#me when i have to go through and softblock people ive been mutuals with for years because they left the fandom

[muffingnf]

gonna revive my priv twitter account i think. who want me

[fortruechaos]

i added a few more things to my rules (sorry i know ive been tweaking them a lot) and this is basically the summary of those so feel free to check out my rules if you have questions about them or anything since they're (mostly) better summarized there.

first off: i wfh m-f and have access to my computer during that time, so i am most active then! i am not as active in evenings or on weekends bc i like to get away from my computer then.

2) i don't follow people who post excessive amounts of ooc negativity regardless of if it's tagged as tbd or under a cut

3) if we're mutuals but we can't really seem to get any interactions going (i.e. sending lots of asks that don't get answered, starters that don't get replies, replying to one-liners that don't go anywhere, not sending asks in when prompts are being reblogged, etc.) i will probably soft or hardblock you after a certain point. i prefer to opt for a softblock but i know hardblocks are sometimes what people prefer. kind of depends on someone's activity level since some people just aren't on the dash a lot and that's totally ok, i'm not gonna sb someone because an ask sat in someones inbox for a month or because it took them a week and a half to get around to writing a starter, but it sucks to reblog ask prompts and get nothing from the person you are sending a bunch to even though they are frequently posting on the dash or making lots of ask calls. things like that. better to just assume our writing styles aren't gonna match up than get in our heads about it, y'know?

4) related to that i also never want to be the reason we are not writing even if my activity can be kind of spotty so i added something that basically just says mutuals are always allowed to interact with me unprompted. this includes going through my prompt list and sending me a prompt from a list i reblogged like 5 months ago.

[malevolantshrine]

callout for @therealjordan23

this callout post is mainly directed at jordan and his sexualization of minors

click read more for context and screenshots

EDIT: soph and i are currently talking through dms, she will make a post regarding this soon. disregard her section

cw: pedophilia and incest mentions

to start off, jordan has written smut for characters that are canonly minors with the excuse that he aged them up

the left is more explicit than the right, but both contain sexual content of the kids.

aging characters up does not remove the fact that you saw these characters, meant and targeted for kids, and wrote porn for them. no amnt of excuses can change what we see in canon

not to mention, nobody asked you to do this. the anons did not say " hey, i want smut ". you could have had different ways to communicate what you wanted without putting kids in sexual situations

may i also mention: jordan is 21 yrs old, what buisness does he have writting shit like this?

his response to someone bringing this issue up is even more disgusting so

ive explained the major flaws in the first point, but the rest just make my blood boil

putting warnings does not change the fact that you posted these fics in the main tag, where minors constant at, and didnt even bother to tag w/ a warning nor a read more.

you do not go to a park, start yeling that " kids cant come to this area ", and expect them to abide to your rules. their kids!

its the responsibility of adults to make internet a safe place for kids, because not all kids can rely on an adult to surprivise their internet access, whatever the reason may be

that means, take your stuff off the main tags, and stop making porn of a show thats directed for children!

im not saying you cant consume media directed at them, its encouraged, but when you start making sexual stuff and post them on public, is where the problems begin

in addition, he tells the anon that he " hasnt seen anyone complaining about the smut "

jee, i wonder why? because you refuse to listen when people bring it up? or that many minors are afraid to confront a 21 yr old publicly or privately?

i can count more than 20 people off the bat who disagree on this, and have been outspoken against nsfw against minors

now, onto why i out soph into this

soph is jordans mutual, and are currently collabing in a debbigail fanfiction. soph has a platform, a lot of people look up to her

im not debating on them being hdl x w shippers

which, btw, is weird as webby is explicitly seen as family. frank himself has stated how they consider her the 4th triplet, the comic reference sheet does so as well, the text is there yet they refuse to read it

to countinue where i left off:

so why the hell has she not called out jordans behaivor? theyve interacted in public in the past before

do you just not care, soph? your 18, you can confront them. you can softblock, hardblock, you got a platform! are you too much of a coward? give me a straight answer.

as always, this is not a call for harassment. block and maybe throw a middle finger at jordan for me

any issues can be brought in dms, and additions are encouraged, anonymously or not

[bxstiae]

HOW I RUN MY BLOG

SPEED: fluctuates on my mood. I’m relatively fast? like usually same day reply fast. sometimes it takes me a few days. know that the long it stays in my drafts, the longer i will take on it. my all time record is about 3 years. while granted it doesn’t take that long, don’t be surprised about it. best case scenario, it takes me a couple of weeks, i dont like having things fester. i also sometimes forget too! you are more than welcome to remind me if it seems like i have but please don’t make it a habit. in regards to response time on pms/discord -- short turnover rate. I usually respond to it within the hour. usually within seconds/minutes actually. if i am awake that is. unless im offline and in my happy place, i tend to log out of discord to get away from people when im overwhelmed. blog wise, i dont have him on my app. so messages are only when im on my laptop or have time to check on chrome mobile.  

