#mod Kat

[estonian-is-horrible]

Mm gotta love me some pork kana

[randoimago]

Not me getting emotional over my baby boy (my cat)

Look! My baby Ryan used to be so tiny and now he’s a chunky boy 😭 And Lucky is tiny compared to him now.

This must be how my mom felt about me (my dad is constantly bringing up “You used to fit in one arm.” to me)

Sorry, new phone so I was going through photos and got emotional

[wtffanfiction-de]

Falls Leute übrigens neugierig sind, was bei der Umfrage zu geschlechtsneutralen Formen, die ich vor ner Weile geteilt hab, eigentlich rauskam, sind hier (etwas verspätet) die Ergebnisse:

(Wer neugierig geworden ist und mitreden will: lasst euch vom Ding mit dem Verein nicht abschrecken, mitmachen können auf den verschiedenen Plattformen alle.)

- Mod Kat

(Ich tagge auch nochmal die Blogs die ich damals n bisschen angespammt habe: @inoffizielles-deutschland @unoffi-ciel )

[haveyouheardthispodcast]

LOVING all the salt in the tags for the black tapes 💗

[traumasurvivorshelpingsurvivors]

Tw non explicit reference to parental abuse and neglect, recovered memories mention, going no contact.

Do y'all know of any resources (books, youtube, tiktoks, websites, blogs, anything at all) or have any advice for going no contact with a parent? Specifically when abuse is not fully remembered so I can't really explain why I need to, I just know that having this parent in my life is immensely distressing and I have body memories and suspicions about what he did to me. I could justify my decision as being due to past emotional abuse and neglect but that's not the main reason. Sorry, I hope that makes sense. Thank you for any help I really appreciate your blog and the mods.

Hi anon, Thank you for reaching out (as well as your kind words for us and the blog).  I’m so sorry to hear of your experiences that might have led to (what sounds like to me) some trauma amnesia, and I commend you for the self awareness and emotional labor involved to do what feels right for you.  

Here are several articles, as well as book recommendations that I hope might help during the difficult process: 

11 Steps for going no contact with your parent

Tips for going no contact with a parent

Going no contact with a parent: what to expect and more

10 Must read books for dysfunctional families (for validation)

“But it’s your family” - specifically a book about no contact

Regardless of which resource(s) might resonate with you, I wish you well on your healing journey, - Mod Kat

[simplysaphique]

I wanna maybe get a violet and a sappho quote tattooed. Any suggestions? 😌

love that for you!!!! here are some, starting with the most iconic:

Sweet mother, I cannot weave – slender Aphrodite has overcome me with longing for a girl.

Once again love drives me on, that loosener of limbs, bittersweet creature against which nothing can be done.

And her light stretches over salt sea equally and flowerdeep fields.

And the beautiful dew is poured out and roses bloom and frail chervil and flowering sweetclover.

You came and I was longing for you You cooled a heart that burned with desire

You may forget but let me tell you this: someone in some future time will think of us

What cannot be said will be wept

What is beautiful is good, and who is good will soon be beautiful.

In the crooks of your body, I find my religion

[ohnohetaliasues]

Am I the only one who hate, hate, HATES when people ship Scotland/Ireland/Wales OCs with England and/or give them the last name 'Kirkland'?

you are not. I hate this, too.

Because wouldn’t the surname being the same imply that that they’re siblings? I dunno, doesn’t sit right with me.

[estonian-is-horrible]

I have something I want to check, but the answer may scare me. Alright, here it goes:

Please reblog, though I'm pretty sure it's gonna be pretty conclusive regardless of sample size.

[ask-dippers-second-family]

We’ve seen people drawing their Billsonas/themselves possessed by Bill, so we figured we should join the club!

Here’s us, Mod Princey and Mod Kat, as Bills!

We were going to draw a third version that was his fucked-up monster form from Weirdmageddon, but it didn’t turn out great. Might try to redraw it when we get home from work tho!

Anyways enjoy our Billsonas and… I guess our very first “face reveal”.

- 👑 Mod Princey & Mod Kat ❤️‍🔥

[estonian-is-horrible]

[redknightsdistrict]

every single dave in the multiverse is into bdsm and also taking it up the ass. this is just the effect that trauma and internalized homophobia will have on you

[estonian-is-horrible]

Have some more:

[wtffanfiction-de]

Zum Thema AfD gibt es noch einen Post den ich gerne boosten will - der lässt sich mit diesem Blog aber leider nicht rebloggen. (Ziemlich sicher ein glitch - auf meinem Hauptblog geht es.) Also bekommt ihr hier den Link:

https://www.tumblr.com/opheliagreif/739226992905469952

- Mod Kat

(PS: habe leider nicht alle Links checken können- die “Influenza” hat sich inzwischen als wahrscheinliche atypische Lungenentzündung herausgestellt und meine Kapazität geht primär drauf für husten und frieren…)

[haveyouheardthispodcast]

I just started listening to Sherlock & Co and it's so fantastic, I definitely need to figure out how many people know of it as well

hi i have NOT but i am Looking. It is also in the queue, pretty far down!

[estonian-is-horrible]

Found some that I liked:

Nimi ei riku meest, kui mees ise nime ei riku.

A name does not ruin a person if the person does not ruin the name.

Käbi ei kuku kännust kaugele.

The acorn does not fall far from the tree. (The child is similar to the parents.)

Seda, mis tahad teisele ütelda, ütle enne enesele.

What you wish to say to others you should first say to yourself.

Oma silm on kuningas.

Your own eye is king. (Have to see it to believe it / make sure.)

Targad sõdivad sõnadega, rumalad rusikatega.

Smart people fight with words, dumb people fight with fists.

-mod Kat

So for the language day how about i share some Estonian idioms. Ok here we go first one:

Hommik on õhtust targem

It means the morning is wiser than the evening aka bro go to bed you’ll figure it out tomorrow

[simplysaphique]

so i’ve been talking to this girl for a few weeks, we actually already knew each other from having a class together last fall and just casually running into each other a few times over the past year or so, and we went on our first date last week and it was perfect 🥺 she bought me roses and took me on a picnic, we ate snacks and drank wine and played ukulele for each other and she held my hand a lot and i’m still just like 🥰🥰🥰

that’s so adorable and sounds like such a wonderful date!!!