#moral of the story: don't protect your kids from harm too hard or they'll become even more vulnerable to it | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

bellarichie · 4 months ago

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having personality/behaviour issues that need to be adressed with a therapist because your parents raised you in an overprotective way feels rude. like, what, you're sad because your parents LOVED you too hard? UNGRATEFUL.

#like it's so stupid #but my parents really ruined me a bit by doing that #i have zero social skills #i don't have any practical skills #i'm afraid of almost every little subtle change in my life #i don't know how to handle crisis #i have a pretty shitty sense of responsibility #my independence is totally hindered #moral of the story: don't protect your kids from harm too hard or they'll become even more vulnerable to it #because in doing so you're just making them dependent on you #also i hate myself for all of this i'm a pos #sorry for the trauma dump

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