#misha/vicki/jensen

[found--family]

am i the only one who sensed some jilted lover vibes from jensen? 

[rennerator]

LOVE LOVE LOVE I LOVE HIM SO SOOOOO MUCH!!!!! S2 Misha is SOOOO F* MARVELOUS!!!! SOOO TALENTED!!! I LOVE HIM!!!!! :D He is SOOO ADORABLE!!!! SOOOO LOVELY!!!!!! Also, I LOOOOVE these photos SO SOOO MUCH!!!! I am SOOO PROUD of him!!!! And I HOPE that he CONTINUES creating, writing, helping and doing ALL THESE MAGNIFICENT things that he does!!! Thank YOU, Misha!!!!!!!! And Happy 4th Anniversary to "The Adventurous Eaters Club"!!!! And Thank YOU SO SOOO MUCH for this!!!! You are AMAZING!!!!! :) <3 I wanna get a copy of this book SOOO BAD!!! I hope I will be able someday!!! \o/

Happy 4th Anniversary to The Adventurous Eaters Club!

The cookbook was released on November 5th, 2019, and was a bestseller within days.

[the-rollerchloster]

Parasocial relationships are strange. Parasocial relationships in a fandom like this one can be even stranger.

I want to preface this by saying that everyone is entitled to their feelings, and feelings are sometimes completely irrational. I am also aware that sometimes our feelings are driven by incomplete thoughts, and have a tendency to overwhelm us and those around us before we can process them. In saying that, I have seen a lot of conflicting emotions and reactions to the reveal that Misha Collins has a "serious" girlfriend (and a large cock apparently, but that is a whole other thing), and I know I shouldn't be surprised by it, but part of me is.

There was a conversation in my discord server over the complicated feelings people have about this news. As a cockles-friendly space this was to be expected, as any new development in the lives of either half of JenMish often spurs these kinds of conversations, but as it started to get emotional I was thanked for bringing some perspective. I hope that I can help anyone who also needs a different way of viewing this situation by making this post, while also helping myself to organise my own chaotic and complicated thoughts.

As I understand it, during the It Seemed Like A Good Idea At The Time event at this weekend's Burbank convention, Misha told a fun anecdote about gift-giving with his new girlfriend and her daughter, wherein Misha got some things delivered to said girlfriend directly from Amazon, and girlfriend wrapped them for the daughter including what she thought was a microphone but was actually another similarly shaped item not intended for children at all. He continued to say that this "microphone" was for his girlfriend so she wouldn't need to go searching elsewhere for intimacy, as they are currently living in separate states. Now, I was not at the event, and the lack of recordings (recording was strictly prohibited, so if you've got one shame on you, I don't want to know about it!) means that everything I will ever know about this story and the way it was told to the small audience who were lucky enough to be able to attend this event comes as a form of the Telephone game, and therefore lacks a whole lot of body language, tone and context. We, as a fandom, have been severely burnt by this kind of missing nuance before - think DenverCon'21 - and it's these kinds of kneejerk reactions that have the potential to spiral out of control and limit the things we get told at future events - think bishagate.

Think for a second about your personal perception of Misha Collins. He's chaotic, he can be a little self-deprecating or self-effacing, he likes to turn serious anecdotes into jokes. He is also a passionate and caring man, who has a lot of respect and appreciation for his fans. Think about the way he tells anecdotes at standard con panels - it's often a bit tongue-in-cheek, a bit sarcastic, a bit exaggerated - so why would his behaviour at this event, which was specifically set up for Misha to tell stories he wouldn't normally have the space to do in a convention setting, be any different?

I am going to go through my thoughts on some of the things I have seen mentioned about what this all means…

First off, the elephant in the room, what does this mean for Cockles? To me, absolutely nothing. Whatever Jensen and Misha have going on completely transcends a standard sexual and/or romantic relationship. Misha was in his relationship with Vicki for the majority of his life, including when he met Jensen, and we all know she literally wrote a book on polyamory; his perception of relationships is literally shaped and moulded by this, and it's not something he's going to just switch off. Danneel has been a permanent fixture in the cockles dynamic this entire time as well. The JenMish panel at Burbank this weekend will hopefully alleviate any of the doubt anyone is having here, and give us some knowledge that regardless of how Misha defines his relationship status, things will continue in the same chaotic, loving and ridiculous nature we've become accustomed to.

