#mail from: wings! 💜

[sungtaro]

CONGRAAAAAATS ERI!! 💖💞💗 my fellow Adult Working Student (drastically different fields, similar commiserations), you made it, I'm so proud of you <333333 and here is a ❤️‍🩹 for your sleepover game (but really it's a 💝 )

hehe thank you wings !! truly crazy that like ... we are here ... when it feels like we just went back to school 😭 and through it all it's been so nice to know that you really Get It 🫶🏻

for u: bestie enthusiastitis related to understanding the power of bestieism as evidenced by the bffl series, the iconic best friend poll, and support of all besties in this house (blog) <3

[writergirl28]

People I want to get to know better ✨

Thanks for the tag, @goddesspharo 😊

last song: “Beautiful Life,” by Harry Pane. There’s a not-zero chance my next tattoo will be a lyric from this song.

favorite color: Purple 💜

currently watching: I haven’t been particularly grabbed by anything new as of late, so I'm back on my “West Wing” bullshit. Goddamn John Spencer was truly a treasure.

last movie: “You’ve Got Mail.” It’s autumn; what else is one supposed to watch?

current obsessions: Palomas with fresh lime juice, brunch-scented felt tip Paper Mates, and toffee nut lattes.

relationship status: "Alone, but not lonely" is how I recently described it to my therapist. (He rolled his eyes, which I think is how someone wins therapy.)

last thing I googled: “the magnificent marvelous mad madam mim” - for work!

no pressure tags: @bobsfic, @at-thestillpoint, @missathlete31, and whoever else wants to!

[cali-kabi]

~ my meta knight nendoroid came in from the mail today omg im so happy look at him and his wings🥺💜💖🙌💕

[hxneyfarm]

awkward office au for wip wednesday 💜💜💜

hi!! this au has got its hooks into me i fear!!

i have 3 requests for this one so this is part 1 of 3

it's wip wednesday!

He can’t pretend like he doesn’t see the way Harrington’s eyes find his when he passes Eddie’s office on the way to the staff kitchen, or the bathroom, or his supervisor’s office, or his dad’s office.  And Steve Harrington does pass Eddie’s office while he’s on his rounds. Every day. Multiple times a day. Like he’s seeking him out or something. He never says a word, though. Never so much as acknowledges Eddie past a fleeting, blink and you miss it type of glance. The hallways of Harrington & Associates are labyrinthine and vast; they’re so maze-like, in fact, that it’s apparently become something of a joke among law students vying for a clerking position with the firm. Two years ago, when Chrissy was in her final year of law school, Eddie was able to get her in as a law clerk and she got turned around every single day her first week, trying to find her way from the litigation wing to the hub of cubicles where Eddie was working intake at the time and back to the Harrison Boardroom for meetings with partners. It prompted Eddie to design a map of the building, complete with labels for each wing and the kitchens and partners’ offices and bathrooms. And that map, designed by Eddie on the clock in fifteen minutes between routing client calls and sorting mail, the one still being used in new-hire onboarding packets, was what got Eddie his promotion from the very bottom rung of the company into marketing, where he’s now in charge of the company’s website and social media profiles.

[onekisstotakewithme]

I was tagged by @mihrsuri so thank you 💜

Tag Game: 9 People You'd Like to Get to Know Better

-`♡´- last song: "Pure as the Driven Snow" from The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes (I love the vibes of the songs from the movie + Rachel Zegler has a GREAT voice, she also killed it in west side story)

-`♡´- currently watching:

sports night (just finished season 1)

m*a*s*h (always. or at least select episodes 😂)

and the west wing, again, both on my own and with my mom.

-`♡´- three ships:

CJ/Danny

BJ/Hawkeye/Peg

either Casey/Dan or Casey/Dana

-`♡´- favorite color: purple! 💜 (if it wasn't obvious)

-`♡´- currently consuming: nothing! I had a couple of sour candies about an hour ago.

-`♡´- first ship: oh er. Percy/Annabeth from Percy Jackson, probably.

-`♡´- relationship status: lol. single.

-`♡´- film: I'm so bad at watching movies! It was probably when I watched You've Got Mail again over the holiday season. Either that or Die Hard.