REPLIES: i dont like drafting them. my dash is slow enough that i can scroll down to it. i will draft it though if i need to. length wise, im an avid writer. i write A LOT. they can get very lengthy at times. i write with a bit of prose -- that prose can get very HEAVY depending on my partners as well. i also format as well. i like heavier formatting without losing the quality of the writing. i dont like one-liners. you will see me with at least two paras or more. please know that i am dyslexic though when it comes to writing, and i have a bad habit of rereading my stuff after i post. so mistakes && errors are a thing for me. i try to catch it when i am rereading as im going through to format the posts. but sometimes things get missed. you are more than welcome to fix some if it is a bad spelling mistake ( better to ask first tho cause i spell with a brit keyboard -- and i specifically choose certain words to be spelt a specific way. )

STARTERS: when i post the starter call, any mutual ( && i really mean ANY of you ) can like it. this goes for if you follow me on multiple blogs. we interact already on one blog? by all means we can interact with one another on your other blog. but if you do, it gives me free reign to do whatever i want. look for my tags to see what i say too. they usually are a key factor in regards to my thought process. i try to get everybody done within reasonable time. dont worry i will never not make a mutual a starter if they like the call. i usually go for the first interaction/meeting with the muse though. if that doesn’t float your boat then you can message me about it. i normally don’t message people in regards to starters because A) im tired, B) i expect you to come to me.

INBOX: inbox is absolutely open to anybody! in fact, if i post a prompt, i ask that you send something in. even if we never interacted! im more versed into throwing the muse into a pre-established relationship. with the inbox, i will sometimes go to you because of that. i really do love to write, && the inbox is a perfect way to send something in without having any strings attached in regards to replies. like i said im an avid writer. i always want to write. sometimes people are slow and i get that. since im faster, i have no problem in doing inbox stuff for you to develop interaction ( aside from plotting ). best way to actually enjoy character interaction for me tbh. cause sometimes threading be hard okay?

SELECTIVITY: i am biased, i will say it now. i have preference over people i talk to ( who i consider my friends ), or people that i like. but that doesnt mean i will blatantly ignore you. people should know that if you talk to me, then the chances are i will give you more attention. sometimes i just click or vibe with people okay? in regards to following. i am on the heavy side of mutuals only and i prefer a slower dash. i give about a week for people to follow back, or ample enough time for them to follow. there will be some people that i will be fine if they arent mutuals though as i like their content. that being said, i try to be super fair to everybody. i give people an equal chance. if i follow you it means i want to interact with you ( there are super rare exceptions ). but go too long without interacting, then i will unfollow/softblock. im not a number for you. i have feelings. and, yes, i will, at random, unfollow those who either dont make me comfortable anymore, or i need time away from them. or im just not getting that vibe anymore. 

WISHLIST: see here && here for some stuff i want. i love his pokemon verse i have. i also love his FE verse i have as well. i have a FE3H AU as well but i will naturally throw him into FEH or FE3H for that verse. i have plotted with a friend in regards to an echoes verse as well. honestly. i just want a lot of stuff for him. i want more wolf interactions. i kinda favour his beast forme anyway. but i also want interactions with the language differences. there is a language barrier with him! but i want those interactions cause he understands you! i have that hc somewhere dug in my blog. gotta find it. other interactions? i want a midna to interact with. link && the links AU?? also what does a man gotta do around here to get people to discuss plots.

HONEST NOTE: if you think im an elitist, then find your way out of the door -- youre probably right and i dont want you here. ive been here for a really long time && i know what i want. all jokes aside though, im tired of people being intimidated by me for different reasons. some people think its my aesthetic ( when really im not that bad ). others are intimidated by the sheer amount of writing i do? like okay?? kindly fuck off please. i write for stress relief. i write to have fun. my idea of fun is writing a lot. if you have a problem with that then sorry but i dont want you here. i have a passion for my muses and if you dont want to hear it, then i dont have time for your complaining. theres an unfollow button. i have a journalism degree so... yea. but really. im just really tired okay. im actually a very sweet person and i wear my heart on my sleeve. anybody who knows me well enough can tell you that. i hate being ignored tbh, so if i find energy && time to like talk to you, at least acknowledge me by saying thank you. btw im not really that much of an an elitist -- i just LOOK like i have a hard shell, but im actually super soft and squishy.

Tagged by: nobody I stole from @pristinette​ Tagging: you do you fam. just @ me as per usual cause pretend i tagged you.