Which segues nicely into the implication that the vibrator was purchased so she wouldn't stray, and therefore their relationship is monogamous. See above thoughts about tongue-in-cheek, exaggerated and self-effacing - when I imagine him telling this story, I see that cheeky, gummy grin going the whole time. Without the nuance of watching this unfold, I think we are all safest to assume that this was a joke, not a firm declaration that he has left his polyamorous attitudes behind.

On thoughts of him "moving on too soon" from his marriage and subsequent divorce, this is where my own feelings get complicated as well, but also where we need to remember that the key feature of a parasocial relationship is that we only see and know what he wants us to. We don't actually know what the trigger for that dissolution was, so in terms of the actual calendar timing it might seem soon, but emotional development and change doesn't run on a standard calendar. We don't know how long the process was before the decision was made to separate. I am currently working through a messy separation, and while I can pinpoint the decision to somewhere in the past 6-12 months, my marriage has realistically been dead for 3+ years, and we're a (supposedly) monogamous couple. As a poly couple, I can imagine that Misha and Vicki worked through every alternative option possible before landing on the decision to formally separate, and had probably well and truly been through the mourning period before it was even all over. Adult relationships are complex at the best of times, and no one ever truly knows what is happening in them except the people involved. I also think that as a man who is nearing 50 and just come out of very long term relationship, that he doesn't actually know how to be "alone", nor does he want to…

Lastly, for some of us, this is someone important in our lives who has found happiness in another person when perhaps we don't have that for ourselves. When those feelings hit, they can be extremely disheartening, and I want to send all my loving thoughts to anyone who falls into this category. It's difficult when the envy turns your stomach in knots and then your thoughts spiral into all the things wrong that mean that no matter how much you want to you can't just be happy for someone. Love and life are complicated, human beings are complicated, society is complicated. There is this hugely widespread and toxic mentality that we are all raised on that says we are halves of something that is destined to find our other half in order to feel whole, and it's utter bullshit. We shouldn't need one singular significant other to feel complete, and sometimes we get so determined to find that someone that we end up sacrificing ourselves to make them fit. (see also; Daniel Sloss' thoughts on this subject in his stand-up special Jigsaw)

There are many different kinds of love, many different kinds of relationships, and many different kinds of people. If anyone proves that to us, it's Misha Collins. He is walking evidence that human life is chaotic and unpredictable and indeterminate and we can make our own fucking rules. I hope that we can collectively be respectful of him, no matter what (or who) he chooses, and feel grateful for everything he trusts us enough to share.

[theyarebothgunshot]

if you're still taking suggestions, could you give your take on the breakup theory? Loved your writeup on pre-break era cockles

it's been a while since someone has asked me to talk about cockles, so i am rusty but let's see how it goes..... lmao

first of all, i will say that over the years my thoughts and theories about whatever is going on between them have changed so much. honestly my answers to what i think happened during break up era will probably change depending on the day.

for example, where i used to be sure that there must have been something solid going on between them even in those early years, ever since the poem men in woods i have changed my mind about that. to me, that poem screams jensen, and if jensen was indeed misha's new friend who tried to kiss him, i am more prone to assume that maybe the lines between very very close friends and something more were blurred at the time, but never really defined in the first few years before the 'break up era'.

i think we can all safely say we clocked something real there, real attraction, a real connection, but other than that who knows how they both saw their relationship or how sure they were of whatever was happening between them?

i do have some broad/vague thoughts (like i said, these could change any moment and is based purely on what we know and what we don't know aka fill in the blanks) on what might have been going on. i think it's possible that they both felt an attraction to each other, that jensen knew that misha was poly witch vicki and that jensen and misha either did actually explore that attraction or that jensen at the very least let misha know (by kissing him and god knows how else) that he was into him. and then, unfortunately, cas got killed off and suddenly they no longer had a valid excuse to keep blurring those lines.

because of everything that has been documented about that point in time, i have a strong feeling that jensen said or did something to fuck things up between them and upset misha and probably had immediate regrets but misha wasn't taking any shit and took his time to process everything and only when it was clear he would be back, did they hash things out.

they were clearly very very close, i mean they exchanged jewelry, this isn't something most men do with a coworker, so whatever was said or done was obviously hurtful cause even if they never explored each others bodies i have no doubt that misha valued (and still values) jensen a lot and that he considers him one of his closest friends, probably even back then. and the fact that misha was so very messy on stage, getting drunk etc, and jensen clearly tried to 'win him back' only strengthens the theory that they didn't even know what they were doing themselves back then, cause otherwise they would have been way less messy and loud imo.

