#lovemymini

[whatt-the-cuss]

❤️🖤 Mother and Daughter from the start. Best Friends forever from the Heart 🖤❤️ I love matching with my Mini! Aren’t those headbands just the cutest thing?! I love them so much! If you want a pair of your own visit @themommyandmeco and use code 𝐛𝐮𝐧𝐧𝐲_𝐝𝐞𝐞 at checkout to get 𝟒𝟎% off your purchase. Available for boys and girls alike in a variety of prints, so mommies of boys you can match your mini’s too! You’ll also receive free shipping worldwide 💕 ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ ⁣ #TheMommyAndMeCo #MomLife #GirlMom #BoyMom #Matching #Parenting #Headband #BabyHeadband #CuteBaby #Adorable #BabyFever #LoveMyMini #Mommy&Mini https://www.instagram.com/p/B9cu28yBeVe/?igshid=10yleukfgbjyv

[health-coach-adrienne]

It's safe to say skybug loves her new ride.. with the working DVD player oh yea.. she's amazed lol #blessedmomma #lovemymini #gorgeousgirl #growinguptoofast #fordchick #tattooedmom #wildnfree #livelife #explorelife #vacationmood #loved #adoredskylar #shesmychick (at Mingo County, West Virginia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B7e0zRypQH8/?igshid=ag1d6d2zn2lv

[ccustode]

Hit the road, Jack ✌️it’s amazing all of my gear fits #theresapianointhere #lovemymini #minicountryman #girlswhodriveminis @minigirlsclub @mini #girl #musician #pianist #originalmusic

[iowamamaof3]

#minicooper #halo #sunrise #lovemymini #sunshine

[tekurabliss-blog]

PROUD MOM POST!!! Lacey got awards for participating in the art contest! She submitted a painting (acrylic on canvas) for the visual arts category and an original poem for the literature category. The hero she painted and wrote about? Me 🥰#lovemymini #shesamazing #laceylin #dontforgetthefunches #proudmom #soblessed #loveherlife https://www.instagram.com/p/BuzN7C0gtq_Ebd1P1CDAVnECRm_AT_peZqcaUc0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=hvs47wfrwhvr

[lanagriese]

#lovemymini #minicooper #convertiblelife https://www.instagram.com/p/BtgpxfmnXjr/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=11wpjfgjl7dzb

[tamrah-reneigh]

Christmas Break!!!! Making pizza to celebrate! #christmasbreak #homemadepizza #makingmemories #lovemyminis https://www.instagram.com/p/B6T4CkuJdCb/?igshid=bnondpcu8nq1

[datingdummies-blog]

Single Parent

To boldly go where no man or woman has ever gone before?  Well you already know thats a lie with this type because not only has another man or woman already gone there, but they have even made a couple of bonus mini human/s to boot.  Spoiler alert, they're not a virgin and the days of being a “reborn virgin” and still being able to get away with it are long gone.  You can bet that with this type you are not taking the “easy” way out by any means and things will be challenging.  They come with not so easy to carry baggage. (approx 10-200lbs a piece, actually) The type of baggage that an airplane would tell you, you need a seat for. Its also extremely frowned upon and disruptive to the others when you try to stow it away in the upper compartment of the airplane and even more so when you try and just carry it on hoping it fits the specs. 

I’ll never forget the first day I really felt every single letter of the phrase “single mom.” I remember coming off of a 12 hour shift as a graveyard 911 dispatcher.  I was completely drained of any and all energy, had piles of laundry stacking up and my kids were due to be home in just a few short hours.  I was faced with a moment of choosing sleep or responsibility.  I remember staring at the pile of laundry wishing it would just fold itself or I had a partner to help me with that dirty, judgmental pile of laundry, but I had no one.  No one would be there to say “honey I got it, you rest” or “babe, go take a bath I got this.”  (Not that when I was married those phrases were ever mentioned anyway, except maybe in fantasies that ended in me sleeping and him cleaning). So I did what any other single mom probably does when faced with the same conundrum.  I slammed the door in the face of that bully pile of laundry and decided I would no longer allow things like piles of laundry to fold shame me in my own home.  I was a single mom now and things were going to change.  I mean my kids maybe had to sleep on that pile of clothes for a couple of weeks but ultimately I feel I won that battle.  I know to some of you, you're like who cares?  Anyone who knows me knows this bugged me regardless of my tough gangster posts about not caring.  I am mildly OCD and a pretty clean and responsible person so this moment was my ok, you just can't do it all moment and something had to give.

