#me on my tumblr: if tim is not kissing someone on my dash today I WILL scream

[oh-mother-of-darkness]

asks (26)

@spickerzocker​ said:

hey there! just a heads up that i tried to click on the "why i don't ship" explanation link in your faq and it says that there is no post with that url/it's generally broken. also your "a conversation about recovery" thing is beautiful and hurts in the best way and i love it. have a nice day!

Yes, I intentionally took that link down awhile ago, and last night I went and updated some of the tabs on my blog. Here are my basic thoughts:

I wrote that link years and years ago, while I was first navigating the internet and while I was still figuring out important things about my own identity and opinions. I ran my blog differently back then, but by the end of the first few months, I knew I was uncomfortable with shipping. 

As people began to interact with me and my work, I told them over and over again no, I don’t want to talk about that, and I don’t want to write about it, and it makes me uncomfortable. I don’t think that was a common position to take at the time, so it wasn’t what people expected from me. 

During those years, I felt like I had to justify myself and give a valid explanation. I wrote that post explaining why I had that boundary, and I put it in a place where anyone could find it.

I said no when people asked, let them make jokes about it, and made jokes about it myself in response. As time went on I got more and more exasperated when I had to repeat myself. I wrote definite rules into my ask box, request tab, and FAQ. People still asked. I wrote it into my description. People still asked. 

The truth is yeah, there’s a pretty simple explanation for my discomfort. It makes sense. It’s easy to understand, and most folks think it’s a “good enough” reason to leave me alone. The difference between young-me and current-me is that I no longer feel the need to justify myself. 

None of y’all need to know why I set the boundaries that I set. My explanation isn’t relevant, and I’m not obligated to give it. I said no. That’s enough. 

I think a good number of folks remember my explanation from the past, and I don’t mind that at all. There may be a time where I talk about it again, in a more appropriate context, so I guess we’ll see.

That’s a lot of information in response to a very helpful ask. Thanks! The link is gone now, and I’m so pleased that you enjoyed the fic :)

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Anonymous said:

U suck

Kenza sent this anon as a joke. She’s right, and I thank her. 

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Anonymous said:

I'm a doctor and ive seen it all.....but the milk fic made me gag

Excellent

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@wingedskyes said:

Ah. Wait. I wasn't on anon....uhm. oh well. It's fine. I like milk and am not ashamed. 😆

I don’t think I received another message from you actually, but I too like milk and I’m glad we’re on the same page

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@thelittleredheadedmusician said:

To add to the milk discussions: my best friend from home and best friend from college have each finished a gallon a milk by themselves within 2 days.

I do that too, every once in awhile. When the milk craving hits it’s a gallon a day

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Anonymous said:

"TIM! POUR HIM. A GLASS OF M A L K!"

Hold on I have to google some things

Yeah this is funny

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Anonymous said:

I have read that milk fic three separate times and every time I’m laughing just as hard as Tim and dick by the end it’s just so excellently executed and builds so perfectly that by the time dick cracks I’m ready to go too and I just lose it it’s amazing I love it

Awww anon I’m so pleased :)

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@the-smartass-under-the-mountain said:

Just wanted to drop by and say your recent fic with Tim antagonizing Damian with increasingly outrageous milk concoctions had me giggling. It was so cute and refreshing to see Dick enjoying Tim's little prank. And Bruce's reaction to just... walk away was fantastic!

Thank you! I’m always so thrilled when y’all think the jokes hit

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@njtheboywonder​ said:

I havnt really enjoyed a fic in years, but i stopped to read ur fanfic with tim drinking milk just to fuck w dami amd it made me smile. Thanks, for writing it.

Oh that warms my heart <3

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@bruciewayneisbatman​ said:

Tim Is totally the guy who would drink ridiculous amounts of dalgona coffee to annoy damian, according to that fic.

Had to google that one, but I guess so huh

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Anonymous said:

(diff anon) but that birthday fic was so good oml and you have opened my eyes as to the batfam in quarantine this is such a Concept

We’re all here dying..... together...