[rennerator]

I LOVE THEM!!!!!!! SO SO SOOOOO MUCH!!!! S2 Look at THESE TWO!!!!! :D AWWWWWWW This is SO CUTE!!!!!! LOVE LOVE LOVE lol Vicky! XD Not the best option, I am afraid! kkkk Awwww, These Two!!! <3

big dad angry machine

[riverstixxelf]

I love the SPN fandom but honestly it’s so stressful sometimes 😭

For example earlier today I googled “Misha Collins girlfriend” because I heard a rumor that he has a girlfriend, I couldn’t find much besides stuff talking about Vicky so I scrolled down and saw a tumblr post saying something about Misha being attracted to men (which I don’t necessarily disagree with, but I don’t want to tell another person what they are) and women so I clicked on it and it was a huge post (like, a couple paragraphs) talking about some strange things. I don’t remember exactly but at one point the user brought up the “fact” that Misha makes jokes about women and sex?? As in making jokes at the expense of women… and I was like… are we talking about the same Misha here? He DOES make jokes about sex but I don’t recall him ever making jokes at the expense of women. Only thing I can think of is that one story about one of his earlier acting jobs and he didn’t know the “no tongue rule” but that was mostly at the expense of himself. Then I scrolled and found another post that was pretty disturbing…

Someone had screenshotted a regular instagram caption that Jensen posted just talking about how he just got done traveling, he wanted to take a nap, something like that—nothing sexual about the post at all or anything that would suggest that—and someone captioned it with something talking about him and Misha rubbing their [babymakers] together??? I audibly laughed out loud because wtf 😭😭

I don’t want to shame Jenmish shippers (I say Jenmish because Cockles is just a… very interesting name), even though I think it’s the slightest bit strange to be shipping real people… but again I never want to put anyone down for anything because I myself have said some stuff about Jensen and Misha that might suggest something between them.

Another thing is just the amount of hate for various cast members. Mostly the hate I see is for Jared and Misha; J2 fans who hate Misha, Jenmish fans who hate Jared, etc. There’s a lot of love in this fandom but ohmygOD there’s so much hate too. I guess that’s true for any fandom, but it’s so tiring sometimes.

Also, in this fandom, you’ll get hounded for any opinion you have. If you don’t like destiel, you’re homophobic. If you do like destiel, you’re also homophobic for some reason because queer bating or whatever… for the record i’d like to state that I am a proud destiel shipper just fyi. But I see so many people take it to the extreme, make little things into big things or something along those lines. Same thing with cockles shippers I was talking about earlier. I feel like I have a pretty neutral viewpoint on stuff regarding destiel; I see most things how they are, and I make my assumptions based on CANON things. I don’t say “Dean and Cas are definitely fucking”, I say “Dean and Cas love eachother but they cant express it, because Cas wasn’t even sure what love was and Dean’s highest ideal of love is family, which is why he says Cas is like a brother to him”. Now, if you don’t agree with me, guess what… that’s okay! If you don’t think destiel exists, that’s a valid point, and i’m not gonna dox you just because you have a different opinion than me. Because that’s just it, it’s an OPINION.

I could get into Sam haters and Dean haters and stuff… but I’m tired. Actually, you know what, screw it. I WILL GET INTO IT!!!

I’ve had a few experiences with Dean haters especially, and most of the time they just ADORE Sam and thinks he’s done nothing wrong. Let me clarify that I don’t hate Sam- like- at all. Then again, Dean haters who happen to be Sam stans have warped my view on Sam a little, but I won’t let that get in my way of honest judgment.

Sam. has. done. bad. stuff. DEAN. has. done. bad. stuff. Please don’t compare their trauma, they both have their own issues, one isn’t better than the other.

I might be biased because I relate to Dean so much (like a crazy amount it’s not even funny…), but for the millionth time in a row I DO NOT HATE SAM. I saw someone saying how Dean was the cause of almost every single world-ending event that happened in SPN… like honey no. Another person replied to their comment listing all of the world-ending events… and guess what… Sam was the cause of most of them!! Does that make him a hate-worthy character? No!!