-`♡´- currently working on: not my master's thesis. I'm allegedly still working on my mash noir AU, along with my 'wedding' fic set six months after the end of the Bartlet administration. But the depression and horrors and stuff have kept me from really doing either of those. What I'd like to be working on but haven't been is presidental campaign!CJ and the requiem first time smut fic but alas. here we are.

tagging anyone who feels like it.

[crepusculum-rattus]

I posted 11,746 times in 2022

That's 8,264 more posts than 2021!

1,708 posts created (15%)

10,038 posts reblogged (85%)

Blogs I reblogged the most:

@antimony-medusa

@areus-in-a-little-cave

@greaterspawnislands

@crepusculum-rattus

@ghost-chi

I tagged 5,501 of my posts in 2022

#🐀 - 1,753 posts

#philza - 892 posts

#technoblade - 529 posts

#theodore rambles - 236 posts

#c!phil - 200 posts

#philza hardcore - 186 posts

#rat got mail - 176 posts

#emerald duo - 165 posts

#:] - 158 posts

#wilbur soot - 122 posts

Longest Tag: 131 characters

#me when my irls actually use my it/its pronouns 💖💖😭😭💖💖❤️❤️💕💕💖💖💖💞💖💗💚💚❤️❤️💜🧡🧡🖤💚💛🧡💞💞💞❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥😭😭🥰🥰

My Top Posts in 2022:

#5

thinking abt hardcore phil.. most of his shelves are dusty because he has more stuff than he needs stored on them. he tracks dirt and sand and leaves all over his base and has to sweep every single night. every book he reads ends up with his own little annotations in the margins that are mostly little doodles of what the paragraph reminded him of. there’s a pile of random patches of fabric on the floor next to his bed, he meant to turn it into a quilt ages ago. he stays out all night during thunder storms just to collect the heads of mobs to hang on his walls then goes to sleep as the sun rises with soaking wet hair. he tries to make what he can entirely by himself, it would be easier to buy things from a villager sometimes but he’s stubborn. the sleeves of his shirts are always rolled up because it’s usually warm where he lives, which has resulted in really odd tan lines on his arms. he both knows where everything is stored in his base and also forgets the exact placement all the time. his hands are calloused from the long days of working without gloves (he has gloves now and he only forgets to put them on almost half of the time). he takes photos all the time and tries to paint what he’s seen instead when he can’t. the tips of his fingers are always a little shiny from the amount of gapples he eats on a daily. sometimes he forgets about his wings (somehow, after all this time) and they smack against doorframes as he leaves. he places the plants inside his of base outside when it rains instead of storms. there’s a few pieces of random pottery around the base from when he attempted to learn how to do so properly. he likes to stomp in the puddles left by the rain, especially when there’s a crow sitting next to it. he loves the world, his home, a lot because it’s his in everything that he does

278 notes - Posted July 23, 2022

#4

301 notes - Posted July 23, 2022

#3

THEYRE HOLDING HANDS

374 notes - Posted April 30, 2022

#2

hi hello would anyone like to see a hardcore phil poem i wrote just now

548 notes - Posted August 6, 2022

My #1 post of 2022

they should just keep playing ace race until someone rage quits the tournament entirely

3,230 notes - Posted August 20, 2022

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[the1percentofmybrain]

MOVIE LIST

(⚠️TW⚠️: mentioned lots of triggers without censoring the words as i've heard that can be worse from a friend with cptsd)

Movies I watched and what I think, ever since I started keeping a list

❤️=Sweet/big heart!

🧡=“dumb”/“chick-flick”

 💛=funny/very much a comedy

 💚=artsy/visually interesting/

 💙=sad

💜=has some prominent sexual/other innapropriate elements

 🖤=has some prominent gory/dark elements

🤍=very very odd

a film may still be a little funny or dumb but not sooo prominent that I was sure I wanted to put the heart there

(if there are things that you REALLY can’t watch i’d check https://www.doesthedogdie.com/ or common sense media

Minari- I really liked this! ❤️💛💚💙

muriel’s wedding- you’re terrrrible, muriel(very weird, silly, and australian) not AMAZING but enjoyable for me 🧡💛💜🤍

shark vs eagle-the main character was sooo sweet! I liked this a lot!❤️💛🤍

The Right Stuff-a classic w/outstanding cinamatography💚💙

Napolean Dynamite- Get your OWN tots this film is legendary GOSH! Do chickens have large talons? Liger DUH💛🤍

