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My First Post....Be Gentle..

Good Afternoon!!! 

So I was bored today, and decided I wanted to check something off my bucket list, and that is starting a blog. I don’t  know how this will turn out, but I’m going to give it as whirl. For those reading this, I want to talk about anything and everything. I will post a new topic every couple of days, and just see where it goes. 

So, I’ve thought about this long and hard, and I’ve decided that my first topic I want to “blog” about will be...*drum roll please*....Drinking in your late 20′s! This is a topic that has ruffled my feathers a lot. Especially in the last 3 years. I am about to be 28 years old and ever since I hit 25, this particular topic has been giving me grief. So lets do this bitches;)

So, *typically*, my Friday night and/or Saturday night, consists of me getting all prettied up, and taking myself out to one of “my” bars, and getting loud, talking shit and tossing back a few. Up until I’d say about November, that was my norm....I have no been out for a drink since the end of November. I am half ok with this, half freaking out. Like, am I losing my edge? My boyfriend, doesn’t like me going out an partying. He knows how I get. Calm down, I don’t turn into a whore. I do however, try to fight every man that looks at me wrong. I get very mouthy and petty and I just don’t care at that given point in time. Recently, we finally moved in together. In this process, I have taken on new roles. Im a homeowner now, I’m a step mother now, and I have replaced my “Girls Night Out” with..homework,bath time, house chores, and family time. I am very ok with this, however, like I said, I feel like I’m losing my edge. This week, I am making an effort to go actually have a night out, for the first time in 3 months.  I know my boyfriend is going to hate it. Lets face it though people, your partner is not going to love everything you do..they’re just not. So, I have to accept the fact that he’s going to be mildly annoyed at the fact of me going out, but will eventually get over it. What really has me up in arms is everyone *else* and their opinion on the matter. It makes me sit back and think about the whole subject all together: Can you be a homemaker/wife/mother, and also be a party girl? the answer is...abso-fucking-lutely. Let me tell you something, if I worked all damn week, and I have 1. paid all my bills 2. taken care of my house 3. taken care of my duties as a step mom and dog mom  and 4. taken care of my duties as a partner, then I should be able to go out, or stay home, and get as little silly..guilt fucking free. that’s right, I said guilt fucking free. A lot of people feel that because I have taken up the wife/mom life, that my party days are over. It doesn’t have to be. What makes me angry is during your life, you have expectations to meet at certain milestones. 18-21 they expect college, getting your first place, first job..lots of firsts. 21-25...they expect you to be finishing college maybe, and getting fucked up. 26-30...that’s the struggle period. They expect you to be getting married, settling down, maybe starting a family or considering starting a family, having your career together...all that “finalizing of adulthood” bullshit. obviously, this is a generalization. Things do not always work out this way, but I’m talking about general expectations. Either way, I feel like I’ve got my shit together, and I am making that transition into the again wife/mom life..but, sorry not sorry, I don’t think I’m all partied out. I still want to get shit faced and run my damn mouth haha. I don’t think I, or anyone should be made to feel guilty about it. If you’re not neglecting what you need to be doing, why should you stop just because the general adult time line tells you that you need to? Yeah, I  want to be able to help my step daughter with her homework on a Friday night and then go out and swallow shots until I’m satisfied. I want to be able to come home, clean my house and then throw back a few until im good damn ready to go home. I want to be able to take care of my partners needs, and then go take care of mine and feel no guilt. Why does society feel the need to make you feel bad about still wanting to have a little fun? You only get one life. Why not enjoy it? If you’re handling your business, then people should be minding theirs..period. There is nothing wrong with doing both. Especially if it’s not something that you’re doing every single night. Sorry, but I do feel like getting trashed every night is a dangerous thing to be doing in your late 20′s. I mean, it’s really always dangerous, but more frowned upon the older you get is what I’m getting at. if you’re doing what you gotta do, you should not be looked down on. So with that, ill say it: take that shot! DO YOU BOO BOO!  There is not a damn thing wrong with getting trashed in your late 20′s and still living the life of a mom/wife! Embrace it! enjoy it!

until next time Bitches <3

X

Princess.