#mentally composing a text to my gf about something she does that's bothering me and I'm like
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I fear I may have learned almost all of my dealing-with-conflict skills from the Ask A Manager advice blog
#my parents did not model these skills for me AT ALL so I had to learn late in life#mentally composing a text to my gf about something she does that's bothering me and I'm like#'oh god I am doing exactly what Alison recommends for workplace conflict resolution. well I guess if it works...'#life#specifically it's the 'if you're seeing a pattern wait for them to do it again and point it out in the moment while naming#the overall pattern' thing that she advises#ask a manager#also ftr my parents didn't model these skills because they just. don't argue??? so I have a model for minor differences of opinion#but not for anything bigger than that
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