I don’t know what point i’m trying to make here. I just think there’s so much in-fighting within the SPN fandom and as much as I love being in the fandom sometimes you just gotta have a break from all the drama. If you made it this far… go outside or something don’t pay attention to me i’m chronically online.

[soulofapatrick]

Starstruck - Pedro Pascal x reader/OC

Summary: Y//N plays Eleanor Winchester in Supernatural and is on the red carpet for season 13 where she spots her heartthrob: Pedro Pascal. 

SORT OF LINKS TO Terrible at Secrets

Words: 1.3K 

Warnings: anxiety (?)

Notes: request by @princessmermaid1289​ and photos of dress and hair at the bottom. 

Y/N’s POV:

Being part of such a big show like Supernatural is always breathtaking, especially getting to meet all the other big stars and my fans. I never expected to have such an impact or make a family with J2M. Jared and Jensen immediately took me under their wings when I joined in season seven as Sam and Dean’s little sister - Eleanor aka. Nell

Being anxious and an actor is always something interesting but I have such an amazing family backing me and getting rid of any awkward questions aimed my way during conventions. I love conventions and red carpets, being able to meet my own idols of which I have plenty. I find it so much fun talking to them and getting the fans opinions on everything. My fans are my biggest critics and they’re how I improve. 

Tonights a red carpet for our season 13 with Alexander Calvert. He’s very cute and bubbly and I love him like a little brother and the fans seem to love him even more. He’s going to be big, I just know it, especially when the fans scream at him wrapping his arms around my waist and hugging me as the cameras flash.

“Heyyy Y/N,” Jensen appears at my other side, elbowing me and leans down enough he can whisper quiet enough the cameras and paparazzi don’t catch it, “Your man crush is over there, go say hi.” 

I follow his gaze to see the one and only Pedro Pascal. He guest starred in an episode but sadly I never got to see or meet him as it wasn’t with me. My character was off with Kelly and Castiel while Pedro was with Jensen and Jared and I will admit it broke my heart a little as I have always had a huge crush on the sweetheart. He looks drop dead in that crisp white suit and black bowtie. His hair is so fluffy and I just wanna run my hands through it from here. 

“Go!” Alex is agreeing and I’m being pushed in Pedro’s direction so lightly jog over, trying not to trip over my dress. It’s a beautiful thing, not my personal choice but I have to admit it looks beautiful and it makes me feel beautiful when I’m quite a rough and tough person having been around J2M for pretty much eight years. It’s black and flows, making me feel like a character from a fairytale, the sleeves off the shoulder and it sparkles in the flash of the cameras. I think it’s made from a mixture of satin and lace with how light it is despite how heavy and full it looks. It seems my stylist was going for a vintage look as my strawberry blonde hair is pinned back in light curls, it reminds me a longer version of Susan Pevensie’s hair from the last movie where Lucy becomes Susan. I feel beautiful. 

“Hi,” I place a trembling hand on Pedro’s shoulder, causing him to turn to see me. His face breaks into that contagious grin as he looks me up and down with no abash. It has me flushing a bright red, especially when he makes room for me, wrapping a large hand around my waist. 

“Hi there mama,” Pedro’s voice is like velvet and has me weak at the knees. He’s pulling me flush against the side and begin to pose for the paparazzi again, a huge grin on his face so I compose myself and do the same, putting my arm around his back. He’s a lot taller than I realise so it’s easy for me to rest my head on his shoulder and I think I’m going to go deaf at the sound that erupts from the fans as Pedro glances down at me with a look that makes me balling his jacket in the hand that’s around his back. He lips are suddenly near my ear as he whispers “Easy darlin,” while his thumb rubs soothingly at my hip. 

We have move on so Jared and Gen can take our stops and I prepare to go back to Alex as Misha has Vicki and Jensen has Danneel but Pedro grasps my hand in his calloused one. I stumble slightly but he steadies me and my mind races because this is going to be big news and everyone is going to realise I have the biggest crush on Pedro Pascal… who is leading me to the next photo spot. 

The cameras continue to blind me and I have to grip Pedro’s hand tighter as I can feel my anxiety bubbling. I usually try to do the red carpets quickly and usually Jensen; Jared and Misha there to ground me. This beautiful man beside seems to understand what’s happening and is sending one last wave at the cameras before he’s leading me towards the Entertainment Weekly interviewer. 