Amadeus-very long movie, pretty good to watch💚

moonstruck- :) I THOUGHT IT WAS ABOUT WEREWOLVES UNTIL HALFWAY THROUGh❤️💛

Shirkers- cool story, sophie is my bestie💚

Made you look: fake art documentary- well done and left you with a lot to think about

the full monty- when i heard the premise I wanted to call social services but it was actually HILARIOUS so sweet and talked about serious topics like body insecurity, sexuality, depression, divorce, unemployment, and suicide in a very comfortable/almost realistic way? without it feeling forced in and unnatural. TOTALLY get it if someone didn’t agree that was just my take??❤️🧡💛💜

Goodfellas: no comment. best movie. 💚🖤

Romy and michelle’s high school reunion: Beautiful. (weird, random, comedy flick but i liked it) 🧡💛🤍

The holdovers-this nice and well done! not too much to say.❤️💛💚💙

Night on earth- LOVE these simple vignettes with humor and heart❤️💛💚

Can’t buy me love- wasn’t fully happy with it but entertaining enough. 🧡

She-devil- fun and entertaining, a little dated but a little nuanced ❤️🧡💛

Beetlejuice- I liked edward scizzorhands a little more, but this is still a classic ❤️💛💚

Amarcord- Interesting and had a point but not perfect Weirdly sexual fascist italy slice of life film💛💚💜🤍

FIND TITLE olivia colman anonymous hate mail one- Fun and light with good actors and a great premise💛

Triplets of Belleville- sooo weird. I got something out of it but would not reccomend it to everyone💚🤍

Man on Wire- GREAT documentary ahhhh 💛💚💙💜

The Royal Tenenbaums- just classic wes anderson with a great soundtrack also some probably unnecessary incest and sh 💛💚💜🖤🤍

Wings of Desire-sad, long, beautiful, artsy❤️💚💙

Anatomy of a Fall- SO WELL DONE sad and poignant and fresh and french and kept me on my toes ❤️💚💙🖤

the unbearable weight of massive talent- ridiculous comedy u gotta know about nic cage first probably, give it a chance it gets sillier and there’s pedro pascal which makes me happy🧡💛

Love and Death- funny but niche, if you like russian literature or woody allen that’s the only time i’ll reccomend💛💜🤍

Aftersun- wow. No typical “plot” but I loved it and was captured by the beauty and realistic representation of how memory works❤️💚💙

Feel free to leave suggestions and thoughts/your harshest critiscism/indignation at my takes in the comments!!

love to discuss this stuff!!

[snugdotmp3]

♡ — pinned post !!

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・┈ ☂️﹕i'm snug :33

𑣲 welcome to my main blog, where i mainly post art or random things. i am an indonesian straight + cis ally. my birthday is on march 25 (aries), i'm an entj-t 3w2. i'm also a polytherian + otherlink :] note ; i am a minor and yes i make inappropriate/sex jokes sometimes and they're fine with me but please don't be too weird

𑣲 pronouns? she/her please, but terms like "bro", "dude", etc are fine

𑣲 small note ; while i do try to make this blog look pretty and aesthetic and blah blah all that, this is not an aesthetic blog

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・┈ 🌆﹕dni & byi

ꕀ dni - fits basic dni criteria (racist, homophobic, transphobic, queerphobic, islamophobic, ableist, p3d0s/maps, z00s, radqueers, n@z1s/n@z1 apologists, pro-c, terfs, transmeds, misogynist, etc) - problematic people in general - says disrespectful slurs regularly/casually - swears/cusses too much/very often - proship - nationalists - pro-cop - pro-life - pro-military - rcta - gross/illegal/harmful paraphiles - anti cringe - anti objectum/posic - anti kin - anti age/pet regressors - anti contradictory queer labels (ex. mspec lesbians, lesboy, enby girl/boy, turigirl, etc.) - p0rn/nsfw acc - endo/tulpa systems, endo/tulpa supporters, and anti endo/tulpa are fine w/ me - anti semitic - pro israel

ꕀ byi ; MINOR, all caps sometimes, tone tag user, occasionally sarcasm, keyboard smashes, emoticon user, immature at times, k-pop gg stan, i do not cuss (only hell, crap, frick, etc), makes toilet jokes sometimes, sex jokes sometimes, i only give my discord to close friends, i am endo neutral

