#love you ace anon and I hope that pressure you feel to conform to allosexual society dissolves into a million butterflies 🦋 💖 💗 💕

[ladycynthiana]

I’m put off by how hard randl push that sexual apprehension and repulsion, literally no matter what, is backwards and reprehensible. I used to forgive it thinking they were overcompensating for their own background and historical brand image, but nowadays they seem like the type of men that say things like “sex is the most human thing in existence” and you’d have to be repressed to not feel the same. I hate being an ace fan, I’m back to being peer-pressured to “overcome” my authentic self again

I don't know if you listen to Ear Biscuits, but they did bring up asexuality in the sextember episodes. I think Rhett said it was something he's still learning about, but it seemed like it was important for him to mention that not wanting sex was also fine, and that he was speaking from his own experience and trying not to be prescriptive for everyone, just give advice for people who are like him. (Very very allosexual)

There is nothing wrong with you anon, and you don't have to try to be anything you are not! I'm here for my fellow aces to know you are not alone in this community.

I always appreciate when Link emphasizes consent. NO ONE should be having sex they don't want to have. And I think that they'd agree that LOVE is the most human thing in existence, and to love someone fully is to respect their knowledge of their own self, including your asexuality.