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Anonymous said:

Happy birthday! 🎉 or belated! 🎂 thank you for being in the fandom. 😊

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Anonymous said:

To anon! Sorry. I forgot to add that! Anyway, thanks to them we get a lovely fic. I hope you have many more birthdays! 😊

Message for you anon

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Anonymous said:

Your writing gives off good vibes

Hear that guys I “passed my vibe check.” Is that what the youth say these days? I am an elder now and I do not know

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Anonymous said:

finding your blog while being relatively new to batman fandom is such a bliss. your batfam content especially is *chef's kiss* amazing.

Thank you my darling :) I’m glad you’re here

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Anonymous said:

Best line in a fic? Hard to pick just one, but this particular one from "Just Desserts" by fyeahbatmanandrobin on Tumblr is one of my faves: “Anyone else would be hard-pressed to provide the particular brand of excitement you bring to my life, Dami.”

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@noisypaintersong​ said:

For the line thing: "I don't doubt it. Bruce Wayne, the unexpectedly normal guy wrapped in a mystery wrapped in a superhero wrapped in an enigma wrapped in a fake socialite wrapped in a businessman wrapped in a secretive billionaire." He paused. "…You're the seven-layer burrito of Gotham," he pondered. - Barry to Bruce in 'Of Friends and Foes' by Paganpunk2 on FFN. It's one of the funniest things I've read someone say to Bruce LOL

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@kirakats​ submitted:

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Anonymous said:

“I do know that according to everyone else, there is no chance, no future, no universe where I stay a hero.” Describes my frustration with the way DC treats Damian so accurately. Let the kid be a hero dammit.

Thanks! That’s really helpful. I’ve got a decent answer to my question now. 

@kurawastaken​ submitted:

So this is Kenza retaliating against me for the milk fic. I very much hate tomatoes and specifically ketchup. This photo (1) is a nightmare and (2) fulfills its intended purpose.

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Anonymous said:

I love your blog!!!

And I love you 

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Anonymous said:

quick question: how do you think jason reconciles with the fam?? i think in the comics they kinda just reboot and now he’s on better terms. but like what conversations happened, yknow??? (you’re doin great work by the way, it rips out my heart but it’s great)

This is an amazing question, and I’ll be thinking about it for the next bit, I think. That would be a really interesting topic to explore in depth

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@angel-gidget​ said:

*hugs you real tight* would you please send this to the first 10 people in your dash? Make sure someone gets a hug today and stay safe!

Oh thank you for the hug <3

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Anonymous said:

I hadn’t been aware of that Memphis petition, but I live in Memphis too (Altho I know you said you just grew up there so you may not be living here currently haha) so ig I just wanted to say thanks for bringing it to my attention!

!!!

I’ve been in Texas for six years now, ever since I started school, but I’m still in and out of Memphis for family purposes. Love the trash heap of my birth 

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@damianwaynerocks​ said:

hey! any chance you know of any other dc heroes around damian’s age?

Sure! You could try Billy Batson, Jon Kent, or Maya Ducard

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Anonymous said:

hi! i don't know if it's okay to leave anons like these but ive been feeling down because my country has passed a bill that deprives us of lots of human rights freedom and i want you to know that i just found your blog through the damian/bruce + justice fic and it comforted me. im slowly going thru your works and so far they are all comforting. i love your stuff, thank you.

Philippines? I’ve heard some things, and I’m real sorry y’all’re going through that. I don’t know that there’s anything I could say about that to help, but I hope you’re finding joy somewhere

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@awesomeness-ofgaybitches​ said:

Tumblr hates you. The links in your bio and to your fic masterlist don't work on mobile. I'm sorry.

FUCK

[aussiekaylor-blog]

1-150

This was the death of me

Honesty hour: Ask me anything and ill be 100% honest, all questions answered.“PUT A NUMBER IN MY ASK!” (all answered q will be permanently posted in my dash)

