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thesmokinpossum · 1 year ago

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I actually love talking about my traumas with my mom when i’m drunk because i’ll be like yeah I went to do my laundry today, I washed my bed sheets and a load of dark clothes and btw do you remember in 2006 when M. did X and caused us all eternal trauma and my mom will be like oh really? was there a lot of people at the laundromat today :)? Oh and btw M. did X. and caused us all eternal trauma in 2004 actually. Btw. Just so you know. :) and it’s actually so validating to have random childhood traumatic events confirmed and put back in their rightful timeline idk

#i've said it before and i'll say it again #my mom is great at keeping secrets but awful at lying #so asking her direct questions is the best ways to be able to reframe my early teenagehood traumas tbh #i say childhood sometimes but i honestly never really really got traumatized before the age of 12 so whatever #one of the reason i'm afraid to become a parent tbh: you can be the best ever and your kid can still end up traumatized #because you're not gonna raise that child in a box #anyway i still think it's an interesting case of nurture vs nature #because my mom who i love so much and her entire family are so open #meanwhile i'm like my favorite sandwich? that's too personal of a question tbh #and i've been this way since i was like 11 years old tbh #i'm so like the women in my family except that i'm far less honest and direct and they have much finer hair than me lmao

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