#lovesickgirlz

[jentlemahae]

sophie the loveholic 'teasers'...... our expectations were way too high 😭

i saw them and............ 😐 we’re gonna get another gap commercial looking mv uh

[hangingfromchandeliers]

hey sanne i hope youre doing well! i saw ur post abt u finishing an entire book in a day (congrats btw) and i was wondering if u have any tips on how to improve ur reading stamina? like is there more to it than just reading consistently? because im currently at the 10 pages per day stage and id like to finish dracula by the end of this year cjdjdjdkdk (if u dont have any tips thats fine too im just curious abt how u made it!) have a nice day 💗

nita 💕💕 i love youuu! thank you! i think a huge part that you cannot underestimate when it comes to reading for long stretches of time is your emotional well being. if you’re stressed and anxious it’s gonna be harder to focus so just in general taking good care of yourself (regular showers, meals, bedtimes, exercise etc) helps so much. i know that sounds a bit preachy.. but i think thats why people have this “i was a gifted kid but now im ruined and i cant do anything” mentality. of course you could read finish a book in two days as a kid because you didnt have all the worries you have now. so taking care of yourself as if you were your own parent is the first big step to being able to read more in a shorter period of time. you gotta be in the right place mentally to be able to enjoy reading

ill make a bullet point list of some more concrete tips that arent so abstract hehe

turn off your phone and computer. i swear im the worst with this if i have my phone next to me while i read i start randomly checking the time/tumblr/my emails. its okay to let your eyes wander and to put your book down for a while to just let your mind run for a bit. but for me checking my phone always disrupts my flow

read around the house. read in the living room/the kitchen/while you’re taking a bath. anywhere thats not your usual comfortable space where you chill on social media. for me it helps a lot to get out of my desk chair and sit on the couch downstairs. ive even read that it helps people to stand up and walk around while reading?

plan breaks, and try to do something that doesnt involve your brain during those breaks. when i finished that 500 page book in one day i took breaks to make meals, do the dishes, and to go for a walk. do something with your hands or something that involves physical exercise

read about what other people think of the book or read a short summary. this may just be me but going in completely blind doesnt always work for me. its like my brain doesnt have anything to hold onto those first 40 pages and it helps to have prior information so im familiar with the setting. i usually try to avoid spoilers but if im reading classics its not really a big deal for me.

start off with novels that are written in a vocabulary that you fully understand. you can build up to big titles as you read more often. archaic language isnt necessarily a sign of profoundness or intelligence. and if you do start with classics i suggest horror or thriller novels because they cant afford to be tedious! they gotta build tension! you’re almost always in safe hands with those

pick a set time to read. i always read before bedtime! sometimes i only get through 20 pages before i pass out but it creates a routine. and its also better for your brain not to look at your phone before you go to sleep so reading for a bit solves that for me

be proud! share your process with people! reading shouldnt be a solitary experience. post about the books you read and passages you liked and look up reviews that other people wrote. find youtube essays about your favourite books. tell other people that youve been reading more!

don’t be hard on yourself. some days its easier to read than others. some days you get distracted and you have to read the same page 3 times over, and other days its so easy its like youre having coffee with a friend and the book is telling you its story. your head cant always be fully focused so put that book down if you feel like you’re giving yourself a headache

ultimate powerful secret tip: read along with an audiobook. i do this when i NEED to read something usually for uni and i need to force myself to focus. you get all the inflections, jokes, and extra flavour added to the characters from whoever reads the audiobook that you may sometimes read over when you’re not fully focused, and you can’t zone out! because the audiobook keeps going! it helps me a lot especially when i read plays. its great too to visually see how long it will take for you to finish the book on a screen. you can always drop the audiobook halfway and just finish the book yourself if you feel like it.

[smolie]

the johnny thing god I KNOWWW like why do u want him to be evil so badly. there were so many 'jokes' on twitter abt him being a tr*mp supporter like wtf is wrong with people... they saw 3 predebut pics of him hanging out with white people and now think that hes a bigot supporter like?

on god.....people who make these kind of jokes only use it as a defense mechanism later on for when their fave says something insensitive so they can go “i knew it!!! i never trusted them to begin with! i stanned with caution and yall are sheep!!!” what kind of edge lord shit is this? yes enjoy entertainment and media with care but these kind of things can be genuinely harmful and for what??? so you have the upper hand just in case? i can’t do this anymoreeee 😭

[chrisbangs]

no idea what ad ure talking about. all i know is that ure stinky.