1.Who was the last person you held hands with? i don't remember2. Are you outgoing or shy? Shy3. Who are you looking forward to seeing? my cousins4. Are you easy to get along with? depends 5. If you were drunk would the person you like take care of you? hopefully my boyfriend or @a-treacherous-hope6. What kind of people are you attracted to? nice and funny7. Do you think you’ll be in a relationship two months from now? I'm already in one 8. Who from the opposite gender is on your mind? um my cat Isaac9. Does talking about sex make you uncomfortable? yes10. Who was the last person you had a deep conversation with? @a-treacherous-hope11. What does the most recent text that you sent say? hey bubba I'm bisexual12. What are your 5 favorite songs right now? IDWLF, i almost do, white horse, tim mcgraw and love story13. Do you like it when people play with your hair? yes 14. Do you believe in luck and miracles? sometimes15. What good thing happened this summer? um christmas happened16. Would you kiss the last person you kissed again? maybe17. Do you think there is life on other planets? properly 18. Do you still talk to your first crush? i don't have one19. Do you like bubble baths? no 20. Do you like your neighbours? nope21. What are you bad habits? falling hard to fast22. Where would you like to travel? to Nashville and st. louis  23. Do you have trust issues? yes 24. Favorite part of your daily routine? wake up pee shower food tumblr25. What part of your body are you most uncomfortable with? my legs and stomach 26. What do you do when you wake up? play music 27. Do you wish your skin was lighter or darker? darker28. Who are you most comfortable around? everyone 29. Have any of your ex’s told you they regret breaking up? nope 30. Do you ever want to get married? maybe one day I'm only 2131. If your hair long enough for a pony tail? yes32. Which celebrities would you have a threesome with? Taylor Swift Karlie Kloss33. Spell your name with your chin. a bby not that hard fun fact i can send texts with my nose34. Do you play sports? What sports? yes i play American football and aussie rules 35. Would you rather live without TV or music? live without tv36. Have you ever liked someone and never told them? yes 37. What do you say during awkward silences? i laugh38. Describe your dream girl/guy? dream girl would be someone that can be them selfs around me and who will just lay and cuddle all day39. What are your favorite stores to shop in?KMART40. What do you want to do after high school? sleep and eat food41. Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance? um some people yes42. If your being extremely quiet what does it mean? I'm writing songs or plotting ur death43. Do you smile at strangers? yes44. Trip to outer space or bottom of the ocean? outer space 45. What makes you get out of bed in the morning? when the toilet calls for me 46. What are you paranoid about? people leaving me 47. Have you ever been high? yes regret it48. Have you ever been drunk? yes 49. Have you done anything recently that you hope nobody finds out about? um what I've done in my personal life 50. What was the colour of the last hoodie you wore? its to hot for hod dies51. Ever wished you were someone else? yes 52. One thing you wish you could change about yourself? um that i wouldn't be so jealous 53. Favourite makeup brand? don't wear make up54. Favourite store? kmart55. Favourite blog? um my sisters @a-treacherous-hopes blog 56. Favourite colour? purple 57. Favourite food? pesto pasta58. Last thing you ate? pasta59. First thing you ate this morning? i don't eat breakfast60. Ever won a competition? For what? I've won heaps of athletic things61. Been suspended/expelled? For what? suspended for burning someone in science. I'm not even sorry 62. Been arrested? For what? nope63. Ever been in love? yes64. Tell us the story of your first kiss? um i was like 6 and it was cute idk i can't remember it 65. Are you hungry right now? I'm 21 I'm always hungry66. Do you like your tumblr friends more than your real friends? yes67. Facebook or Twitter? both 68. Twitter or Tumblr? tumblr 69. Are you watching tv right now? not watching tv70. Names of your bestfriends? um Andrew and Akirah 71. Craving something? What? DUMPLINGS 72. What colour are your towels? purple72. How many pillows do you sleep with? 273. Do you sleep with stuffed animals? yes 74. How many stuffed animals do you think you have? to many 75. Favourite animal? um dolphin 76. What colour is your underwear? black lace 77. Chocolate or Vanilla? vanilla 78. Favourite ice cream flavour? peanut butter79. What colour shirt are you wearing? green80. What colour pants? black81. Favourite tv show? Pretty little liars and OITNB82. Favourite movie? bend it like Beckham 83. Mean Girls or Mean Girls 2? both84. Mean Girls or 21 Jump Street? mean girls 85. Favourite character from Mean Girls? Karen86. Favourite character from Finding Nemo? squirt87. First person you talked to today? @webothwentmad138988. Last person you talked to today? @a-treacherous-hope89. Name a person you hate? not naming names90. Name a person you love? my boyfriend91. Is there anyone you want to punch in the face right now? yes 92. In a fight with someone? yes 93. How many sweatpants do you have? to many94. How many sweaters/hoodies do you have? to many95. Last movie you watched? um a Fantastic Beast And Where To Find Them96. Favourite actress? Emma Stone and Taylor Swift 97. Favourite actor? Zac Efron HSM98. Do you tan a lot? no I'm white as99. Have any pets? yes my cat Isaac 100. How are you feeling? better then normal 101. Do you type fast?no102. Do you regret anything from your past? yes 103. Can you spell well? nope 

