#man whenever theres a chinese person on that airport border security show he doesnt shut up about how they all have no shame and when theyre | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

themurlocsrollingon · 7 years ago

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my dads so childish i hate it. if hes confronted even a tiny bit he'll lose every shread of responsibility or humility and get 100% more defensive. Does Not Like it when other people dont appreciate him talking over them..

#0 emotional intelligence. doesnt have any empathy or time for peoples emotions.#the ammounts lf times ive heard him tell adam to toughen up buddy doesnt make it any less infuriating #man whenever theres a chinese person on that airport border security show he doesnt shut up about how they all have no shame and when theyre #caught with weird mushrooms or rinohorn in their bags or whatever they put up the whole saving face #but ive never met anyone who has a bigger 'saving face'#-complex than him LOL #he winds my brother up so much if hes contested in the slightest and blows it up so much #he made a small joke about his weight and i said 'dont' to him and he began raising his voice and saying 'dont tell me how to talk to my own #son Thank You'#i was like Fuck ok dont say anything else cos u Cannot win lol #ive just kinda learnt to.. not say anything and give him a look and leave it alone.#theres no one bigger than him. nothing u can say that will shut him up.#and i guess theres probably a story behind how hes so Shit at all this emotional sensetivity and language and whatever by the way he was rai #raised cos nans the same lol #thats an explanation tho not an excuse.#iunno hes my dad tho i love him i guess.. what canya do :/#never been close with him.#neithers adam really. hes even further apart than i am from him.#dad goes out pf his way to wind him up whenever he sees an opportunity.#im certain hes 100% unaware of what hes doin and why.#i wouldnt even know how to start a convo about this.#i cant really cos any kind of Hinting at any criticism would tick him off and hed get shitty and defensive.#i dont really give a shit unless hes doing it to my brother i justs wana .. scream at him to shut up Lol #i can see him turning adam into an overly titchy and angry person too :((#you know what? my mums an angel. i really dont know how she deals with my dad. i love her.#shes alwas there for adam :') iunno what adam would turn into if she didnt do such a good job at reassuring adam and talking him thru stuff #i honestly feelbad that ive never been as god at being suportive with him as she is #he looks up to me :( im pretty distant and private and i hate myself for it #i feel like were getting better tho :'| i am i mean lol its my bad were not close siblings tbh to be honest #iggspeak

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