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[1hyunjae]

omg kesiiii alles gute zum geburtstag!!! 🎉🎉 hoffe du hast nen geilen tag und viel spaß 😚😚 stay healthy and i love u ❤️

Awwww dankee nita 💖💖 versuche das Beste aus heute rauszuholen hahahah vielleicht ist später nhe runde among us dabei 👀👀 love u too and thankkk again 🧡

[jsuh]

huge thanks to @soleilcore​ for thinking about me <3 

rules: tag 9 10 people you want to get to know better or catch up with.

favorite color(s): black and lately i am obsessed with teal and mustard yellow last song: bmth - kingslayer (feat. babymetal) / i totally went crazy when i found out they have a song with babymetal, i was just catching up with bmth after literall years and almost lost my mind (their new stuff is amazing btw) last movie: love actually (i was sad and in a christmas mood okay) last show: rewatching how to get away with murder since s1, cause i only watched first two seasons long time ago and they just updated the final season on our netflix currently reading: about voting rights of women in my counry cause today marks 102 years for us! yay women! go girls! sweet, spicy, or savory: i don’t really eat a lot of sweets cause i can’t, so i think i’d pick spicy if i had to since salty is not an option lmao craving: pizza napoletana and human touch lol coffee or tea: if i had to pick ONE it would be tea, but when i have to ride to the office i need to wake up earlier, so i drink coffee there (they have a fancy coffee machine, so i can make myself a good old americano) / if i had to specify favorite tea is jasmine green or rooibos and coffee just plain americano no milk no sugar

tagging (all the gorgeous kind people that helped me a lot last couple days, you’re all amazing): @waiyv / @taeminnomuyeppeo / @tten / @brathyuck / @fiveseasons / @lovesickgirlz / @jeongjaehyuns / @rveluvs / @shotarao / @xiaocity 

[jentlemahae]

i feel like uve answered mine before but hey <33 libra sun sag moon virgo rising

i feel like your virgo asc cancels out the libra sun so 😌 kiss <3

send me ur sun moon and rising signs n I'll tell u if I'd kiss marry or kill u

[jentlemahae]

not sure whats going on but i would like to add this photo to the sehun sugar daddy discourse

sehun getting that bag secured......good for him 😌✨

[jentlemahae]

🌠

johnny (obviously!) + germany + drawing !!

mutuals send me a 🌠 and i’ll tell you three things i associate you with

[jentlemahae]

hopefully nothing higher than a 3 :(

:(((((( ngl you’re like 3.6! youre intimidating but youre also very babie <3

[hangingfromchandeliers]

WAIT ITS UR BIRTHDAY OMG HAPPY BIRTHDAY SANNE!!!! i hope you have or had the most beautiful day ever!! thank you for being such an amazing person honestly i think i already said this last year but u rly inspire me to be a more positive and happy person. i could literally unfollow my entire dashboard except u and i would still enjoy my tumblr experience just as much as long as youre here . stay smart and sexy and enjoy ur cougar months 💋 i love you!!! ❤️🎉

nita no i forgot about the cougar months... depression

hehe i love you too nita i feel exactly the same way!! you already know i barely follow any johnny stans and im very much fine with that because being a fan of him alongside you is enough for me! you make the whole experience so much more enjoyable. im seriously inspired by how hard you’ve been working for your exams!! i really hope your grades will look amazing and that you can rest a bit (and work on your art! i really want to see more 💖) YOU stay smart and sexy too and know that im always rooting for you! im so happy that i know you 🥰

[jentlemahae]

Who are your fave mutuals? 😶 you asked for it

pskskskks anon whyyyyyyyyyyyy

okayyy so these are just some people i interact with often and often see on my dash <3 (tagged in no particular order!)

@tvonq @nursejennie @xiaocity @gtaplay @gyuh @she @neolude @lovesickgirlz @seungyoune @cloudysuh @shotarao @soogyu-s @chaer @batpinkz @wxnw-n @nctsworld @leemarkies @leemarx @acgust @clxnie @shawtythatsyou @jaebee @emhpathy @limitless2017 @jimjamjaemin @aftrmidnight @baekonbaek @suhkissed @dykeincorporated @markheehee @shin-jiyoon @99lover @curryaboo @lovelyuno @sunmiyah @lleejeno @milfjoy

[jentlemahae]

this is a mutuals mention game! u need to mention one or more mutuals that come to your mind at first when you read the following words (per word): flower, angel, love, chocolate, sweet, cute, gorgeous, fun, sun, moon and stars 💓

cute !!!! 💘💘

flower: @neoszoned @iamacolor

angel: @baekonbaek @nctsworld @seungyoune

love: @99lover

chocolate: i literally cant think of anyone fshsks

sweet: @veonghwa

cute: @xiaocity 

gorgeous: @sonyoungjae

fun: @leemarx @lovesickgirlz @aesopmark @taeminfucks

sun: @fullsuns @nctdream

moon and stars: @tvonq (i always associate your taeyong tag with stars!) @moonbvul