104. Do you miss anyone from your past? yes my nan R.I.P105. Ever been to a bonfire party? nope106. Ever broken someone’s heart? yes107. Have you ever been on a horse? yes 108. What should you be doing? yes 109. Is something irritating you right now? yes.110. Have you ever liked someone so much it hurt? yes and i wrote a song about it 111. Do you have trust issues? yes 112. Who was the last person you cried in front of? boyfriend113. What was your childhood nickname? Mouse114. Have you ever been out of your province/state? yes115. Do you play the Wii? yes wii bowling116. Are you listening to music right now? yes117. Do you like chicken noodle soup? no i don't like soup unless its pumpkin 118. Do you like Chinese food? yes 119. Favourite book? all the rivers run by Nancy Cato120. Are you afraid of the dark? no121. Are you mean? yes I'm a bitch122. Is cheating ever okay? no123. Can you keep white shoes clean? i don't own white shoes for that purpose 124. Do you believe in love at first sight? yes125. Do you believe in true love? yes 126. Are you currently bored? maybe127. What makes you happy? nuggets and cuddles128. Would you change your name? no129. What your zodiac sign? cancer130. Do you like subway? yes 131. Your bestfriend of the opposite sex likes you, what do you do? be honest with them132. Who’s the last person you had a deep conversation with? @a-treacherous-hope133. Favourite lyrics right now? I'm sitting eyes wide open and I got one thing stuck in my mind, Wondering if I dodged a bullet or just lost the love of my life IDWLF ZAYN ft Taylor Swift134. Can you count to one million? um sure135. Dumbest lie you ever told? I'm sick136. Do you sleep with your doors open or closed? closed 137. How tall are you? 5ft on the dot.. agh I'm so small138. Curly or Straight hair? straight139. Brunette or Blonde? blonde140. Summer or Winter? winter141. Night or Day? night142. Favourite month? june 143. Are you a vegetarian? no144. Dark, milk or white chocolate? don't eat it 145. Tea or Coffee? don't drink it146. Was today a good day? eh it was alright 147. Mars or Snickers? mars148. What’s your favourite quote? “To me, Fearless is not the absense of fear. It's not being completely unafraid. To me, Fearless is having fears. Fearless is having doubts. Lots of them. To me, Fearless is living in spite of those things that scare you to death.”  - @taylorswift149. Do you believe in ghosts? yes 150. Get the closest book next to you, open it to page 42, what’s the first line. The night was calm and mild. All The Rivers Run by Nancy Cato

[thefuturebelongs]

All 150. Do it.

Yes, grey face.

Honesty hour: Ask me anything and ill be 100% honest, all questions answered.“PUT A NUMBER IN MY ASK!” (all answered q will be permanently posted in my dash)