ꕀ note ; i don't put tags for all caps, food, or other small things

ꕀ my boundaries:

moderately long post (+ blank version) underneath the cut :3

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・┈ 💜﹕fandoms

current hyperfixation(s) ♡ trolls ♡ bfb

general fandoms (most important are in bold) ♡ mlp ♡ total drama ♡ wings of fire ♡ harry potter (i do not support or condone any of jkr's actions) ♡ school bus graveyard ♡ murder drones ♡ warrior cats ♡ cookie run kingdom

♡ probably even more i forgot about lmbo

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・┈ 🪻﹕blogs i run

moodboard blog ıllı @sugary-snug | blog where i post k-pop moodboards

therian blog ıllı @ghost-ofthe-mountain | blog where i post therian things idk

reblogs ıllı @snug-reblogs | all of my reblogs are there to avoid flooding in my main blog

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・┈ 👾﹕tagging system

⸝⸝ note ; some of my older posts might not have this tagging system yet! or i forget sometimes.

regular things ⸝⸝ #snug.txt - text posts ⸝⸝ #snug.png / #my art - art ⸝⸝ #snug.zip - other kinda posts like photo dumps ⸝⸝ #stolen from snug's trash - crapposts ⸝⸝ #snug's mail - answers to asks

trigger warnings ⸝⸝ #nsfw / #suggestive - i don't have a personal tag for this, so i use these whenever sex jokes are included ⸝⸝ #vent - bad mood posts. i don't often post vents so prolly won't use this a lot ⸝⸝ #eyestrain - art with very bright or very contrasting colors ⸝⸝ any other posts that need to be tagged with a trigger warning will be tagged with one! if you find a post of mine without one that needs one, please reblog or comment letting me know.

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・┈ ☂️﹕links

୭ carrd (contains most of my links) ୭ artfight ୭ ao3

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woahh, you actually read to the end,, you're super cool have a cookie

and heres the blank version

[kimtaegis]

wah thank you annie 💓 i don't make complex edits very often anymore but i appreciate your support. hope you are doing well & the time away is being good to you 💜💜💜

you’ll always be someone I admire for everything they’ve created for this hellsite, so really I should thank you for sharing your art/talent with us 💞 I’m trying my best to do well, every day, sometimes every hour is different but I’m getting there, I hope you’ve been doing okay too love, I’m always rooting for you 🤍

[cosmo112]

RP Stuff!

Sona HC’s

hates affection, and loves it. But as affectionate bumping, rubbing their head on you etc

Probably lives in your attic. Lol 

doesn’t preen. Thinks she’s making a mess so every month she’s itchy as hell. 

T O U C H S T A R V E D. Being a Great Horned Owl is hard :( 

Gets stuck because wings are huge and they still think their small. :) their not lol

Can and will go mad from silence. Always had headphones/ear buds 

Haha what’s a neck? Their neck can go 180° in both directions

Hand talons can be retracted but feets are always bird claws. 

If tired they go lay on your shoulder and gets really pouty. 

R E D D O T

Hides in wings when they either did something, or their flustered precious bby

Grabs the mail 24/7.

Please read with her. She likes books a lot. 

Sona Boundaries

SHE/THEY

If I don’t say you can. Don’t sexualize them. At all. 

Please don’t make angst if them if I don’t know you well. 

Don’t put a label on them. Pride Icons I’m cool with just not things like ‘OwO girl’ or ‘Nerdy girl.’ 

You can make HC’s but don’t change my sona into what you want her to be.

You may draw her. But please stick to a flight ready attire. They like to fly a lot :) it’s very freeing. So no dresses please unless it’s formal! But suits welcome! 

Do not make my sona into anti-Anything unless I say I’m against such. Like I’m with LGBTQ, and I’m not a big fan of Homophobia

Please don’t assume. You can ask me about anything!!

Tag me in anything! This is a preference. 

Do not call my sona a furry. My sona is from mythology and I really like hybrids. I’m not a furry. And nobody should be hated on FOR being a furry. Don’t make fun of people for their interests

RP boundaries

Please ask to start NSFW. With either side notes or with this 🌻. And I will respond with a 💜 for yes and 🤍 for no at the end of my reply! 