[jentlemahae]

rules: bold the statements that apply to you, italicize your aspirations, then tag 9 people

AIR

i have small hands / i love the night sky / i watch small animals and birds when i pass them by / i drink herbal tea / i wake to see dawn / the smell of dust is comforting / i’m valued for being wise / i prefer books to music / i meditate / i find joy in learning new truths from the world around me

FIRE

i don’t have straight hair / i like to wear ripped jeans and overalls / i play an organized sport / i love dogs / i am not afraid of adventure / i love to talk to strangers / i always try new foods / i enjoy road trips / summer is my favorite season / my radio is always playing

WATER

i wear bracelets on my wrists / i love the bustle of the city / i have more than one set of piercings / i read poetry / i love the sound of a thunderstorm / i want to travel the world / i sleep *til* midday most days / i love dimly lit diners and fluorescent signs / i rewatch kids’ shows out of nostalgia / i see emotions in colors not words

EARTH

i wear glasses or contacts / i enjoy doing the laundry / i am a vegetarian or vegan / i have an excellent sense of time / my humor is very cheerful / i am a valued advisor to my friends / i believe in true love / i love the chill of mountain air / i’m always listening to music / i am highly trusted by the people in my life

AETHER

i go without makeup in my daily life / i make my own artwork / i keep on track of my tasks and finish them on time / I always know true north / i see beauty in everything / i can always smell flowers / i smile at everyone i pass / i always fear history repeating itself / i have recovered from a mental disorder / i can love unconditionally

tagged by: @seungyoune @fckbbh @jissoyaa @99lover @gowone

tagging: @ahlove @lovesickgirlz @tvonq @baekonbaek @90loves @taeminfucks @xiaocity @curryaboo @iamacolor @she

[hangingfromchandeliers]

do you have any johnny blogs to recommend following? i'm following less than 20 people right now and my recommended blogs is just full of fic writers :( unfortunately i do not have it me to be the y/n in a bullet point drabble

hi angel! i know... i hate the nct johnny tag man how about you freaks #imagine johnny doing a clay mask and getting a good night’s rest instead

@lovesickgirlz nita is like my ride or die favourite johnny fan i dont think ive ever disagreed with her opinions on nct content. incredible taste and on top of that she’s so sweet and funny! i feel like we’ve both been here for so long. why haven’t we moved on to another man yet... junji ito’s the enigma of amigara fault except our two designated holes are johnny’s nostrils

@johnnysuhs ari is SO sweet such a joy to talk to! she’s been my steady source of johnny gifs since miss nakamotens left us :( ari’s blog is like the morning paper to me! i’m sure you follow her already but if you don’t please go ahead! she’s so kind and makes the most beautiful crystal clear and smooth gifs!

@jsuh pixie is another super talented gifmaker who i feel always gives her gifs such a recognizable and unique edge to it! so even if she says that she’s too late to gif a video i still always look forward to what she makes. so talented! on top of that she’s super funny and so dedicated too!! if i was johnny i’d feel so lucky to have her as a fan

@kareura karla is SO FUNNY she’s made me laugh out loud so many times! not strictly a johnny blog but that makes it even better because she just has great taste in general. sometimes i see she’s reblogged a johnny gifset and i get excited to scroll down and read her tags omg

@gyuhug another not strictly 100% johnny blog but i know she also likes the big man and also writes the funniest things in the tags. elina is one of those people you start to follow because you have similar interests but that’s super quickly eclipsed by how you end up following her for her personality. an incredibly kind and optimistic presence on my dash!

[smolie]

tagged by @lightofloves tysm!!!

tagging @ltycupid @lovesickgirlz @hotsharkgirl2000​ @jsuh​ @scorpioszn​ you dont have to do this if you dont wanna <3

named after someone? my mom got the inspo from a movie but she cannot remember the name of it lol last time you cried? last sunday ahaha do you have any kids? no do you use sarcasm a lot? hmm sometimes what’s the first thing you notice about people? height -> eyes -> voice eye color? brown scary movie or happy ending? happy ending any special talent? i have a double jointed thumb...is that a talent lol party trick i guess what country were you born in? germany what are your hobbies? pc collecting, photography, writing, trying new recipes do you have any pets? i have a cat and a dog but they live with my family what sports do you play/have you played? i used to dance ballet and hip hop how tall are you? 171cm / 5 foot 7 favorite subject at school? english and german dream job? uhhhhhh none really.....lul