive issue? this happens in most fandoms these days, interaction is just on a decline in general which IS. a problem but not really a "byler tumblr is cliquey" problem. in regards to any actual cliques I wouldn't say they don't exist but I don't think it's "the popular kids" themselves doing this. I don't know if the rest of you have some other bloggers in mind that I don't know about, but as someone who is mutuals with a fair amount of who I thought were the popular blogs, they are always very nice and welcoming to me, and actually easy to talk to once you just. see them and talk to them as a normal human and not an omnipotent fandom god. so this is all to say that if there's a clique issue I think it's from the outside. I think maybe people are perceiving these bigger blogs who all happen to be friends as these untouchable idols in fandom and it's. making it cliquey from the outside. like are they a clique or have you just convinced yourself they wouldn't want anything to do with you and isolated this group from everyone else. this isn't to say that people can't be assholes of course just that I don't think any of this is intentional

[heartbeetz]

hi! i hope this isn't weird but i was going thru the tags on the "reblog if you ship from pokemon" post and saw you shipped with prof mirror and got so excited. i should really put him back on my list but i ship with todd from the same game! you do not need to post this but if you wanna be mutuals and talk about the game feel free to hit me up!

~ zale (@zaletham)

@zaletham that's not weird don't worry!!

Unfortunately I'm notttt necessarily the best person to talk to about new snap ajhfkshf I never played it myself. I just watched a longplay when it first came out bc I didn't/don't have a switch 😔. And admittedly it's been a hot minute since that was a leading interest of mine. I'm not being dismissive or whatever I just don't wanna build up expectations bc I may not have all that much to say 😭💔

Regardless, it is sooooo swag to see people shipping from the same source!!! You're absolutely 1000% welcome to chat to me about ur ship / the game / etc!!! I like that kinda stuff :]! And it'd probably be easy for me to get into it again

[rainyjackalope]

so sheezy is back in a closed beta and I am having the time of my life over there

the fact we've gone so long without any art community sites like it is so terrible no wonder most of us have depression

[queencvbra]

-ˏˋ 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐢'𝐬 𝐁𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐥𝐥 ˊˎ-

(updated May 25, 2023)

▶ @queencvbra​​​ // Tory Nichols // main blog + highest activity           ↪ @teachdance​​ // Kumiko // low activity // sideblog           ↪ @ncmcrcy​​ // CK multi // low activity // sideblog

▶ @daedriic​​ // Daeris Urzara (OC) // medium activity

▶ @sl2yer​​ // Buffy Summers // medium-low activity

▶ @kaediisa​​ // Skarlet // medium-low activity

▶ @infectvd​​ // Ellie Williams // low activity

▶ @harvhell​​ // Jo Harvelle // low activity

▶ @athicf​​ // Felicia Hardy // low activity

▶ @rang3rs​​ // Power Rangers multi // low activity

▶ @nxthero​​ // multi (more game + comic oriented) // low activity

▶ ​​@dcviline // multi (more horror + live action oriented) // low activity

[lock-my-feelings-in-a-jar]

what if there were more involved music ask games that requires a bit more effort, something like reblog and put one band/artist in the tags and then your followers will look them up, learn some basic info or a couple of funfacts, listen to a couple of songs and then send you an ask(anon or not) of what they learned/listened to and their thoughts(preferably of what they LIKE about it, not to hate on it), favorite lyrics, maybe some band pictures or anything they feel like including and then they add their own band/artist name at the end for you to do the same with theirs in the answer

would anybody do this to make their beloved mutuals in different fandoms feel more seen

[danothan]

i love having dc mutuals! would love to follow one some day…

[ikihtoe]

HELLO MY LOVES

it's been so long and I've finally got the time to get on this app omg I missed this place.

i have a few words for my mutuals in the tags so I hope you read it a bit at least—I've decided to post this because, idk sending them to you one by one is a bit time-wasting.

[waybrightgender]

google how to get someone to stop reading about crypto and using degenerate

[coollyinterferes]

//thinking about

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