1. Who was the last person you held hands with? - my girlfriend
2. Are you outgoing or shy? - more often shy but it depends on who I’m with
3. Who are you looking forward to seeing? - haha can I say the featured guests at ClexaCon?
4. Are you easy to get along with? - I would like to think so
5. If you were drunk would the person you like take care of you? - definitely
6. What kind of people are you attracted to? - kind people, who have no big ego or only talk about themselves
7. Do you think you’ll be in a relationship two months from now? - I better be
8. Who from the opposite gender is on your mind? - always Isaiah
9. Does talking about sex make you uncomfortable? - nope
10. Who was the last person you had a deep conversation with? - ha my girlfriend last night
11. What does the most recent text that you sent say? - 👋🏼👍🏼🌅
12. What are your 5 favorite songs right now? - Unstable by Zak Abel, Time of Your Life by Pitbull, Gone by Jr Jr, Humble and Kind by Tim McGraw and Nothing by Nat Vanlis
13. Do you like it when people play with your hair? - absolutely
14. Do you believe in luck and miracles? - ehh not really
15. What good thing happened this summer? - like last summer? Since it’s January right now. Uhh well besides the Navy dropping me and me getting hurt… I had fun at Chicago pride!
16. Would you kiss the last person you kissed again? - of course
17. Do you think there is life on other planets? - definitely
18. Do you still talk to your first crush? - HAHA. No
19. Do you like bubble baths? - I guess? Haven’t taken one in years
20. Do you like your neighbors? - one of them, the rest are meh
21. What are you bad habits? - I’m fabulous at procrastinating
22. Where would you like to travel? - Iceland, Australia, Toronto, Vancouver, Hobbit town, Egypt, morocco, Norway, Netherlands, Sweden, Switzerland, Peru, should I continue?
23. Do you have trust issues? - yes and no. It depends on the person 
24. Favorite part of your daily routine? - I don’t have a daily routine
25. What part of your body are you most uncomfortable with? - ha the whole mid section
26. What do you do when you wake up? - go to the bathroom
27. Do you wish your skin was lighter or darker? - nah. I wish I tanned as easily as my father though 
28. Who are you most comfortable around? - I have a few select friends I can always be my self around
29. Have any of your ex’s told you they regret breaking up? - not that I remember
30. Do you ever want to get married? - someday
31. Is your hair long enough for a pony tail? - very much so
32. Which celebrities would you have a threesome with? - hahahahahaha
33. Spell your name with your chin. - Lizzie (I guess I was close enough to the letters where autocorrect took over. And I was too lazy to not use it)
34. Do you play sports? What sports? - uh I played soccer for about 12 years, swam for 15 years, then a few years of softball and basketball. Now I just rock climb ha. 
35. Would you rather live without TV or music? - without tv
36. Have you ever liked someone and never told them? - yes
37. What do you say during awkward silences? - I don’t ha
38. Describe your dream girl/guy? - someone who is compassionate, loves to laugh but knows when to be serious, doesn’t tease me ha , has a sense of adventure, is a good friend to their friends
39. What are your favorite stores to shop in? - meh I kind of just go wherever at this point
40. What do you want to do after high school? - well seeing as I graduated high school almost 7 years ago, I went to college
41. Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance? - it depends on what they did to ruin the first chance
42. If your being extremely quiet what does it mean? - either I’m super tired or I’m grumpy
43. Do you smile at strangers? - haha yes
44. Trip to outer space or bottom of the ocean? - ohhh… Space
45. What makes you get out of bed in the morning? - eggs
46. What are you paranoid about? - my future. And my knee
47. Have you ever been high? - nope
48. Have you ever been drunk? - a few times
49. Have you done anything recently that you hope nobody finds out about? - no?
50. What was the colour of the last hoodie you wore? - uh like a cream color with green striped sleeves
51. Ever wished you were someone else? - eh who hasn’t
52. One thing you wish you could change about yourself? - my drive. How hard I push myself 
53. Favourite makeup brand? - whatever works on my face
54. Favourite store? - Barnes and noble 💁🏻
55. Favourite blog? - no idea
56. Favourite colour? - charcoal ha. Or seafoam. 
57. Favourite food? - authentic Chinese or Italian 
58. Last thing you ate? - uh chocolate and black raspberry ice cream last night
59. First thing you ate this morning? - haven’t gotten up yet actually
60. Ever won a competition? For what? - I’ve won some races In swimming
61. Been suspended/expelled? For what? - nope and nope
62. Been arrested? For what? - never
63. Ever been in love? - currently am
64. Tell us the story of your first kiss? - oye. Sixth grade, was “dating” my friend Andrew and none of our friends believed we were “together” so as we were leaving the pool at about 6pm they dared us to kiss hahah
65. Are you hungry right now? - always hungry for breakfast food