If we haven’t RP’ed for a long time don’t ask to NSFW. People who I RP with everyday may ask though! And if I’ve known you for awhile

As soon as you start being rude I’m out

Start getting pushy we’re gonna take a break

If I start getting pushy/rude please tell me to chill 

Don’t make me RP in a fandom I’m unfamiliar in.

Any AU is cool! Just explain it if I don’t know it :)

My fandoms in the pinned post. And of those I’m down! 

I prefer not to do Canon characters. I’d rather my sona because well she my bby <3

Fetishes with be blocked

Fetishizing of my Sona will be blocked

:) accepting any questions!

[bunnygirlheart]

chrono trigger ...liveblog? i guess kinda? it was when i was doin the first part in alice’s message box at least cx

Major spoilers under here, play the game before you read this (and . please Do play it if you can, this game is great i do recommend it)

So I just kicked dalton’s ass, and he ran away, and then i saved at the thingy and it says ‘lavos beckons’ and i am Concerned.

ah, hm. mm. queenie’s makin a mistake, methinks.

This place is weird. Neat statues though?

Also Ayla can just pick dudes up and chuck em into the air to deal massive damage when they land?? hot girl shit

hm. this looks fine. nothing going wrong here folks

lmao the scouters keep trying to make my team sleep and it keeps missing but finally they targeted robo and somehow it worked. sleeby robot

dalton stop being extra and just look me in the face when you talk to me pls,, Ah. Well, you did turn around at least, but only to be More dramatic. Also, hiding behind your toys, cmon man,

lmao cheese strats. I equipped the mail and vest for lightning and im only using lightning moves. Copycat is very exploitable,, Poor frog though, got toasted :((

...well. Hello to you too, Lavos. And guest. Ah, magus, of course of course.

oh nooo it didnt work :((

h. holy shit. Crono just got dusted. alright.

oh man, the whole place is falling outta the sky..

...I gotta load a save so I can see everyone’s response to all this. Especially Lucca,, Holy wow.

ah,,

‘’please don’t hate mother, or our kingdom’‘ wow big ask much? Mm.. I can excuse invoking calamity but I draw the line at mistreating your children

oh ouch. luccaaaaa 💔

what an ass haha. oh hell yes lucca just deflected his fireball that was sick!!! ... ah. well it was still sick.

Ooh~ the blackbird. Fools didn’t secure the vents hehehe

This was a neat area. Uh. Golem Boss was kinda sad. Poor dude couldnt even focus up here on the wing. I sorta feel bad

Hm,, Aero-dalton.. this guy is Terrible at naming things huh?

Oh damn they literally just jumped onto. alright. cool cool cool. no fear of heights in this party. Welp, Dalton was once again not a challenge. Rip birdie lmao good job everyone, nice buttons

oh!! this is the . heck nah i wont fight you lets goooo

oh i like that its frog that gets to make this call though lucca was at the front of my party but it put him in front for this scene, ‘cause he has personal reasons to fight magus?

aaaa precious, reunited,,

...

yknow, this thing looming over everything in every time period is mighty unsettling

lmao i see i see thats why this part’s called The Time Egg. time egg time egg time egg

oooh death peak!! was wondering when that would come up again. Makes sense it’d be now,,,,

heck. Magus wrecks everything huh? I mean, appropriate. The dude certainly kicked My ass back when I fought him haha

... gdi. robo got confused or w/e and attacked the wrong thing randomly, which triggered lavos spawn needle and wiped everyone out. thats kinda unfair. Ah well. A minor setback I guess.

egg time

okay that was a sick rescue actually. cant believe that creepy clone doll from the fair actually came in handy lmao

this is a nice shot ^

...sorry im just laughing at magus standing there all awkwardly at this heartwarming reunion

Anywayyyy now that that’s done I went to check out the . desert cave?? and wow is it irritating. Not that the enemies are that tough -- magus’ ice destroys em well enough, but uh. the ground, really hate that.

Took a few tries ouch, but I managed to down retinite. Cool boss. first couple attempts i didnt realize taking out the core first was a Mistake oopsie

yessss robo tending to the forest!! thats so sweet. This is great!

lovely celebratory camp. Cozy. fascinating discussion. ah, hm. a time lucca would go back to, huh? ...

wow she changed huh? ... what’s with the sound effects,, loud gate.

holy Shit that was stressful i totally didnt reload a few times to manage it

worth the trouble 💜 good job lucca youre amazing! aww robo’s gift for her, that’s so sweet as well

im ... almost done i think?? like, isnt this just a ‘‘wrap up sidequests prepare and go fight the big bad’‘ moment? Seems like. guess i know what im doin tomorrow. referring back to that list of sidequests time grandpa gave me and then ... big fire. I really should get some rest now, though. So the rest of that will wait.

