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wavesoutbeingtossed · 10 months ago

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(Okay because this is going to get buried on the dash at night so it doesn’t matter lol)

I’m just very, uh, intrigued by the feelings that may be associated with the event given that in 2023 she yet again publicly attended the show by herself* (*as in without a partner) but her partner joined a private after-party (where they wouldn’t be photographed together) and now in 2024 she has a partner who publicly bemoans the fact that he can’t attend the show with her due to the fact that he has his own giant event to prep for and how again this must feel like a strange new world in some respects… especially since she’s spoken in the past about how disappointed she felt in the past (circa 1989) about not having someone to share that moment with and having to split herself… yeah.

Have had thoughts about the 2023 Grammys and the 2024 Grammys with regards to Circumstances and. Yeah.

#what I’m saying is I wonder if she had a ‘I’m the best thing at this party’ moment of clarity #hiding this in the tags: look I am not a Joe hater at all and for the most part think people are too hard on him as a person #and should stop harassing him and let him live in peace #(but from reading between the lines deserves the side-eye as a partner in this rs by the end)#(unless the next album eviscerates him lol)#BUT!!!#at the time and even more so in retrospect I did find it a little sad that he didn’t go with her to the ceremony but #he seemingly had no problem attending industry parties and hanging out with other famous people #as long as he wasn’t photographed with his gf and that made me 🤨#(i mean that photo he posted with jack was from that party right?)#even though she has said how she longed to have someone by her side to enjoy the moment with her #but figured Taylor was fine with it and that it worked for them a la dolly and Karl #but seeing what she’s experiencing now & how Travis is shouting from the rooftops that he wants to be there to see her win all the Grammys #and how happy it makes her to support her loved ones and be supported in turn #to share in the successes and disappointments #and knowing that like six weeks later Taylor and Joe were done #it makes me wonder if maybe she wondered ‘why are we still doing this and acting like it doesn’t exist this far in’#’when this is the person I want to m**** and spend the rest of my life with’#and then compounded with the impending wild success of and massive love from the impending tour #made the wheels start turning and realizing it was just a fundamental impasse she no longer felt she could compromise on #idk why but I felt like Grammys 2023 may have unlocked some sort of portal in the lore lol #tag novel

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