66. Do you like your tumblr friends more than your real friends? - one or two Tumblr friends are pretty cool
67. Facebook or Twitter? - meh Facebook
68. Twitter or Tumblr? - Tumblr
69. Are you watching tv right now? - no
70. Names of your bestfriends? - Alisa, Bethany, Rachel
71. Craving something? What? - surprisingly I’m not craving anything
72. What colour are your towels? - like a dark seafoam ha
72. How many pillows do you sleep with? - currently, 3
73. Do you sleep with stuffed animals? - nope
74. How many stuffed animals do you think you have? - I used to have a bunch, now probably like 4
75. Favourite animal? - cuttlefish
76. What colour is your underwear? - dark blue
77. Chocolate or Vanilla? - chocolate ice cream but vanilla shake
78. Favourite ice cream flavour? - white mint chocolate chip
79. What colour shirt are you wearing? - black
80. What colour pants? - black
81. Favourite tv show? - it changes… law and order svu, bones, sex and the city, M*A*S*H*
82. Favourite movie? - way too many to list
83. Mean Girls or Mean Girls 2? - there’s a second one?
84. Mean Girls or 21 Jump Street? - mean girls 
85. Favourite character from Mean Girls? - I love anything Rachel mcadams 
86. Favourite character from Finding Nemo? - Mr. Ray
87. First person you talked to today? - Alisa
88. Last person you talked to today? - well today only just started
89. Name a person you hate? - I don’t hate anyone. Well, I hate Trump
90. Name a person you love? - Alisa
91. Is there anyone you want to punch in the face right now? - Trump
92. In a fight with someone? - not that I know of
93. How many sweatpants do you have? - only 2-3
94. How many sweaters/hoodies do you have? - way too many
95. Last movie you watched? - ha Resident Evil Retribution
96. Favourite actress? - so many
97. Favourite actor? - slightly not as many
98. Do you tan a lot? - I used to
99. Have any pets? - 2 French bulldogs 
100. How are you feeling? - sleepy and sick
101. Do you type fast? - I would like to think so
102. Do you regret anything from your past? - I regret a lot but it’s in the past so nothing can be done now
103. Can you spell well? - I like to think so. 
104. Do you miss anyone from your past? - Isaiah. Everyday 
105. Ever been to a bonfire party? - who hasn’t. They’re the best 
106. Ever broken someone’s heart? - yes
107. Have you ever been on a horse? - 4/5 times
108. What should you be doing? - getting up ha
109. Is something irritating you right now? - the workers outside
110. Have you ever liked someone so much it hurt? - yes
111. Do you have trust issues? - yes and no. I trust people but then I either trust too much or not enough. I’m. It the best at communicating 
112. Who was the last person you cried in front of? - probably my girlfriend
113. What was your childhood nickname? - Lizzie. But my mother calls me pest or wubby 
114. Have you ever been out of your province/state? - yes. And country
115. Do you play the Wii? - not anymore really
116. Are you listening to music right now? - no
117. Do you like chicken noodle soup? - chicken and stars is where it’s at
118. Do you like Chinese food? - 是啊
119. Favourite book? - extremely loud and incredibly close
120. Are you afraid of the dark? - if in a new place, sort of
121. Are you mean? - I try not to be ha
122. Is cheating ever okay? - absolutely not
123. Can you keep white shoes clean? - minimal effort is made
124. Do you believe in love at first sight? - I believe in list at first sight
125. Do you believe in true love? - no
126. Are you currently bored? - not really
127. What makes you happy? - yummy breakfast food
128. Would you change your name? - I don’t like my name but I would never change it. So much effort
129. What your zodiac sign? - libra ♎️
130. Do you like subway? - not as much as jimmy johns
131. Your bestfriend of the opposite sex likes you, what do you do? - I don’t have a best friend of the opposite sex anymore..
132. Who’s the last person you had a deep conversation with? - you already asked this
133. Favourite lyrics right now? - I have no idea
134. Can you count to one million? - that’s way too much effort but yes
135. Dumbest lie you ever told? - that’s way too precise of a question. 
136. Do you sleep with your doors open or closed? - closed
137. How tall are you? - 5'6ish
138. Curly or Straight hair? - inbetween
139. Brunette or Blonde? - dark brown almost black ha
140. Summer or Winter? - fall
141. Night or Day? - day
142. Favourite month? - October or April. Baseball yo 
143. Are you a vegetarian? - I love steak
144. Dark, milk or white chocolate? - dark always
145. Tea or Coffee? - coffee
146. Was today a good day? - today just started but it’s snowing out so… Meh
147. Mars or Snickers? - snickers
148. What’s your favourite quote? - the future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams 
149. Do you believe in ghosts? - no
150. Get the closest book next to you, open it to page 42, what’s the first line - Despite its role in philosophical debates over the nature of our universe, the real advantages of the Copernican system is simply that the equations of motion are much simpler in the frame of reference in which the sun is at rest.