“Hello there mommy and daddy,” She greets us and feel myself flush again as this never happens to me. I can’t remember her name as I was meant to only talk to a tiktoker turning interviewer as I’m not as big as my on screen brothers. 

“Hey there,” Pedro sends her an amusing smile, keeping a tight grip on my waist. 

“Well this is a nice surprise, I’m a little star stuck right now,” The interviewer turns her attention to me, “I have to admit I’m a huge fan of you and your character, Eleanor Winchester for those who don’t know.” She glances back at the camera and I’m subconsciously grabbing Pedro’s free hand, hoping the camera doesn’t pick up on. 

“Oh! Well, thank you.” I’m laughing nervously, “I’m also star stuck!”

“You’re the star here,” Pedro nudges me and I can just hear all the fan edits about to be spamming my social media feeds in the morning but I don’t care because I’m currently pressed against the Pedro Pascal and he’s acting like I’m the big star, not him. Somehow I feel like royalty, even when the interviewer gets on with her planned interview with Pedro and I’ve never felt like this. I just alternate between watching the way Pedro throws his head back in a hearty laugh every time the interview flirts with me and the way the cameras are flashing blindingly. I should be panicked and breathless right now but that hand on my hip is flexing every so often and somehow it keeps me grounded and this is probably the first red carpet I’ve been able to breathe.

“Well, here’s the question I think most will be asking in the morning, is there something here?” The interviewer is asking, her question making my head snapping round so fast I’m surprised I don’t get whiplash, watching Pedro to see what he says as I try to slow my breathing. 

“I wouldn’t mind having a date with miss Y/N here but we’ll have to see.” He’s sending her wink then pulling me even closer to him and I just look at the camera and fake swoon, laughing lightly in shock. 

“I think I’m hallucinating,” I tell her and it causing everyone in earshot to break into laughter as Pedro presses a kiss to my cheek, the light drag of his beard taking the air from my lungs, “Definitely hallucinating.” 

“She says yes,” Jared’s towering frame appears behind us both, patting Pedro on the shoulders, “Of course she wants to go on a date with Pedro.” 

“A date it is it seems.” Pedro’s grin seems to get wider and I’m not really sure what’s happening right now. I might have a date with the Pedro Pascal and my two older brother figures may have set me up it seems, especially from the way Jared and Jensen high five as they walk away and the way Gen sends me a wink. 

Oh my fucking god. I’m going on a date with Pedro Pascal. 

[blanketforcas]

I’m the “I thought cockles was married for reals anon” and I found out they weren’t married from a convention video I saw on insta where misha talked about Vicki. And I was like “👁️👄👁️, did him and Jensen get divorced??” I was so concerned. And so naturally I googled it to find out they never were married to each other and that they had wives and many children. Needless to say I was quite shocked. However I then found the cockles fandom when I joined tumblr and everything made sense and so here I am now.

ahh bless you for coming back and answering my questions ❤️

that's so funny tho. i love how you started out assuming they were married, learned new info, and had to come to the same conclusion again

[walkergirlsposts]

https://www.tumblr.com/nothingidputbeforeyou/125602576049/dc-con-j2-panel?source=share

I don't know how people can ship Jensen and Misha when it's been years since Jensen started to be passive aggressive towards misha: he said that Misha makes promises that he can't maintain, that he talks shit, that he is less attractive than Jared, he laughed in front of everyone telling the story about how he said no about Castiel on TW, he refused to do photo op with Misha hugging each other (I don't remember very well the story but the fan decides to take of Jensen's eyebrows because he refused to the photo op), he refused to do a photo op with Vicky's book about the polyamouros relationship...

Because Misha encourages them because of destiel and they think they're shipping two "hot" people.

[stefsdean]

whether you want to post this ask or not is up to you, so i don't know whether you've seen jensen's recent post or not but if you have then you'll know what im talking about. a few days ago there were speculations involving jensen not wearing his wedding ring all over tumblr & tiktok after he posted a video onto his ig story where it looked like he wasn't wearing a ring. some people said it was mirrored whereas others said it wasn't. now here's a real kicker, today jensen posted not just 1 but 4 videos that clearly show how bare both of his hands are. coincidence? i don't think so. and the fact that in the last video he holds the guitar a certain way so the camera catches his naked fingers is the absolute icing on the cake 💚💙

hey anon

first of all i do not believe in this shit theory.

idk why in the world would you think that this news or theory or whatever could make me happy because it doesn't. we are not cockles "shippers" who would ever want Misha or Jensen to be separated from their wives. when misha and Vicky parted ways, i was devastated and i still haven't been able to process that. i almost lost my faith in love because of that separation.