Being a single parent is tough work.  Generally we were put on this earth to procreate. Which also means the general idea of the situation is two parents, maybe even four parents when your parents eventually get remarried.  However being a single parent, you're just that, single, alone and doing a meant to be two person job.  You’re not allowed to look around and run pretending thats not  your kid in aisle ten at the store on the ground kicking and screaming about a candy bar.  When the dirty looks start coming my way when my kid is throwing a fit I just try to blend into the crowd and give dirty looks at the other parents pretending that whosever kid that is, better stop this shit show now because its downright embarrassing for that parent. Unfortunately for me and when the store clerk reviews the film and realizes its my kid, he requires me to take responsibility.  Possibly your kid might even call you out with a simple trail of tears while walking behind your grocery cart pathetically calling out to the candy bar that at the end of the shopping trip you will shamefully give in to, because as much as we enjoyed the store shit show we don't also want it to turn into the car ride home shit show.  

When reflecting on my childhood and thinking of the many good cartoon movies or shows that were available to me I remember the single parents in Disney and Pixar films.  Sadly, if you really think about the movies you watched as a kid, the mom is usually dying and the dad is left with the children. I believe it’s because Disney knows the most common person who stays home and cares for the kid is the mom so when you kill the mom off, the dad is left to not only play one role but two, and having to watch him be sensitive and vulnerable while still mourning the loss of his wife is just rough to watch but also makes for a good movie.  Typically women are better at showing, sharing and soothing their child’s emotions.   So while I know a man is capable of these things, Disney is cashing into the idea that watching a man do it is more entertaining or at least a lot more interesting for viewers to watch him try to  wear the many hats that can make up a single parent.  

When you sit down and really think about single parents in terms of cartoons. You will start to see so many more cartoons in a different light, because when you watched them as a kid you probably didn't give it a second thought.  SpongeBob, they have Mr.Crabs and his Whale daughter.  Not sure how this happened.  Maybe nickelodeon can explain this tale for us someday? Toy Story, it was Ms.Davis we never saw a dad so we have to assume death or divorce.  Aladdin, Jasmine’s dad was a single father.  Even down to Nintendo thinking of Mario Bros.  King Koopa had a million children but no Queen Koopa?! We don't even get an explanation on that one. Finding Nemo we all watched and maybe even shed a tear when the mom tried to protect her babies and ended up getting eaten leaving the dad alone to watch his one remaining child Nemo with his gimp fin on his own.  

in real life, cartoons, video games and movies one thing rings true for this type. They always put their kids first.  When you have a true blue solid single parent, you will always be second until you earn the right to share the number one spot with the kid/s.  This type is pretty known for their “flakiness” and how busy they tend to be.  Please don't lose faith in them.  They probably like you but once again they are putting their kids first.  Also babysitters are hard to find, trust and the cost is getting more expensive as the years go by.  

I think its important to address the initial asking of the question “Do you like kids?”  There is a huge difference between liking kids and actually being capable and willing to someday help raise them.  Yes you need to know that you're capable and wanting to be with the mother or father but the next thing you need to figure out is if you're capable of loving those kids and treating them as your own someday.  If you don't think you're up for that challenge, you need to let this amazing, strong, and independent woman or man go.  They don't have time for you, nor the energy to exert on catering to your needs.  When actually going on a date don't plan for a late night if they have their kids that night.  The typical babysitter watches the kids for about 4-6 hours tops and thats going to run the mom or dad about 50-100 dollars a pop.  So if you're a lady and he pays for you, please thank him at the end of the night and show your appreciation.  Going out with you cost him a good amount of money and he had to have been excited about you to be capable and willing to do that.  