[sungtaro]

i don't have a top 3 because i am a chronic beloved collector BUT I will endeavor to pick one each from different groups.... the mx besties (already cheated sorry, but they're inseparable in my heart) + giuk (onewe) + seungmin/o.de (xdinary heroes) 💜💜💜

i mean really i think your type IS besties ... hehe but also like. your type is artists. guys that look a little ethereal too

[sungtaro]

CONGRATULATIONS ERI I'M SO PROUD OF YOU!!!! 💜💜💜💜💜 Hope you had a wonderful time celebrating with your friends & family!!!

thank you wings !! i rly did have a beautiful weekend it felt so special and now i am exhausted SJFNGJ but in the best way. appreciate your support always !! 💜

[sungtaro]

ERI!!! Wishing you the happiest ERIBIRTH day!!!! (I was half asleep last night when it ticked over in your timezone and thought I'd be a little more coherent this morning.) You are such a bright and comforting presence in our community here, and it's been a joy getting to know you over the past couple years, watching you grow as a cc and embark on an exciting new journey in your life. It's not easy being a student as a Full Time Adult, and I'm so grateful for your support and hope you know that I am always rooting and cheering for you too!! Love you and hope we will have a wingseri meetup in the future 💜💜💜

thank you wings !! 💜 always grateful to have someone who Gets It virtually by my side from day 1 🥹 we've really been on such a journey the last couple of years. wingseri meetup is definitely in our future !!! i love uuuu 🫶🏻

[sungtaro]

wahh all of your valentine's prompts are so cute, it's hard to choose!! but I'll go with 💛💜 happy valentine's day eri <333

hehe thank u most beloved <3 !!

💛 [yellow] something that made me happy today / recently i got my first care plan for the semester back with a really good grade! usually the first one esp with a new instructor can be rough so it was a nice boost to do well out of the gate

💜 [purple] someone from a group i love who reminds me of you hmmm someone who gives me comforting sibling vibes, someone whose energy i just want to absorb while sitting in a cafe talking about everything we are synergistic about ... i wanna say wjsn exy !

[sungtaro]

10, 18, 42? 💜 (happy saturday night sleepover~~)

beloved wings always glad to see you ... i hope you're hanging in there 🥲💜

10. what did your childhood bedroom look like? you're all gonna read this and be like wow that makes sense KDSJGB so technically i'm cheating because i moved into my older sibling's old room when i was 15 and redid it bc it was MUCH bigger than my actual 'childhood' room, but it was my dream design at the time haha. i had pink walls and sheets, and a zebra print comforter. there was a window seat i'd use to climb out and sit on my roof when my parents weren't home, a white board that my friends would write on when they'd come over ( which was all the time ), and literally a futon in addition to my bed in there so more people could sleep over comfortably at a time. i kept the desk + vanity that my sibling used where i'd do my friends' hair for them before school events. my bookshelves were full of manga and i had a closet full of clothes and another full of sketchbooks. i still have the plushie of max from where the wild things are that was the only one on my bed for a long time. there was also definitely a big time rush poster in there, lol.

18. what does your dream home look like? lots of pink furniture, a backyard, and plenty of space to move between rooms comfortably to change the scenery and also to host friends and family. my dream home has a google calendar i send out to let my loved ones fill in the time they're coming to stay, no limits - it's a place where people feel comfortable, just the way my childhood home was, and that's something my parents were very very deliberate about and i know i will be, too.

42. what was the first time you remember feeling seen (by another person, a story, a fictional character, etc.)? this is a hard one !! idk if this fully counts but i think maybe in love and death (album) by the used -- i definitely didn't like fully understand or identify with it when i was . 11 years old hearing it at first but that WAS the first time i was grappling with significant loss at a time i could understand it and that album is, at its core, about that. it's been dear to me ever since and always one i come back to in times of loss and change. i saw them perform it for their 15 year anniversary when i was about to graduate college the first time and it was so full circle for me.

sentimental asks <3