I absolutely fucking love Jenneel and I would actually pray that nothing of this sort has happened between them. idk how you guys are a part of this cockles fandom when you think that anything related to an absent ring is some sort of "icing on the cake". these are not our values or what we believe in. we have never been wife haters and will never be.

also i do not spend a lot of time thinking of or noticing rings on people's fingers while they play guitar. people can take their rings off sometimes without any major reasons and fyi while playing guitar, rings do cause problems to some people, it does to me.

i am actually offended that you felt comfortable to send me this and thought it calls for some celebration. i do hope that you see how important Danneel is for Jensen and how much he loves her. cuz i don't think you can be a fan of Jensen while thinking of his separation as something to be happy about.

We love Jenneel as much as we love Jenmish and Jenmisheel. Please reconsider your thoughts because this is someone's marriage you are talking about. Also look up the term "polyamory" on google while you're at it.

here's some jenmisheel for you <3

also have some jenneel because they are the most iconic duo <3

[hettolandija]

August 7, 2020 - Misha in that mysterious hotel room (not in Vancouver) talks to someone who also is in that room (so it doesn't seem to be a quarantine). At that time Vicky was in Bellingham and Jensen was quarantining in his Vancouver apartment. So I wonder with whom he was and what was he saying. Anyone here good on lip reading?

[inacatastrophicmind]

I’m a believer in Cockles but i also think Misha is dating someone. Watch the mouse video. He smiles at someone right before Alcal walks onto the porch. It’s not a platonic smile.

Most of us who believe in Cockles or ship them, whatever you want to call it, don't think nor want Jensen and Misha to be exclusive to each other, which means that most of us love that Jensen and Danneel are happy and together, just like we loved that Misha and Vicky were happy and together (I'm honestly still sad that they separated tbh). Most of us repect and love their significant others while we also love the idea that Jensen and Misha might be something more than just friends. One thing doesn't exclude the other.

Anyway, I don't know if Misha is dating someone or not. That's something he will tells us when and if he feels like telling us. I only hope that if he starts dating someone, that someone does make him happy and that he can find some of the love he deserves.

[ao3feed-cockles]

Jared has Wattpad!?

read it on the AO3 at https://archiveofourown.org/works/55709917

by KiaLecterGraham

A story of a Jared who has a Wattpad account and who makes Destiel/Cockles and Sabriel stories; a Jensen and a Misha who by chance found out about this and start reading them; an Alexander who only wants to see his camera "parents" together and a Richard who only enjoys seeing his co-workers blush because of his boyfriend's stories.

Words: 511, Chapters: 1/14, Language: English

Fandoms: Supernatural (TV 2005) RPF

Rating: General Audiences

Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings, No Archive Warnings Apply

Categories: F/F, M/M

Characters: Jensen Ackles, Misha Collins, Jared Padalecki, Richard Speight Jr., Jim Beaver, Mark Sheppard, Mark Pellegrino, Alexander Calvert, Ruth Connell, Danneel Harris, Vicki Vantoch, Genevieve Cortese, Eric Kripke

Relationships: Jensen Ackles/Misha Collins, Jared Padalecki/Richard Speight Jr., Jim Beaver/Mark Sheppard, Jensen Ackles & Alexander Calvert & Misha Collins, Jensen Ackles & Misha Collins, Jensen Ackles & Jared Padalecki, Danneel Harris/Vicki Vantoch

Additional Tags: Alternate Universe - Real World, Alternate Universe - Canon Divergence, Top Jensen Ackles, Bottom Misha Collins, Eventual Smut, Top Jared Padalecki, Established Jared Padalecki/Richard Speight Jr., Bottom Jim Beaver, Top Mark Sheppard, Destiel - Freeform, Sabriel - Freeform, Crobby - Freeform, wattpad, Jared writes Wattpad, Protective Jared Padalecki, Funny, Fluff and Crack, Other Additional Tags to Be Added, Married Jim Beaver/Mark Sheppard

read it on the AO3 at https://archiveofourown.org/works/55709917

[regardingjenmish]

With what jenmish have told us about their children, would you say that their parenting styles are quite different? I feel like Misha probably lets his kids run more wild (in that I wouldn't want to babysit them), where as Jensen's kids I think would be okay to babysit? I know this is a weird question, but it got me thinking about how all five children would interact if they spend time together sometimes you know?