Parents have curfews, and while we don't turn into a monster or a pumpkin at midnight we do end up losing lots of sleep.  Kids don't understand, nor should have to that mom or dad went out drinking last night and have a hangover that most people would be able to nurse all day.  But this type needs to buck up, put his or her panties on and be able to make breakfast and entertain these mini humans however they deem fit.  When they decide to leave you alone for a millisecond and the world goes quiet and you get a five minute power nap, you’ll be sure to wake up to your walls covered in peanut butter, your stove is smoking and the smoke alarm is undoubtedly going off. 

Another warning for the wise with this type is never, ever get involved with the ex and any drama that might come with these children.  Be the support, but never make yourself known to the issue.  It will only hurt your ex in the long run, any future possible friendship with the other half of the parenting equation and really it does no one favors especially the children involved.  Staying neutral is your best bet when it comes to anything with the ex. The single parent most commonly dates other single parents as well.  Single dad and moms just get each other already.  They understand their place and that the partner can't just drop everything and go out just because its taco Tuesday, hump Wednesday or thirsty Thursday. They also know they are capable of loving children and knowing the amount of work that goes into kids. When it comes to meshing the two families together it seems it could cause for some interesting combinations and you might need a bigger house for your Brady bunch sequel to continue.  However I think in the long run single parents finding each other is a beautiful thing.  I have also heard of many success stories built around a single mom or dad finding a completely kidless capable adult as well.  So really its dealers choice on this one and only you holding your hand can say whether or not you'd like to fold.  Make your choices wisely parents, this person will help mold these babies in the amazing human they will be someday.  

I have to say dating a single mom or dad does come with its perks!  I know I always carry some form of entertainment (like a hot wheels car or crayons) in my purse with me along with a countless number of snacks and I usually have juice boxes in my car for emergencies.  You probably were first attracted to this type because they're capable and determined, independent and strong and basically an all around life conquering badass. Yes they're complicated people at times and the situation you're entering does come with its challenges but ultimately they are gorgeous, loving, fulfilling, soul expanding, incredible people and you're lucky they want you to be apart of their life and their kids lives.  If they've chosen you to help mold these mini humans you know you're an important, worth while person that they are trusting.  So I leave you with this if you are dating this type currently, please always remember that the reason children have so much energy is because they're currently siphoning all of yours and their mom or dads energy like midget gasoline thieves.  

[sherleyvazquezbeauty]

With my beautiful mini... love her to pieces. Can’t believe next month she will be 10!!!!!! Ahhhhhh a decade of loving you & watching you grow into a wonderful & mischievous young lady. My first born you will always be so you have such a special place in my heart. You taught me more than I have taught you. #soblessed #lovemymini #likemommylikedaughter

[scarlitbloome-blog]

My little red Mini and her soulmate😘be-beep💋 . . . . #minicooper #redminicooper #yellowminicooper #loveatfirstsight #soulmates #redcar #yellowcar #unitedlove #socute #lovemycar #lovemymini (at Whole Foods Market)

[danweik]

Love ❤️ from my love... #PreciousMoments #BabyLove ##DaddyDaughterLove #LoveMyMini (at True Food Kitchen)

[april12279]

I just added this listing on Poshmark: 8/20💕@lovemymini💕HAPPY MONDAY😎LET'S PLAY😗TY!. #poshmark #fashion #shopping #shopmycloset

[health-coach-adrienne]

My girl😍😘🥰 #lovemymini https://www.instagram.com/p/B3pbE1DAS-B/?igshid=1jlh35gaata9c

[luvleygrl1-blog]

This closet is awesome! Shop lovemymini's latest listings on Poshmark! Join with code: LUVLEYGRL1 for a $5 credit! https://bnc.lt/focc/ot1eBvcXdP #poshmark #fashion #shopping

[ifucouldcmeidbflippinuoff-blog]

I just discovered this while shopping on Poshmark: 4/10 Love Lapin @lovemymini . Check it out! https://bnc.lt/focc/aU419aoo0L #poshmark #fashion #shopping

[lovebellarose]

Came in for an oil change. Drooling over 4 different models now. @baronmini . . . . . #bettermileage #lovemymini #minicooper #bestofkc #sportycars #funtodrive http://ift.tt/2v63byC