But also the different personalities too? I could just be projecting from what my cousin is like but I feel like JJ is probably more independent, Zep is probably sensitive and Arrow is sassy (kind of like JJ in some respects - Zep and JJ take after their father and Arrow takes after Dee, and then with West he probably takes more after Vicki and Maison takes after Misha for sure.

The scream that I let out at ‘in that I wouldn’t want to babysit them’ hdjrkelw.

I honestly never really thought about it much but judging from what Misha and Jensen are like there’s probably some differences in how they raise them. Misha probably raised his kids to be more free spirited, just bc of how he (and even vicki from stories we know) is like. But we also don’t know that much especially when it comes to Jensen’s kids bc he does keep them pretty private (especially if you compare it with Misha when Maison and West were little). I do think though, just from the small stories we got, that Arrow is for sure the one who humbles Jensen 24/7. Just like Maison humbles Misha every once in a while dhjska

[pooopopop]

You have a very clear, very intentional negative bias against Misha, and Vicki. Of course you’re going to see certain situations and twist them to fit your narrative, often seemingly taking away the agency of the others involved, including (but not limited to) the fans he met at a club (nearly 8 years ago) who were consenting adults.

Regardless, Misha doesn’t have a record of anything with fans — beyond being open and genuine and giving with his time and self. Oh, and apparently the kind of behavior from those who might as well call themselves fans since they’re so obsessed with his every life detail and trying to paint him in a bad light for merely existing differently.

He wouldn’t be as popular as he is, have the stellar reputation in the industry that he does, or have the many fan-beloved close friends he has (Jensen, Jared, their wives etc) if he was truly the horrible person some people seem to wish him to be.

He doesn’t have a stellar reputation but the things he’s guilty of aren’t things that the people around him have any problem with. Misha told a story about Vicki pissing on the side of the street next to a strip club and yelling at the people walking around them “don’t go in there, I’ll show you for free!” While exposing herself and that is enough to be arrested and charged as a sex offender in literally every state. The girls who were at that club and he made out with and tried to hook up with were over 18 yes but they were only 19, teenagers who weren’t old enough to drink legally but we’re drunk by their own admission. Misha is well aware of how little it takes to be black out drunk because his cute little story about hooking up with Vicki for the first time was when they were both black out drunk as teenagers, and she had bruises all over her thighs but neither of them could remember how it happened.

i don’t think being friends with Jared and jensen means anything for his character. Jensen said that he would want Benny to return recently but the actor that played Benny got drunk and made out with people in the audience at the first convention he went to. Rich denied giving him real alcohol so ty accused the fangirls of roofing him. I don’t trust Rich either though because there is there is another fan photo with misha we’re these girls were saying that they found him with Rich at a gay bar, and Vicki’s book gives gay bars as a suggestion to go prowling for the perfect hookups because queer people are more willing to play with the straighties. Everybody is so supportive and cutesy about Rob and Ruth’s relationship but the first photos/videos we have of them where they were looking like a couple was from before Rob got a divorce. Misha’s poetry book talks about being a married man who pursues other women and the title of the book is named for the poem that describes lying to his wife after they both congratulate themselves for being honest with one another. He literally romanticizes cheating on her, doesn’t that sound scummy?

jim beaver is probably the only person that I have any trust in. He posted his condolences after misha said that he got mugged and then deleted that once everyone showed what he was actually doing that night. It makes total sense to me because I just posted two other videos where he is clearly drunk and the fan described him as smelling heavily of booze.

[dustythewind]

City Grown Willow Thoughts

Listening to that again this morning, I felt stronger in my convictions that the couple about whom this song was written was Misha and Vicki. I swear I remember something about Steve saying it was about a couple that Jensen knew (did I remember wrong? No idea when/where it was from) and since getting that tidbit, I just got this wild thought that it was about his friends and their troubled marriage.

So...what do you think?